Homeschool Meme

I got tagged <g>

1) ONE HOMESCHOOLING BOOK YOU HAVE ENJOYED;

One??  Are you serious?? Will the meme police come and get me if I can’t pick just one? ; ) 

I love The Successful Homeschool Family Handbook by Dr Raymond Moore. His 3-pronged approach (short concentrated academics, work at home, service to others) is sensible and balanced. He advocates delayed academics, which might seem out of place in a Montessori-inspired homeschool. However Montessori is all about spontaneous education vs imposed. And if you have all little ones it is important to hear this message that noone is going to miss the educational boat if you can only devote short spurts to academics in the lower grades and that home comes first in homeschooling.

On that note, my next pick is…

Real Learning by Elizabeth Foss. The book I would have written had I ever written a book lol!  The book that launched our friendship.  I am as grateful for that part as for the content.

and finally…

A Charlotte Mason Companion by Karen Andreola. A calming, encouraging, gentle read. (Ishould be hyperlinking but I need to get to the barn.  It’s all in the sidebars if you scroll down.)

2)ONE RESOURCE YOU WOULDN’T BE WITHOUT

Our library system!  It was a huge consideration in choosing a permanent home. We have one of the best systems in the country imo.  And the bookmobile…. God bless whomever thought of that! I order whatever strikes our fancy and it appears on Mondays.  Doesn’t get much better than that!

3)ONE RESOURCE YOU WISH YOU HAD NEVER BOUGHT

Well there are fewer and fewer of those since I don’t buy much anymore. I would have to say primarily daily lesson plans. I HAVE bought lots of those. Never actually finished them however. They weren’t a complete wash because they showed me some critical things – first, that there is little to no standardization among schools. What is taught, how it is taught, how much is assigned is all extremely subjective. Second, I learned great teaching tips over the years that were incorporated into our lessons.

4)ONE RESOURCE YOU ENJOYED LAST YEAR:

Home Educator’s Tutor Magazine (!) and our journals.  I regret we didn’t give as much time to either of them as I would have liked hence….

5)ONE RESOURCE YOU WILL BE USING NEXT YEAR:

See above <g>   We plan to notebook more extensively and to make better use of the HET resource. It includes music (with a CD each issue) art pullouts, nature study, lit, ancient world, bible study and more in one place. No denominational biases noticed.  As for notebooking, I have become convinced that nothing is more effective than writing and editing for mastering language. And I dont want to invest loads of time into stuff that will be thrown out. (ie workbks) We are also looking forward to the Signing Time videos.  They are a huge hit around here!

6)ONE RESOURCE YOU WOULD LIKE TO BUY:

a new piano!  Oh we need a new piano. Music practice figures heavily into our days. At least one child wishes to pursue it as a career. We need a new piano. Should I not be able to purchase said piano, next on the list is quality paints and paper. Odds seem weighted in favor of the latter don’t they?

; D

7) ONE RESOURCE YOU WISH EXISTED:

An extra hour or two each day! I find soooo many things in life fascinating and just can’t fit them all in a given day or week or month.

8)ONE HOMESCHOOLING CATALOGUE YOU ENJOYING READING:

hmmm.  I don’t read many anymore.  Keeps the overhead down. <g>  Rainbow Resources is my favorite one stop shop.  It’s like a phone bk with detailed descriptions of each product. Also like Timberdoodle and I do spend lots of hours over the Nienhuis catalog, though more for making materials than for buying them.

9)ONE HOMESCHOOLING WEBSITE YOU USE REGULARLY:

google!  Ok so it’s not a homeschool site per se.  But where would a frugal homeschooler be without google??  Daily use here! Never buy before you google your options.

10)TAG FIVE OTHER HOMESCHOOLERS:

Jen

Dani

Maura

can’t think nor link more…gotta get to the goats.  Have a good one all!

