This whole being responsible thing takes a lot of time, let me tell ya. <g> We had a whirlwind first week of Allen home last week. We are working hard to tighten up routines and schedules which got a little loose over the last two months. It is a necessity if we hope to get in all the hiking and camping we have planned and still stay on top of school and chores and home repairs.
Monthly Archives: May 2009
From the rose….
nature and nurture pt 2
The wind was sharp the day we visited Lake Erie but it was worth weathering the cold. The little ones had never seen such a vast expanse of water before. I had also not considered that Tess had never walked on sand before. I realized that when she first stepped off the path onto the beach and looked so bewildered as the sand moved out from under her steps.
child-centered vs child-directed education
"The authors believe wholeheartedly in the child-centered school, but only if that term is properly understood. The child is necessarily the center of the school's activity, for everything that the school undertakes, every activity in which it engages, has for its immediate object the doing of something (to or) for the child; nor can the school afford to forget, in any of its planning, what the child needs to achieve and what the child is capable of achieving. The school should be child-centered in the sense that it accepts child growth as something to be sought in everything that it does. But this growth need not be undirected; rather it should be planned by those whose broad experience has given them a vision of the heights to which children can rise when guided wisely and lovingly. This direction is something which children need, something that they desire, and something that they willingly accept if nothing has ever occurred to destroy their confidence." - Voyages in English 1951 (preface)
nature and nurture pt 1
Charlotte Mason would have smiled to have seen our kids sloshing around the creek at the caravan complete with galoshes and nets and then later braving the windy shore of Lake Erie. Though no one uttered "nature study" to them they were certainly doing just that. They thrilled to find sea glass and shells and even an animal tooth during these treks. It always makes me happy to see them so enthralled with their world but even more to be able to explore a new place with people who know it well.
in a fog
"People resemble steamships. They toot loudest when they are in a fog."
Midwest in bloom
It has been many years since I visited the Midwest in the springtime. This year, as always, there were blooms spilling over the walkways and weighing down tree boughs everyplace we stopped. The grass was insanely green. You forget how green green can be. You also forget that children raised in totally different region have completely different ideas of what spring looks like.
I read an essay in a magazine the other day where the author was sharing the story of going back to her childhood town with her children. She was met by riotous flowering shrubs and heavily perfumed air. She was overcome with memories prompted by the surroundings, memories which her children did not share having lived in a very different place all their lives. They did not share the same nature cues, she said.
I have thought about that a great deal. For all my growing up years spring came drizzling in with cool, damp days and muddy footprints at the door. The lawn was spongey, filled to capacity and then some with the snow turned rain. The sky was often gray but the ground was green – and red and purple and yellow, for there were the bulbs tucked into every corner. I knew the names of them all – the crocus which came first, the hyacinths, tulips, and daffodils. Finally the irises which marked the end of spring and beginning of summer in my mind.
For my children spring bursts onto the scene unexpectedly. One day there is blowing snow and the next the sun beats down and coats are shed. It all happens with little warning. The grass turns from deep gold to a pale green seemingly overnight. They sky is blue. The last of the tumbleweeds blow from the fencelines. In the fields that line the roadsides, calves appear by their mother's sides. The pronghorn are on the move. The meadow larks take up their nests again in the few large trees out front. They chatter and swoop low when we walk underneath to the mailbox. The ground squirrels dart across the road, tempting fate. This is springtime in the West, which they know so well. These are the rhythms buried deep into their psyche's and what will come back to them in sudden snatches when they are grown.
So the sometimes soggy, always exuberant, Midwest springtime meant something different to them than it did to us no doubt. They thought it was beautiful, if a little foreign. It did not trigger any long forgotten memories for them however. Lovely as it was, it was not home for them. I enjoyed sharing it with them but it was wonderful coming home again and seeing them slip eagerly into their routine once more. Be it ever so humble… : )
Tess, once again proving that the ninth child does not in fact get photographed less than first child lol!
driving day one
Betty, please…
So Drew Carey was right. Cleveland rocks! Last week saw four of the most restful, laughter-filled days I have enjoyed in a loooong time. You can forget about pictures of Cleveland hot spots (though there are pics to come) because Rebecca and I spent the better part of the week in our jammies with mugs in hand while kids played game after game – ball games, board games, animal games, Star Wars……
contentment at home
There was a column in a periodical I subscribed to years ago (no longer in print) that was called What is in Your Hand? Instead of planning for future projects which necessitated more purchases it gave innovative ideas for what might already lay beneath your nose. It helped me to look around before looking at the store. It also helped me to see the abundance that was already mine.
"I think the real trick to finding that sense of satisfaction is to realize you don’t need much to attain it. A window-box salad garden and a mandolin hanging on the back of the door can be all the freedom you need. If it isn’t everything you want for the future, let it be enough for tonight. Living the way you want has nothing to do with how much land you have or how much you can afford to spend on a new house. It has to do with the way you choose to live every day and how content you are with what you have.
If a few things on your plate every season came from the work of your own hands, you are creating food for your body, and that is enough. If your landlord can be sweet-talked into some small backyard projects, go for it with gusto. If you rode your bike to work, trained your dog to pack, or just baked a loaf of bread, let it be enough. Accepting where you are today — and working toward what’s ahead — is the best you can do. Maybe your gardens and coops will outgrow mine, and before you know it you’ll be trading in your Audi for a pickup. But the starting point is to take control of what you can and smile with how things are. Find your own happiness and dance with it." – Jenna Woganich, Made From Scratch excerpted here
baking that loaf with the little ones…










































