Embarassing the Angels

I ran across this article today and it articulated well many thoughts that have floated through my head of late.  Some dear friends and I have been hashing out our thoughts about the writings of a well-known ministry who have taken great pains to expose the aberrant behaviors of too many people.  While we must be educated there was something that was rubbing me wrong about these articles, namely the vulgar descriptions which left nothing to the imagination.  We DO need to be informed.  We do not need to be assaulted.

Peggy Noonan’s article hit the nail on the head.  She issues a plea for a return to dignity, particularly that dignity that used to be reserved for ladies.  She explains that as a society we are becoming desensitized to this vulgarity in both language and behavior. She also helped me to feel less embarassed about my embarassment if that makes sense.  Check it out if you have a moment: Embarassing the Angels

Flash Bang

Lake_starry_sky2 BOOOM!  That was that last thing we heard when the lights went out last night.  Now, lights going out is not generally a newsworthy item in our corner of the world.  Winter snow, spring winds, summer storms and random acts of God regularly shut the grid down around here. Usually it’s up and running in short order. It was cloudy when we began dinner last night.  By mid-meal we were eating by candlelight and the rain pounded the metal roof above us.  The storm was intense, as prairie storms often are, and soon we had a wall of water all around. The lightning was incredible. With this much sky you see a LOT of it.

So, the rain falls and the house finally cools and little people are put to bed by the flickering light. Around this time son number two calls from a cell phone saying his ride home got stuck on the road about two miles down. (Like many rural Coloradans we live on a dirt road.Rain navigation is a challenge)   Dh got the 4 wheel drive and tow chain and went to retrieve them.  The poor guy who brought him home from work was sitting in his car in over a foot of water. The ditch filled quickly and so did the car. : /  Allen got them out and down to pavement again and came home with Zach.

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That was when he noticed that we were the only ones around us who had no lights.  That is not a good sign when you own your utilities. A call to the power company confirmed it was likely a direct hit to our pole.  The one on our property.  The one they charge you to repair. : P  They were on their way.  Not to worry, they would be there in about two hrs. <g>  Did I mention our power company serves just about the entire Eastern half of the state?  Sometime around midnite we awoke to the power truck in the yard and the lights came on again. 

A couple interesting things happened.  First was waking up to Lake Starry Sky and other local attractions (see pics), such as the army of bullfrogs croaking across the road. I hope they are feasting on mosquito larva as I type! Lake Starry Sky is a temporary phenomenon.  The ground under the water is rock hard so today is the safest day to play in it.  With any luck it will slowly sink into the pasture and bring us lots of green grass. In the meantime it made for giddy kids and a well-pleased shutterbug of a mom. It was one of those ‘never forget’ mornings.

The second was realizing my emergency kit was sorely in need of restocking. Little people have been taking dead batteries out of flashlights and putting them back in the battery box. : o  Will be fixing that right quick.  So do yourselves a favor and go check your flashlights everyone! For fun you might want to join your kids in this virtual preparedness tutorial.  Looks like a lotta help around here. Ready Kids

ShoesWishing you all a ‘never forget’ day.  : )

Belly Watch 17+ weeks

17_weeks Nothing exciting here – just documenting my expansion for the girlfriends out there. : )   Here is today’s spread.  Am at 17+ weeks though the belly is measuring a couple weeks ahead of that again this time.  I think the white dress has the same effect on the midsection as white jeans used to have on the backside…..  Ah well.

Quiet – inside and out

Twilight Tonight is one of those nights you treasure. Sun sinking low in the sky, kids chasing bugs and playing in the water from the hose, not a sound for miles other than their voices. Not a sound in my head other than happy thoughts. It has been a hectic couple of weeks. I love to travel, though I love errands far less, and in general I am becoming very protective of home time. It is a precious commodity in a hurried age, little appreciated in our quest to do ‘more’.

Old friends and I have been discussing upcoming schoolyear plans lately and the recurrent question is usually "Is it enough?" Followed by "Should we be doing more?" Basking in the glow of the setting sun tonight the only answer I could come up with is there ‘more’ than this? Can you find this someplace else? Would it be better?

A thread on 4Real this week was contemplating the normalized child. In Montessori terms this would be a child who is collected, calm, focused. All good things. I have been thinking about this all day and wondering if it is even possible to impart those things to a child if we are not those things ourselves? I am not sure there is a book, method, or technique that could ever come close to imparting those qualities half as well as having a beloved parent demonstrating them gently, surely, day in and out. That is a stiff challenge however. It is much easier to instruct than to demonstrate. However, while we search for answers in methodology books or curriculum lists we often miss an unparalleled opportunity to quiet ourselves and give them more than we can imagine.

For a lot of my teaching and parenting years I was in the *more* cycle. So many opportunities abound for homeschoolers today. So many classes, support groups, clubs, teams. But inevitably it was the home team that lost when we became committed to those things. It is clear to us that for every day we are away from home it takes another day for us to recover and get back on track. It now has to be an awfully worthwhile activity to warrant upsetting that peace we have found while moving at a slower pace. I guess this is all part of my ongoing goal to do a few things well. Less really is becoming more for us these days. Not only are we enjoying the things we do immensely, but we are gaining quiet – inside and out.

