Charlotte’s Christmas advice

Willa posted a link to Simply Charlotte Mason’s article Charlotte’s Wisdom at Christmas. Truly sage advice!  In our cyber age where dozens of books, holiday recipes, menus, and decorating tips are available at the touch of the keyboard you can easily forget that any ONE choice from the above categories suffice for making memories. We tend to pile on more and more expectations of ourselves and our holidays til there is "a shade of anxiety on the mother’s face" as Charlotte says. 

I have been a holiday slacker in many ways.  Worse still because I feel so little remorse over that fact. I have a baby. I love my husband. We are all healthy as of today. We really don’t need more. And I am too tired to drum up much more. Articles like these from days gone by remind me that THIS is normal. Holiday excess is not. We have morphed this into something it likely never should have been.

So, her advice in a nutshell:

Read one Christmas book as a family.   One, not twenty unless you were so inclined, though you could easily find as many to burden yourself with. For us that is The 24 Days of Christmas by Madeleine L’Engle.  We will be reading it AFTER Christmas since it has taken me that long to remember the title (thank you Lissa!!) and track it down but that’s ok. It meant so much to me when I first read it that it is worth the wait.

Rest.  So as not to get that ‘shade of anxiety’ I am guessing. Plus passing out in the mashed potatoes is inappropriate. ; )

Watch over habits.  This has been on my heart as we have been relaxing school since Tess was born. It is easy to relax about a whole lot of things that need attention though. We will work on maintaining the routine  and the good habits even if we do break from academics. 

That’s it!  No clever ideas for napkin folding or dessert. Just read and rest.  I am remembering why I love Charlotte Mason.

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We are doing another photo shoot of Tess today. You can expect the Twelve Days of Christmas pics to follow lol! 

Here is the first pic of Kieran holding Tess.  Boy was he pleased. : )

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Tess_toes_40 toes <g>  not the clearest pic in the world but oh my gosh!  Look at those toes!!

Ok thanks for indulging me. I will be trying the patience of those who tire of themed baby pics in the days to come. For the rest of you – stay tuned.  : ) 

Well blow me down!

We had our second massive storm of the year and amazingly it was worse than the last we are told. Legendary proportions is how the newscaster described it. This took us completely by surprise. We have had more snow and wind in two months than in the five years we have been in CO combined. The first winter we spent on the ranch we had two – count em – two inches of precipitation all winter. It was a bit dry. ; )

The snow started falling Wed. morning and Allen was sent home from work.  He was one of the first released but the hwy had closed by then. He ventured out anyway and ended up finding our road only by counting the mile marker reflectors. Shortly after that there was no seeing anything. Mid-afternoon I took the babies upstairs for a nap. I heard a bang and figured something hit the roof. I laid down and noticed the lace curtains moving. Then I glanced up at the big picture window, the glass now flapping against its frame and threatening to drop out at any time. Asher and Allen made a dash for the duct tape and secured it as best we could from the inside. The window was actually on the south side of the house. Apparently the wind was blowing so hard from the north that it created a vacuum of sorts and just sucked it right out of its frame.

Good news is – we didn’t lose power!!! Thank you God!! Tell you what though, I can’t fathom early pioneers surviving these storms on the prairie. I CAN understand how many of them were lost. The strength of those winds IS of legendary proportions. It would take a spirit of determination unlike any seen today to ride out these conditions. Gives me new appreciation for the will of these settlers.

The other excitement is that our dryer finally died. : p  That will probably be Merry Christmas for Allen and I but that’s ok too. Lots of people don’t have one at all. Just was rotten timing. But hey, the camera turned up.  You know what that means – pics of Tess at one week old!  She has longer stretches of wakefulness now and we can see those eyes. If I was Picasso this would be my "rose period".  We can’t get enough pink around here lol!

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A Sappy Story

SugaringNo for real – a story about sap ; )   Today’s Big Woods chapter was about Maple Sugaring.  We found these two sites that give a children’s version of how it is done today.  We will be making a notebook page and a Venn diagram comparing the process as it was a hundred years ago to now. Its snowing today here so I am hoping we can drop some syrup outside for snow candy. Or that those of us who can walk that far can lol!

This guide goes along with this chapter also. What I love about these bks is that almost any of the chapters could stand alone as a small study if you didn’t want to commit to a whole bk study.

Misc sites:

maple facts

maple syrup factory

Are you indispensible?

