Decking the Halls

The tree is up, the lights are up, the kids rooms are decked. All that is left is the upstairs. Allen ran out of extension cords so he is finished lol!  Here are highlights of our weekend:

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Alannah and Kieran working on the tree…

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the tree finished (looks like we have a headless angel)

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From the girls’ room – they have one of those little lighted house villages they set up each year.  This vintage creche was mine growing up. It doesnt have a lot of pieces but it is still my all time favorite nativity. Vintage_creche_1

Happy Advent!

Anttalklet_heavens_rejoice100 Today is the first Sunday in Advent. No grand plans here alas. Just baby prep – preparing for the flesh and blood baby due in 2 wks and the Holy Babe due right after.  I confess to being a slacker otherwise. We set up the tree, actually a couple trees, yesterday. Allen hung lights outside. Appropriately enough the star lights. This week we hope to make some St Nick icons and some easy candy to share with friends. We will read some books. We will light the candles tonight. It is all I havein me so, like the Widow’s Mite, I have to believe it is enough. This is not to say all my dear friends who are graced with more energy this particular advent are misguided. There is a season to everything and this just happens to be a quiet one at the ranch due to circumstances.

If it is a quiet season at your house as well you might want to visit Elizabeth’s blog today and remember some special women who will not be celebrating in big or small ways with their families this Christmas. Or visit Fuller Farms and lift up a prayer for a special family who are grateful to have each other this year as they move through cancer treatment. You might decide that it is perfectly alright to kick back, heat the cocoa, and just BE this year.

While we may not have hit all the wonderful crafts this time around, we will be doing this one thing – the Christkindl tradition. We will draw names tonight to learn who it is that will be in our special care this advent season and then will spend the next few weeks thinking of ways to bless them.

Jolly Old St Nicholas

St_nicholas The Feast of St Nicholas is this coming week.  These lesson plans are uploaded on the 4Real forum already but I will post them here as well in case you don’t frequent the forum. They are based upon the info at the St Nicholas Center online.

Download kims_st_nick_plan.doc

If you have mainly little people then you may do better to just read a few of the interesting stories on the St Nick site and then check out the printable project at Living Education. She also has nice pics of their St Nick icon project.  These should keep us busy this week!

In praise of raspberry leaf…

Herbs_raspberry …. and other dietary ramblings. ; )

Elizabeth called yesterday to relate the great news of an excellent postpartum checkup. (ck out her blog today for more of their family’s herbal explorations of late).  Her experience prompted me to write about my all time favorite herb – Red Raspberry leaf.  It has been such a friend to me I cannot imagine going through pregnancy and postpartum without it. I am apparently not alone, since it is estimated that 20% of pregnant women now use the herb. Despite that reported number, my personal experience has been that few of my women friends have made extensive use of it.  That is a true pity because I have yet to see it fail to net tremendous results.

Some history here: I had a short, horrifically painful labor with my first son, complete with vomiting and chills. Fortunately I was young and bounced back quickly.  Second son was enormous.  I had become a vegetarian in the interim between these pregnancies and I am not sure if the increase in carbs or just plain old recessive genes came into play but he was 2 and a half lbs heavier and 2 in longer than the first. Recovery went reasonably well but I was torn to pieces during delivery and he was plagued with colic afterwards. My third pregnancy found me riddled with viral infections and generally worn down. I hemorrhaged during delivery and for many many weeks afterwards.  Infections continued and eventually led to a complete physical breakdown. By age 24 my health was shot.

All my research seemed to indicate that an even stricter diet was in order. I became a complete vegan and embarked on an elimination diet to see if some food was triggering the massive problems. I reacted strongly to glutinous grains and corn. (which doesn’t leave one with a whole lot else!) Removing them brought about relief from many symptoms but I had become the Incredible Shrinking Woman. By my 4th pregnancy I was approaching 90 lbs. During this pregnancy I experienced some of my worst preterm contractions and various freakish muscle cramps (in retrospect likely due to the absence of adequate calcium source) I also was determined to try my new trick – Raspberry Leaf. As it turns out, I was induced without access to my herb. Allen brought me tea faithfully in the hospital afterwards however and the effect was near miraculous. If I took the tea, I had no pain or bleeding. If I quit, both kicked up again. By consuming it religiously I had a totally different postpartum experience.

