like flowers at the foot of the cross

 

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"It is right and good that you should devote yourself to great things, to important and excellent works; but practice for the love of God those little humble virtues which spring up like flowers at the foot of the cross:the bearing of some slight misfortune, some passing infirmity,  a vexation, a disappointment, an offense, a humiliation, certain tiresome occupations at home or abroad.

As such occassions are ever recurring, what a treasure they of spiritual riches you can amass if you know how to profit by them!"

Keep it Simple, Emmanuel de Gibergues

welcome ever smiles

 

Oh what a treat, truly, this afternoon was.  A blessing in so many ways.  I met a wonderful dance mom this winter and we drove together we drove up to the home of two local antiques dealers.  We were greeted in the drive by several of their peacocks.  Soon after we were discovered by their owner who gave us a tour of the grounds, a former rectory. He left us to mill around and peek into barns and drawing rooms while he attended to a window installer.  You see, he and his wife live here among all these incredible old things.  And most, save for sentimental pieces are for sale.  

They open their home and welcome folks in. When you've had a look around, if you are lucky enough to finish up around tea time, he fires up the teapot and you have a good chat around a table laden with silver candlesticks and cake stands. That was just our good fortune. 


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Even after some years of living in Europe I have never failed to thrill at running my hands along intricately carved wood and carpets woven by hand. Sitting in a chair that is older than my own country just astounds me still. Europeans have a different understanding of antiquity and I am not sure my awe will ever wear off. It is so like touching time. 

In a basket on the table were the tiniest of silver bits and bobs.  The owner's wife sorted through and explained them to us.  The wee owls, the size of a thumb, were snuff holders.  There were impossibly small silver stamp cases and needle holders.  Needles were "quite dear" she says. Elaborately carved sewing scissors sat with little fairy chairs.  All created and carried by hands long gone from this world. 

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A favorite of mine was this cabinet which read, "Welcome ever smiles, farewell goes out sighing."

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And clocks.  The clocks.  Majestic grandfather clocks are a special collection for them. We were there when they chimed and learned that the gentleman can identify his clocks by their chime.  British clocks are made with "bell metal" the same as church bells so they have an angelic tone as they ring out the hour. 


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He announced it was tea time for the birds as well so we wandered out to watch them gather for feeding time.  A funny thing happened as we were talking about the peacocks. Shots were firing off in the distance regularly as he described the birds flying free range during the day and returning at night.  When I asked if his neighbors ever shot them he laughed and pointed over our shoulders to the field.  That is a pigeon cannon he said.  It is on a timer and fires off periodically to keep them moving on.  This was funny because for the past 9 mo. we have only walked so far down one of the farm roads because we thought hunters were in the fields.  Guess not : ) 

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We left with a lot of information and many pictures.  I totally understand how they have cultivated such a loyal following locally.  This was not a shopping trip, it was a cultural experience. They feel the same way as they have learned about foods and customs from their customers from around the world.  We noticed the same at a local restaurant last month. There is a great interest in sharing customs and history everywhere we go and we are just soaking every bit of that up. 

So grateful. 

the week in pictures

 

Last week, that is.  Since I am obviously slacking on all the post stuff I have queued up here, I will share the bit of record keeping I did pull off this past weekend.  Otherwise just picture some assortment of drive, eat, teach, cook, plan, sleep, clean, read, write, craft, read, and drive some more. : ) 

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living on a prayer

 

oooh, we're halfway there….

I have a major Bon Jovi earworm goin' on this Laetare Sunday. But hey, we ARE now half way to Easter. We talked with the children about the loaves and the fishes tonight and read the reflection in Divine Intimacy. The author pointed out that God could very well have just produced the food out of the ether, but instead He asked the boy for the pittance he had to offer.  This is the way with God, he says.

He always asks for our cooperation, even when in truth our effort is so very insufficient for the task.  

He can take whatever little bit we offer and multiply it in miraculous ways.  It reminds me of the game my husband used to play with the boys when they were babies.  They would toss a ball towards a hoop and it predictably only went a few feet.  Instead of letting it fall, he would scoop it up midair and sink the basket, which brought wild cheers from the tiny players.  This is so very reassuring when my own steps towards sanctity seem pitiful to me.  God can come up alongside me just that same way and carry them forward to fruition. 

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We will revisit this bible story during the week, probably by using the story bible as reading practice. In lieu of paper crafts I am hoping to have the littles make tuna sandwiches for lunch together one day.  Maybe, since it is a mostly at home week we will make the bread too.  Another goal is to make an Easter garden.  I have everything gathered and had hoped to do this sooner but, you know, life happens. Should be time yet.  

How about you?  I hope you have made some baby steps to Calvary as well.  If time permits you might be able to try one of these ideas in the remaining weeks of lent. One finished project is good.  Five half finished projects, not so much.

Undershoot. : ) God can multiply your efforts. 

vintage love

 

Spreading around some Cath Kidson love.  : ) And how this copycat rolls…

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I'd like one of everything, please. <g>

However, since I haven't won the lottery, here is what I do.  I take a visual survey and then begin to analyze the individual parts to determine what is speaking to me – textures, colors, techniques etc.  Often you can break down a look into easily repeatable steps that way. 

I loved the fold over elastic (FOE) skirt idea.  Love.  I am a lazy seamstress so that knocked off the whole casing step.  Win.  Tutes here and here. Side note – turquoise/sea glass and dull red together never fails to stir my heart.

I love the look of a vintage iron bed. In lieu of an original, IKEA has this for $149 which looks very authentic up close and needs no work. Target's Simply Shabby Chic line has similar bedding. Cheaper yet?  Search etsy and ebay for vintage floral sheets.  Sew two together and stuff with an old comforter.  Duvet : )  Search for vintage towel to fold in half and add a top casing for the awesome laundry bag. 

Frame old fabric remnants in Goodwill frames. Scrapbooking paper works well too. 

And this is why window shopping (and pinterest) does not depress me.  

 

a few of my favorite things

 

Made more wonderful by being inside of a 16th century barn.  SIXTEENTH century. Boggles an American mind. 

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Oh the opera glasses…
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West German retro pottery.  I first discovered this a few years ago.  A hot commodity today.  Falls under: "things that are very cool but totally do not go with my house."  Though they would probably look awesome in Colin's house….

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It isn't working or it would be in my living room. : ) 

for my good

 

"The practice of the presence of God really consists in making strong efforts to keep God always present in our mind and heart, even when we are engaged in our daily tasks."

How? we ask.

"(I can)consider my duties as so many manifestations of the will of God, and so unite myself to this divine will as I perform them. Further, I can make it a practice to view all the circumstances of my life in the light of faith, and therefore arranged by divine Providence for my good. This will incline me to accept them and to repeat continually to my heavenly Father:

"I am content with everything You do for me."

-Divine Intimacy


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gently… down the stream

 

"…there were real, silent haunts where a prayerful soul could become absorbed in recollection and praise."

Story of a Family

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Moira and I were walking this foggy afternoon, so still we could hear our own steps on the ground.  We spotted something in the distance in the water.  At first I thought perhaps it was trash that had fallen in.  Then no.  As we approached we could begin to make them out, three swans gliding so silently you could barely register movement.

I have thought about them since, slowly moving downstream, making no big splashing scenes.  No upset or feathers flying. Just fully possessed of themselves, recollected. This is the image I have held in my mind.  A goal. When concerns arise, the to-do list grows, when the life waters get choppy, not to fight it but to float along with it.  I tend to fluster better than float, but this is what I keep returning to.