extraordinarily ordinary

This whole being responsible thing takes a lot of time, let me tell ya. <g>  We had a whirlwind first week of Allen home last week.  We are working hard to tighten up routines and schedules which got a little loose over the last two months.  It is a necessity if we hope to get in all the hiking and camping we have planned and still stay on top of school and chores and home repairs.  

Friday evening saw lots of food and fun at The Dog and Duck birthday bash.  Coincidentally several of us friends have birthdays within a couple weeks so it was a good excuse get together – especially when Karen's clan is cooking. 

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Thanks to Becki for the picture.  My camera stayed home Friday.  I think I have the same outfit on as in my Ohio pictures. I do actually own others lol!  

Saturday we took the little ones on a field trip field trip to the Aquarium. Moira and Abbie and I packed up Colin for a visit home.  We spent the rest of the day window shopping. Actually, there was a bit of real shopping as well.  I brought home a guide to the state's trails so we can plan our summer. 

 I was torn about going along this day.  There was a loooong to-do list at home.  But Allen was right and it was important to take a break and enjoy each other and the children.  I am so glad we did.  We had a pow wow last night to coordinate schedules, school assignments, and errands with the plan to regroup each evening this week and knock some of this out.  Hopefully there will be a long hike at some point next weekend as reward! 

Meantime it's a lot of the same old – math drills, piano practice, baking bread, babies to nurse, diapers to change, and a puppy to potty train – the stuff of life around here.  I wouldn't change a bit of it.  It is the extraordinary ordinary. Not sure it makes for 'extraordinary' blogging, but its as real as it gets. : ) 

I hope you had an extra-ordinary weekend as well! 

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and the ride home:

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nature and nurture pt 2

The wind was sharp the day we visited Lake Erie but it was worth weathering the cold.  The little ones had never seen such a vast expanse of water before.  I had also not considered that Tess had never walked on sand before.  I realized that when she first stepped off the path onto the beach and looked so bewildered as the sand moved out from under her steps.   

The big kids were thrilled though and shouted to each other over the roar of the waves and the engines of the tractors combing the beach.  The section nearby which we walked had not yet been cleared of the debris accumulated over the winter but that left lots to explore too.

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Did I mention it was cold?

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Rebecca has a special knack for finding sea glass:

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Kieran following Ben:

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the beach grew on her as we went along.  Sitting went better than walking however…

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Brendan brought his "light saver" 'cause you never know when you may be called upon to do battle with the dark side – even if you are in Ohio   ; ) 

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afterwards we trudged back up the path for lunch at a local hot dog shack.   I love this picture of Rebecca's Mary in the back of my van. She is a funny, funny girl. : ) 

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Then before we knew it we were back to the caravan and packing up to go home again. This would be me with Rebecca at the end of that day. A little wind-blown but happy. : )   

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child-centered vs child-directed education

"The authors believe wholeheartedly in the child-centered school, but only if that term is properly understood. The child is necessarily the center of the school's activity, for everything that the school undertakes, every activity in which it engages, has for its immediate object the doing of something (to or) for the child; nor can the school afford to forget, in any of its planning, what the child needs to achieve and what the child is capable of achieving. The school should be child-centered in the sense that it accepts child growth as something to be sought in everything that it does.  But this growth need not be undirected; rather it should be planned by those whose broad experience has given them a vision of the heights to which children can rise when guided wisely and lovingly.  This direction is something which children need, something that they desire, and something that they willingly accept if nothing has ever occurred to destroy their confidence."  - Voyages in English 1951 (preface)

nature and nurture pt 1

Charlotte Mason would have smiled to have seen our kids sloshing around the creek at the caravan complete with galoshes and nets and then later braving the windy shore of Lake Erie.  Though no one uttered "nature study" to them they were certainly doing just that.  They thrilled to find sea glass and shells and even an animal tooth during these treks.  It always makes me happy to see them so enthralled with their world but even more to be able to explore a new place with people who know it well.  

off they go:
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Rebecca's Annie:

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creekside:

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Kieran:
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I have never seen a tree man til I looked out Rebecca's kitchen window.  I am told they are not all that uncommon but it was another 'wonder'-full thing to me. I think I must have one.  Maybe one on every tree lol!  No doubt the caravan children were puzzled over the crazy lady taking pictures of their trees but I had to get a picture of him:

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Aidan
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tomorrow – the shore…..

Midwest in bloom

It has been many years since I visited the Midwest in the springtime.  This year, as always, there were blooms spilling over the walkways and weighing down tree boughs everyplace we stopped.  The grass was insanely green. You forget how green green can be.  You also forget that children raised in totally different region have completely different ideas of what spring looks like.  

I read an essay in a magazine the other day where the author was sharing the story of going back to her childhood town with her children.  She was met by riotous flowering shrubs and heavily perfumed air. She was overcome with memories prompted by the surroundings, memories which her children did not share having lived in a very different place all their lives. They did not share the same nature cues, she said. 