Mother_and_child I apparently am. : ) However, I have been thinking long and hard about this over the past week. We are getting back on top of the house which is good since some things have really slipped over the last week. It doesn’t take long for 11 people to notice even minor lapses in dishes or laundry.  The little boys had hit a bit of a rough patch too. Combination of schedule irregularities and holiday treats at every turn when they go out.  Oh and mom being out of pocket.  Allen and I were disappointed initially but the more we talk and think the more sense it is all making. Its not that we failed, it is that we are necessary. If children weren’t so darn well, childish, then they wouldn’t need us, would they?  This whole life I have built here would amount to little more than a token role.

Like the poles that support young trees and keep them growing upright, our job is to continually counter tendencies that would stunt or alter growth in unhealthy ways. I remember Sally Clarkson talking about her little Dachshund named Happy. She said he would run back and forth along the fence until no grass would ever grow there.  She saw an analogy in that path he created to her own parenting. Her guidance was effectively telling her children over and over, "Not this way, that way," until they were no longer inclined to make those mistakes. Their errant behavior was like the weeds that would appear along that fence. Her redirection was like that little dog continually checking that growth.

Someday these children will be able to run a home and make consistently responsible decisions with no outside direction. That day is not today. That is why I am indispensible here. The corporate world will go on without me. Retail stores find new clerks. Even hospitals can replace the best of physicians. But no one else can be their mother. If this job doesn’t get done diligently and lovingly there is a hole left noone will be able to close. So I will nurse this baby in close proximity to the washing machine and I will ask again if the dishwasher has been emptied. I will remind little people to brush their teeth and feed the dog. And I will remember that I can be something to everyone or I can everything to these 10 people.

LOST

Not the TV show. Our stuff.  I was reading Angel’s post today nodding my head over this part:

<<More and more pieces of our school routine come unglued and float off every day.  With the proliferation of all the great Advent posts — the crafts, the books, the activities — it can seem a little daunting to those of us who aren’t in a situation this Advent where we can do everything we want to, most of what we’d like to, or even sometimes a little of what we really think we need to do.  But learning pokes out of the cracks, like grass growing up through the sidewalk. >>

Oy vey.  So true! But around here it’s not just the routine floating off.  It’s our STUFF. While the cat’s away….

Allen went back to work today and I am officially downstairs.  Lucky me <g>.   Now I am face to face with the current lineup of missing items which looks something like this:

the camera – really, the camera, with dhs work memory card in it because mine had gone kaput right before Tess was born

a math book (never mind – make that two)

a library cd

7yo’s wallet

the old baby sling (with the good rings needed to finish the new baby sling)

16yo’s birth certificate.  He was born though, I can testify to it

my marbles……. Ok seriously though. How does this happen??  Even in the absence of excessive clutter we lose things. We keep St Anthony so busy that if he had a Divine retirement program he would likely disappear to a balmy section of heaven altogether. We have tapped him out!

Enough griping, I am hitting the couch again. Angel, I hear you girlfriend! Not getting to all the advent stuff around here either. And not some of the things I would consider essential – like finding all that stuff.  Or the laundry…… The candles on the wreath havent even been lit this year. But learning, like grass peeking through the sidewalk cracks, is happening.  They are still reading and doing math.(the ones who can locate their math books anyway)  Alannah has taken over cooking our meals. Asher is learning to milk the goats and take over for Allen in anticipation of next month’s travel schedule.  And I have learned how sweet it is to hear Moira croon to Tess, "You are such a beeee-U-tiful baby!" over and over again while I slowly and sometimes painfully get myself dressed and presentable in the mornings.  Life is good.

Misc

Just wanted to pop on and once more thank you for all the sweet comments about the baby. I far prefer to respond privately to my blog mail but I am trying very hard to remain as horizontal as possible for these early days or else I pay in later weeks.  So please excuse my manners.

Lo_1 I was able to do some scrapping right before Tess was born so am tossing those up here today. Very simple. Ok back to the couch. Hope to be in touch soon! – Kim

from the storm – used those printable letters from allsorts

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ditto.  no date yet in the bookplate.  Baby came ; )

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Lo_5 and now I know all the answers to those questions : )

Are You Ready…

Cowboy_tess …. for some football?  Tess doesn’t appear to be either but in honor of Colin’s homecoming today she is sporting (pardon the pun) her new Dallas Cowboys outfit.  And yes, you heard that right – our first baby is flying home today for Christmas break.  It is a good day!

And the other excitement is that Tess has begun to open her eyes and look around more. The world must still be awfully bright judging by her expression this morning. Still, it was a treat to Tess_awake see those big eyes.

Yawn and yawning. : )   Even after 8 other babies it doesn’t take much to impress us lol!