It’s raining frogs

Frog Ok so maybe I am not as gung ho about nature study as I purport to be. Turns out there is a limit.  Our friends own the property directly across from us which is currently vacant land with a giant stock pond. The kids have been watching the tadpoles grow for a few weeks now.  BIG old tadpoles! Like the shooter marbles you use to hit the other ones. Our friends were commenting about where the frogs go when they are frogs.  Do they stay at the pond or wander off?  Ask no more. Please <g>

Questions a queasy pregnant woman does not want to answer:

"Mom, did you lose a frog?" (Z, upon walking down the hall after work)

"How do you suppose they got in the house?"

"It’s like what God did to those people in the bible!"

"Did you know they get to be the size of a man’s hand?"

"How do you suppose they eat mice?"

and my favorite….

"Can we keep it???"

Nuh uh.  Not this time. But if you are less prone than I to vomiting at the sight of them leaping at your slider doors in the rain you might like this site:

All About Frogs

Thinking outside the (craft) box

Coloring_fairmount_small Been busy this week.  We weren’t really thinking through the logistics of Asher and Alannah going along to AZ with Allen.  That left just Aidan and Moira and the baby most of the time, which would be fine in the suburbs.  It meant some creative arrangements for barn chores though since the baby had to be watched and none of us can lift a full 5gal water bucket at the moment. I have decided that there was no need to schedule separate aerobics classes in agrarian societies however!  Whew! What a challenge! 

Anyway, got several notes about the redwork this week and wanted to get you thinking about the possibilities. As usual I would not recommend buying much.  And don’t limit yourself to the traditional stitchery patterns.  Any outline illustrations can conceivably be used. For you children’s illustration lovers consider these resources:

Tomie de Paola coloring pages

mary engelbreit coloring (the simple drawings work best)

patricia polacco

Beatrix Potter

How much nicer to fill a child’s room with these images than with cartoons and marketing images. Many coloring books will yield good patterns for stitching as well.  Look around your home.  I bet you have more options than you think!

More on Redwork

Redwork I recieved a note today commenting on the redwork. I am sending along a few more links in case you would like to learn more. The dye used originally came from Turkey.  If you are an antique buff you might recall the term "turkey work" to refer to the embroidered pillow shams with catchy slogans such as "I slept and dreamt that life was beauty." and then on the next, "I woke to find that life was duty." Growing up with a lover of old things I saw lots of those shams and tea towels in magazines displayed on old iron beds with patchwork quilts. My twin bed sported a blue redwork (yes they really call it that ; )) sham with a cherub all the years I lived at home.

The pieces are worked much like cross stitch. You use an embroidery needle, plain 100% cotton, and a two strand floss for regular work and 1strand for details. The basic stitches are backstitch, stemstitch, and french knots. The first link shows how to do them all. We transferred our first pattern today and Moira (9) is moving through it with ease. This is a keeper craft! : )

Redwork Primer

history of redwork

redwork boys and girls

colonial redwork downloads

freebies

Free Patterns

Links

Thumb   Friends have shared some lovely links this week. The first is from Small Meadow Press which carries vintage style stationary products. The owner has uploaded her home learning notes as free pdf files. Click on the store link and then scroll down. These are so pretty you won’t want to miss them. Thanks to Louise for this catch!

Dog1_1_3_   Next is a vintage embroidery pattern company, Pattern Bee, which was featured at Sparrows Nest this week. They sell iron-on transfers to make oh-so-cute kitchen towels, hot pads, aprons, you name it. There is a sizeable freebie section included. Just print and begin! We stopped by Walmart to gather some needles and transfer pens to begin the nursery rhyme quilt blocks. They lend themselves to redwork and seem much easier than the redwork pattern book I bought for us at Joann’s. 

   Finally Baker Lane is a pattern company which Jen found. They apparently sold made to wear clothing at one time but now are releasing their designs as patterns. I am hopeful more will be published soon. Right now there is a maternity dress that looks like it would be adaptable to varied sizes.

“There Goes My Hero…

…watch him as he goes…."  (Foo Fighters)

The truck turned south and is heading to Arizona with computer hardware, music cds, philosophy books, lots of clothes, and my heart. As I sit here processing that, I just wanted to thank everyone who has supported us this week. It was wrenching as expected, though our family has gotten pretty good at goodbye. Heaven knows we have had a lot of opportunity to practice that over the years.  In fact it was exactly two years ago that I stood pregnant and watched my husband head off to war. The difference this time is that while I am as accustomed as one ever gets to saying goodbye to my husband, I have never said goodbye to one of my babies. I am not sure when you get accustomed to that, but it’s fair to say it won’t be today.