I have thought about that a great deal.  For all my growing up years spring came drizzling in with cool, damp days and muddy footprints at the door.   The lawn was spongey, filled to capacity and then some with the snow turned rain.  The sky was often gray but the ground was green – and red and purple and yellow, for there were the bulbs tucked into every corner.  I knew the names of them all – the crocus which came first, the hyacinths, tulips, and daffodils.  Finally the irises which marked the end of spring and beginning of summer in my mind.  

For my children spring bursts onto the scene unexpectedly. One day there is blowing snow and the next the sun beats down and coats are shed.  It all happens with little warning.   The grass turns from deep gold to a pale green seemingly overnight.  They sky is blue. The last of the tumbleweeds blow from the fencelines.  In the fields that line the roadsides, calves appear by their mother's sides.  The pronghorn are on the move.  The meadow larks take up their nests again in the few large trees out front. They chatter and swoop low when we walk underneath to the mailbox. The ground squirrels dart across the road, tempting fate. This is springtime in the West, which they know so well.  These are the rhythms buried deep into their psyche's and what will come back to them in sudden snatches when they are grown. 

So the sometimes soggy, always exuberant, Midwest springtime meant something different to them than it did to us no doubt. They thought it was beautiful, if a little foreign.  It did not trigger any long forgotten memories for them however. Lovely as it was, it was not home for them.  I enjoyed sharing it with them but it was wonderful coming home again and seeing them slip eagerly into their routine once more. Be it ever so humble… : ) 

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Tess, once again proving that the ninth child does not in fact get photographed less than first child lol!

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Betty, please…

So Drew Carey was right.  Cleveland rocks!  Last week saw four of the most restful, laughter-filled days I have enjoyed in a loooong time.  You can forget about pictures of Cleveland hot spots (though there are pics to come) because Rebecca and I spent the better part of the week in our jammies with mugs in hand while kids played game after game – ball games, board games, animal games, Star Wars……

For days I sat and nursed the baby while Rebecca refilled my cup with this addictive tea.  Seriously addictive.  I haven't drunk much tea in recent years but now cannot seem to begin the day without a cinnamon fix.  And you know you must wind down at dusk with chatter fueled by Five O'Clock decaf.  Starbucks has nothing on Rebecca's Five O'Clock, I am telling you. 

And chatter we did. We talked and talked and talked some more. We talked about James Taylor, secret fears, marriage, family, food, high school.  We covered everything under the sun but, funny, homeschooling didn't really come up much.  Warm conversation continued into the wee hours while we rocked sleeping little ones and fought off sleepiness, trying not to miss one minute.  It was like a giant slumber party and I was sorry when it ended. 

The kids are campaigning for me to try to reproduce the oven puff pancakes they loved there.  I promised to try but I am pretty sure I will never reach for my spatula again without laughing myself silly over Rebecca's perfect deadpan of Penny Marshall saying,  "LUCKY lucky, for the next ten minutes EVerything comes with pancakes."  Lucky we are indeed to have friends like this.  It is a rare blessing. 

Thank you, my friend.

contentment at home

There was a column in a periodical I subscribed to years ago (no longer in print) that was called What is in Your Hand?  Instead of planning for future projects which necessitated more purchases it gave innovative ideas for what might already lay beneath your nose. It helped me to look around before looking at the store.  It also helped me to see the abundance that was already mine.  

It was during that time that I wrote an article or two for a homesteading newsletter.  Newsletter – like typed in a farmhouse kitchen and stapled and mailed. : )  It was not my farmhouse though.  I sent my contribution from a tiny duplex on a military base.  The gist of those articles was about doing what you could where you were.  I could not harvest potatoes but I could bake a loaf of bread.  Milking a cow was out of the question but hanging cloth diapers on the line was not.  There were no chickens from which to gather eggs but there were sprouts in the windowsill.  

Made From Scratch encourages people to think in these terms. It is motivational for those who long for the farm but look out their windows across rooftops.  I think the larger message applies to all of us, wherever we live.  Grow where you are planted – literally and figuratively.  Every little step towards intentional living has the potential to bring meaning and satisfaction to our days.  We are not left with only our dreams of a someday house but instead have endless opportunities to be more self sufficient and hands on today. There is a reason we woke up where we did. Surely we are exactly where God wants us to be today.  With that truth in mind, we can find our happiness right here at home and 'dance with it':

"I think the real trick to finding that sense of satisfaction is to realize you don’t need much to attain it. A window-box salad garden and a mandolin hanging on the back of the door can be all the freedom you need. If it isn’t everything you want for the future, let it be enough for tonight. Living the way you want has nothing to do with how much land you have or how much you can afford to spend on a new house. It has to do with the way you choose to live every day and how content you are with what you have.

If a few things on your plate every season came from the work of your own hands, you are creating food for your body, and that is enough. If your landlord can be sweet-talked into some small backyard projects, go for it with gusto. If you rode your bike to work, trained your dog to pack, or just baked a loaf of bread, let it be enough. Accepting where you are today — and working toward what’s ahead — is the best you can do. Maybe your gardens and coops will outgrow mine, and before you know it you’ll be trading in your Audi for a pickup. But the starting point is to take control of what you can and smile with how things are. Find your own happiness and dance with it."   – Jenna  Woganich,  Made From Scratch  excerpted here


baking that loaf with the little ones…

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