With baby 5 I used the tea during pg and early labor. By the time it was clear that I was truly in labor and arrived at the hospital I was 6cm. Within 90 minutes we had a baby girl. The postpartum team was on alert since I was considered a grand multipara by this time and was "at risk of hemorrhage". Whatever. <g> It never happened. In fact female health, which was the only health I had at that pt, was excellent. Unfortunately my general health was still in decline. I would diagnosed with adult onset asthma within a year.

At this point we abandoned the vegetarian diet and added more protein. Things began to improve. I concieved my 6th child and embarked on Dr Brewer’s diet for pregnancy. No more infections!! I gained a lb a week which concerned me but I was strong enough to see my oldest through grueling neurosurgery in the late first trimester while my husband was out of state for 6 wks of military training. I was also able to tolerate a wider variety of foods that I had previously reacted to. Perhaps it was true – the protein and vitamins were rebuilding my health.  The pregnancy proceeded rather uneventfully. I added Squawvine herb to my delivery arsenal. The result? Labor at home from 1-4am. Arrived at the hospital at 4:40 am having walked from the parking lot to the second floor unit. At 4:50 I was 8cm. At 5:20 we had a big baby boy. Again, no hemorrhage, quick recovery, and this time no infections at all. In fact I felt better than I had in many years.

My health continued to improve in the following months and I became pg with number 7. We had some pressing family challenges during this pg but my health was superb. I again used copious amts of the raspberry and the additional squawvine as delivery neared. I woke up at 1 am at 39 wks with strong contractions. After an hr it appeared as though this may really be labor and I got into the tub to relax for what I expected would be a bit of early labor. My water promptly broke and we did not make it to the hospital. That’s right!  Surprise homebirth at 3am. After the shock wore off I was exhilarated. I felt wonderful and the recovery was as quick as the previous ones.

With Brendan, our last baby, Allen deployed to Iraq. It was by far the most frightening time to be pg – and alone on top of it.  Delivery was complicated by a bit of an odd presentation but nevertheless he was born after 3 hrs of labor. At my postpartum check I surprised the military provider who expected a far different exam of a woman in her late 30’s with this many children.

I had a dear friend locally who was also delivering her 8th child the same month. She also used the raspberry and squawvine for the first time with that baby. This woman, who typically went overdue and had long labors, also delivered her baby before the midwife arrived. Recovery was remarkably speedy. She was convinced!

I am technically full term today – 37 wks! I have followed the Weston Price and Brewer plans this pregnancy and we had only one bout of colds go through the house as fall set in. This time I was unbelievably free from the troublesome preterm contrax that have been a mainstay of my pgs. I attribute this to our goat’s milk as much as the general diet.

I am beginning my increase of raspberry today and will incorporate the squawvine which seems to act as a contraction regulator. The prospect of labor pain is stil intimidating. Probably always will be! But I am encouraged by all this past experience and that of my friends that it will not be insurmountable. I do not generally fear tearing or postpartum hemorrhage barring freak accidents either. The diet and herbs do incredible things for tissue health!

If you are interested in reading more check out these links:

Pregnancy.com on raspberry

Cmommies story ""

Babycentre on rasp and squawvine

Squawvine

Brewer Diet for Pregnancy

WAP diet for Pregnancy

A life of service

Washing_feet I found another lovely blog this week  – A Virtuous Woman. She posted very eloquently about serving our husbands, including one of the most compelling exerpts I have seen from Edith Schaeffer. Lost in the hooha that is generally stirred up when one begins to discuss wifely submission, Ephesians, and ‘headship’ is the idea that we serve less because of Ephesians and more because of Matt 25:35. It is not our husbands who call us to serve, it is Jesus who says, "When I was hungry, you gave me to eat…"

Anyway, I encourage you to consider her post. It’s not about rules, but about the softening of hearts that occurs when we serve as He did – without grumbling or murmuring. (I am working on that part….)  Its not about ‘why must I’ but about ‘why shouldn’t I’. And moreover, about what incredible good comes to us by laying down our lives for another.