This farewell is also clouded with the knowledge that his little brother turns 18 next week and is chomping at the bit to get out in the world. Part of me feels like there is a neon sign over this date in my calendar saying "Empty Nest Starts Here!"  Still, it’s been a rare blessing to carry new life just as my boys are beginning new lives of their own. God is merciful!

Please say a prayer that the world is gentle with my sons.  And if you have one to spare please add an intention for their mother. Wherever you are, please know your love carries us through.  We appreciate you! 

Is there a rule?

…..that you have to wait until your first child actually gets in the car to leave for college before you fall apart?  I’m thinking there must be a pregnancy clause if so. True to form I am getting a jumpstart. 12 hrs and counting….  Gotta go get a kleenex.  : (

Some scenes from the ranch:

B_and_c Luggage Stuff

Semi-Homemade: skirts

I must tell you right off that I am not a skilled seamstress. “Jimmy-rig” is my middle name however (or is that “cheapskate”?) and I take a certain delight in the whole “repurposing” process. We have had ample opportunity of late to practice our repurposing skills on our wardrobes. We wear lots of skirts and they are just getting harder and harder to find at a decent price, especially in our daughters’ sizes. Dear friend Jen remarked the other day, after a trip to a large chain store, that the outfits they had in those sizes were more of a spoof on the schoolgirl image than supportive of it. Maternity clothes seem to have that same edginess to them these days. So what is a girl to do? For us, it means the same thing it means with our school materials, find uncommon uses for common materials.

(disclaimer: My sewing skills are pretty much limited to straight and zigzag stitch, casings, and hems. You will not likely find more complicated instructions on this site any time soon! So put your mind at ease before we begin!)

Pant_leg The first project was actually the most complex. We attempted to convert a pair of jeans into an A-line skirt. You can find directions here and here. They basically go as follows: First you rip the inseams of the legs. You literally take the seams out as opposed to cutting into the fabric. This is important. It is also rather tedious. I had flashbacks to the old Sears and Roebuck tv ads with the robot challenging the knees and rumps of the jeans…….   Don’t date myself, I know!  Anyway you tear those bad boys out and continue seam ripping until you are Overlap_and_pinabout 8in below the waist band, or an inch or so below the zipper, (my pics show maternity panel) front and back. Next you overlap the inseams and move the panels that were previously pant legs together until you have the angle desired for the finished skirt.

    Take note, here is a HANDY HINT: if this is the first time you have tried on said jeans in a good while you may experience no small amount of distress at this point upon discovering that the width of your new skirt no longer matches the width of your old body.  Don’t ask me how I know this.  

                                                      

Insert  Assuming you were more forward thinking, and the new angle both fits and pleases you – versus, say, compelling you to drown your disappointment in something chocolate- then go ahead and pin those panels in place. You pin coordinating fabric – either from a second pair of jeans or from a remnant of another fabric, as shown in the other links, into the triangular space between the leg panels.  Sew along the seams with the old seams turned under. Hem the bottom. That is all there is to it! If you have not tried on your jeans prior to that aforementioned pinning point you may find yourself unable to produce end photos for this project. Don’t ask me how I know that either.  Just follow the links if you would!

   A far simpler project has been altering existing skirts and this we have been wildly successful in doing. As my disclaimer stated my sewing skills are rudimentary. Fitted waistlines and zippers tax my both my attention span and my abilities. There are usually expletives involved.  I have tended to avoid both as a result. There are times however when elastic waists are just less than desirable. Apparently when you are entering 7th grade is such a time. This is a challenge however when the available skirts are just a smidge longer than a hankie. We solved that problem by taking attractive A-line fitted women’s skirts and taking them in on the sides. Simply have your model try on the piece, pin the waistline to a comfortable spot and sew a new side seam, taking care to follow exactly the contour already in place. If you have a side zipper then you need to either take it in along the back seam or reassess. We have stuck with traditional zipper-in-back skirts for this one.