Discounted Homeschool Book

Companion_cover I have a couple copies left of the Catholic Homeschool Companion available at $21 postpaid.  My son and I were contributors and we bought a few extra copies for our homeschool group.  These are what is left if anyone would like one. The book is a meaty several hundred pages packed with testimonials and stories from the field so to speak.  I love this type of book which compiles dozens of stories from varied walks of life vs one person’s theory.  Shoot me an email if you are interested.  : )

Catching Up

Ren3_1 Whew!  What a week or two. My mother was in town last week and I think we were out every day travelling around Colorado.  Saw some awesome places – between the rain lol!  The prairie has recieved so much rain in recent weeks we actually are growing mushrooms! That latter part was a boon to us since we are smack dab in the middle of a plant unit. Everything is suddenly green for which we are eternally grateful. Ren_5_2

We moved the last chick into the coop this week much to her chagrin. She really had no idea what a chicken was, having never seen one. She has bonded with Alannah and does indeed hop on her shoulder like Jen’s sister.  She spent her first night in the coop huddled in a corner only coming out to leap on Alannah when she checked in on her.

Speaking of chickens, Bleu Cheese the rooster has met his maker. : /  He was a beautiful bird by all accounts but he got it into his bird brain to attack the baby.  Can’t have that. So that was the end of him unfortunately. 

My first baby boy turned 20 last week moving us into our third decade of parenting ; o  Of course you now know what a youthful bride I was thanks to dh’s post lolol! I still can’t believe he did that.  But yes, we had our anniversary last week also and thank you for the lovely wishes!  Colin was born the same day the next year.  He is in the thick of prep to leave for Arizona next month. Hopefully his mother can pull herself together by then. How DO people manage that whole thing??  Be prepared for a long sobby note afterwards. : (

One quick link – my friend Genevieve sent the Little City Kids Lesson Plans page to me this week.  What a treasure trove!  They sell Montessori supplies but also have a day program I believe.  They have recently uploaded a couple months worth of daily plans. They are unit studies essentially with Montessori work woven into each day.  They are a great resource if you have multiple aged students.  If you only have younger kids they may be of mixed value. I intend to use them though not as written exactly.  Of course I don’t use ANYthing as written lol!  My impression is that you may not be able to get to a hands on art project each day though these beg to be fit into the schedule some time during the week. Also, the finger plays and action work are very appropriate for little people.  The history and science lessons are sometimes written above their level.  Perfect for a varied age group, less so for strictly preschoolers.  But do take a look and see if they work for you!  I love the layout of the plans and think the template would be very adaptable and useful for homeschool planning. Thanks Gen!

Will leave you with a few pics from the past week of the Cripple Creek Gold mine district, the Renaissance Fest (a bit more Goth than Renaissance : o   )  and the kids’ new caterpiller.  Or maybe I won’t. My computer is on the blink and upload seems to be stuck now too.  It is making a noise similar to the one my son’s car makes.  Considering the computer doesnt have a muffler I am guessing that is a bad sign….. 

Lucky 21

To my dear wife

Memories are forever…

1985Imperfect 4-inch underwear squares

Pay phone marriage proposals

UW-Milwaukee one day, Germany the next

Autobahn hospital drives with no muffler

Fast deliveries

Child #1 on Anniversary #1

Life between boxes – 14 houses in 18 years

9lb, 10oz baby boy

Goodbyes at the airport…Joyful hugs 4 to 6 months later

1986Missing baby Brendan’s birth

Arguments over unfolded maps

Unexpected home delivery–you should have listened to me

Dad’s 21 gun salute—you holding my hand

Flooded house, emergent surgeries, car accidents, 3rd trimester pregnancies, broken down cars – all by yourself

Seeing your smiling face… Marathon finishes, College diplomas, Military promotions, Retirement day, Every day when I come home from work

1987Goat “assisted” deliveries

Baking in the hot sun during wheelchair track meets

Search for the infamous septic tank

Moira’s coffee burn

I’yi and Aushaus (so, how do you actually spell that?)

Tennis racquet’s do in fact make a mighty fine weapon

The constant sound of a piano

Broken down Suburban’s at 3pm on the 3rd of July in the middle of Nebraska

Our 1st girl1990

Neighborhood kids in our yard, even when we’re not home

RV camping

Russelsheim, Dayton, San Antonio, Layton, Newport News, Colorado Springs

Nutrisystem

Honey Do’s

My dream truck – too easy!

Checkerboard manicured yards and flowers

2am ceiling collapse

Star Wars and lightsabers

Hoover, Blue, Charlie, Chelsea, Lucy, Satch, Emma, Angel, Ruby, Wally – need I say more?

2 male neighbors with swimming pool1998

L2000izards on the wall

Nightly rosaries

Eating baked chicken at Whole Foods

Palmer Lake reservoir

Flintwood Ridge – our 1st house

B&B’s

Annual Turkey Dance

Happy Anniversary Hon.  I love you so 2006_1much!  Allen

On top of the world

Just a quick post.  Grandma is visiting so time is short this week.  However, Allen and the girls trekked to the half-way point of Pike’s Peak this past wknd.  Alannah had committed to going and then Moira wanted to join.  She insisted she could make it and she was right!  Though her feet took a beating. : /  We need to invest in some serious hiking gear, especially since they have decided to train for the 14-ers next. 

So here are a few shots from one of the most beautiful places we know. : ) 100_2098 100_2108_1 100_2111