   This works just as well for a pregnant mom. I have found some lovely material in thrift store skirts that would normally be too large for me. It is often cheaper to find a gorgeous extra large skirt and take it in, than to buy fabric outright. It is also easier if much of the work is done for you. So don’t limit yourself to your own size when shopping.  If it is too large for you, take it in.  If it is too narrow, can you fit it to a daughter?

Pink_skirt  Another very simple project involving repurposed jeans is this pink skirt we actually bought new at that large chain store. To make this at home you would carefully cut off the legs of the jeans below the zipper and back pockets. (try to leave the pockets inside intact) Then add a rectangle of gauzy fabric for a skirt. If you snagged a cheap skirt in an off size at the thrift store this would be perfect to make the flouncy part. Just remove the elastic waistband and however many inches necessary to give you the correct length and sew the rest to the bottom of the jean portion.

Tiered   The next skirt was a tiered women’s skirt.  The waist fit both of us – at one time anyway – but I looked alarmingly like a birthday cake inside of it. Alannah looked darling, however it was far too long. We cut the bottom tiers off with a pinking shears.  No hemming necessary because the next tiers up covered the cuts. 

   Take a good look at hand-me-down clothing as well. We’ve received some rather dated, gathered, and front pleated skirts. There were some good quality corduroy and denim pieces in the bag. While we would not likely find the finished skirts very flattering, all those gathers made for yards of usable rectangular fabric for new projects. We are currently removing the waistbands and starting our new project – gored and maternity skirts.  I hope to upload the directions and pictures as we finish. By the looks of my midsection we have not a moment to spare!

Just So It’s Healthy

   We are heading out shortly for a marathon appt. day for Colin. He is trying to hit his specialists before leaving for school next week.  (did I just say next week??) Unfortunately that means today we have a ten AM appt in town and then a 4PM appt in Denver. Say a prayer for the tiny person who is hitchhiking inside of me if you would. Long time to be vertical at this stage of the game for a pg woman!

   We have had so many wonderful people wish us and our new baby well. People know by now we weren’t hoping for a boy or a girl.  We were just hoping for a baby. In trying to convey understanding and concurrence with that hope we often hear, "of course,just so its healthy."  And we do so wish for good health, long life, and all good things for our children. Twenty years of living with Colin has shown us that sometimes less than desirable health can be an unforeseen blessing of the sort we could never have realized in the absence of such challenges.

   I remember years ago listening to a lady talking about her twins who were born quite prematurely. I believe it was in the 24 week range. When she had first learned she was pregnant she and her husband had daydreamed about these two little people and what life would be like with little girls, or little boys, or a mix. Like all expectant parents you naturally picture your life as it is, then picture your life with these hypothetical two and four and 16 year olds superimposed upon it. When the babies threatened to arrive early her thoughts changed to their health.  Just please let them be healthy! Suddenly those daydreams included images of NICU’s and medical intervention. Sadly, one twin did not survive.  The remaining twin was hanging on in intensive care and each week there was another complication. Before long her parents wish was, "Just let her survive."  That was not to be either. They discovered all too brutally that even life itself is not a guarantee. She swore if she was ever so blessed again that the least of their worries would be ten fingers and ten toes.

   And so it goes. You come to a point where you see perfect health as a luxury, one which you would gladly have your child enjoy, but one which you realize is out of reach, to one extent or another, for nearly all of us at some point in life. You gladly trade that luxury for the privilege of simply living with this little person. Nothing else really matters after that.

   I have watched Colin struggle with his body that so rarely does the ‘right thing’.  Sometimes I have laid in bed and wept for him.  Moreover I have wept in shame at my own frustrations, so minor in light of the load he was carrying. And I thanked God for every single moment we have been honored to witness the miracle of his life.

   We do so hope for excellent health of this new baby. Mostly though, we just hope he or she "is". Life is enough.

   I was fortunate enough to "meet" the folks at Woodstone Prairie along this blogging adventure. You won’t want to miss her Thoughts of a Mom essay. If you are not familiar with the reference to it, you may access A Trip to Holland here.  Now go hug your kids y’all!  I am off to to the doctors.