of bagpipes and buttresses

 

My husband and I snuck away to Lincoln overnight last weekend. It was a fantastic relaxing trip.  The castle heights area near the cathedral was charming.  We walked and walked that evening and ended up back up the hill as the sun was setting. 

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So, bagpipes.  You either love them or hate them.  I love them.  LOVE them. With a passion. There was an outdoor performance in progress when we got into the courtyard.  We took a short video with the phone.  Hopefully it won't make you dizzy. : )  Videographers we are not. 


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"…warmer, warmer, NO! colder, ICE cold!"

Did you play that game as a child? We are playing a similar game in England lately.  It was cold, cold, cold and then we had a few gloriously sunny weeks.  The flowers erupted into bloom and the kids shed their coats.  We turned off the Aga, which had been on far longer than usual into the spring.  And I snapped away, fortunately, because it is the memory of that little pocket of toasty weather that is keeping us going as we are hunkered down together under blankets tonight. 

We are enjoying that too though.  Yesterday we flung open the windows and were spring cleaning like mad.  The kitchen got a good scrubbing and my husband cleaned the cellar storage which has been lingering untouched since we moved in.  Our cellar is a Grimm's style scary dark stone dungeon where we would rifle through moving boxes for a missing item and then dart back upstairs as soon as we could. Now its nicely sorted and stacked.  

Today we braved the cooler temps and hiked the woods of Norfolk a while. Back home, I attempted to watch some software tutes while they watched their movie.  I sent one boy for headphones so I wouldn't disturb them. I thought I had it situated but did notice the sound seemed a little far off.  And what else was that?  "Mom!"  huh?  Oh, the kids!  They were about falling off the couch laughing.  I had my headset on just fine and the video rolling but I guess I didn't plug the cord in.  <g> Yeah.

I am so not of this century. But I have figured out enough to have been in nearly hourly contact with my boys this weekend despite all the other activity.  Big things (good) happening in their lives. We are staying in the thick of it from here and I'm planning to be there for a week next month. So, that is where my brain is right now.  Which may account for the  headphones.  

Or not. 

Random weekend notes – we are reading The Children's Homer at lunchtimes. The boys love it. 

Brendan just discovered Usborne with this book on Britain and is really liking the format

We watched this movie and liked it despite so-so ratings. Maybe because it hit home having lived in the American West.

New fave magazine: The Simple Things

Fave dinner last week: Cheese Philly Steak Stuffed Peppers

Better wrap up here.  A few more pics:

bottom pic is from my phone.  I don't think I have a "real" picture of our road and the daffodils are on the way out now. It was lovely though. 

 

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What’s your super-power?

 

About a year ago I took pictures of this awesome family to hang on their father's (husband's) hospital walls. It's been a big year. There was a valiant battle with a rare sarcoma.  There was loss and there has been grief.  There have been good days and bad days. And now there is the moving forward again into future that looks very different from the past. 

We tend to think of heroism as the leaping-of-tall-buildings sort of events, but the more you live life, the more you come to see that the greatest battles happen behind the scenes with little fanfare. The true heroes?  They are the ones who win the daily battle of putting one foot in front of another, who can look an uncertain future in the face and say, "I am coming anyway."  Some mornings you can rise up with great courage and face the day.  Other's you just manage to raise your hand to say, "Present." But on you go.

Krissie and her kids are doing just that.  We took another set of family pictures this year to mark where they are now and how they are moving forward.  Every detail was symbolic.  They wanted to wear their super hero shirts to document their quirky side as well as their overcoming.  And there is another shirt on Krissie's lap, the one Rob wore last year.  I am grateful for the erratic weather we were dealing with because I didn't have time to really process that as I was shooting. I can tell you that working on them afterwards was tough.  


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Barbara Bloom says:

"When the Japanese mend broken objects, they aggrandize the damage by filling the cracks with gold. They believe that when something's suffered damage and has a history it becomes more beautiful."

This is what strikes me this year.  Their family suffered a great blow, but if possible they are even more beautiful than they were.  

So, what's your super power?  Are you struggling with illness, a wayward child, a lay-off?  Have you moved – maybe again and again – to a new place where you are just another face in the crowd?  Are you buried under laundry and diapers? Behind that chatty Facebook wall are you slaying dragons all those "friends" are unaware of?

Then let me ask you this?  Did you get up today? Did you get cereal in some bowls? Did you shower? 

Awesome!  You're a super hero too. Here's to all of us.  <g>  Keep up the good work. 

Fortune runs against the bias…

 

Queen: What sport shall we devise here in this garden,
To drive away the heavy thought of care?

First Lady: Madam, we'll play at bowls.

Queen: 'Twill make me think the world is full of rubs.
And that my fortune runs against the bias

– Shakespeare, Richard II 


The Castle Bowls (lawn bowling) club was in good form Sunday afternoon when my husband and I passed their way.  There were lively jabs exchanged and a fair bit of advice offered from the onlookers. We found ourselves oddly transfixed and cracking up at regular intervals. 

I should add that we apretty much know nothing at all about lawn bowling. So I haven't the foggiest idea who was winning, only that everyone was in high spirits. Wiki tells a fascinating story of the history of the game which made my eyes cross. So I still don't have the foggiest idea, just that it is charmingly British and made for a right jolly stop on a lazy afternoon out. 


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Visiting with Jane

 

Of course our main motivation for visiting Bath was Jane.  My middle girls are not as bookworm-ish as their brothers but they are definitely enraptured with all that Jane's heroines embody – virtue, wit, style, class and ultimately in my opinion, growth.  This trip anchored the novels and movies and many, many hours of discussion we have shared. Gave it all a structure to hang on. 

You can read more about walking in Jane's footsteps here. Below are some snaps of our little pilgrimage. 

 

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The gravel walk made famous in Persuasion, which is our next read.

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Tea at the Jane Austen centre, for all but Miss Moira who ordered hot chocolate wherever possible.  I can tell you every single time we have ordered hot chocolate in this country it has been impressive.

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Above: the Royal Crescent and below walking back to town center along the gravel walk.

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Celebrating nature in days past


Ecologically minded media would have us think that the cultivation and preservation of natural resources are newly discovered concerns.  Visiting the grounds of old manor houses indicates otherwise.  In fact in the days before the state came on board, it was private collectors who painstakingly preserved rare bird and butterfly specimens or coaxed rare blooms in conservatories. Many of these collections remain in homes now in the care of the National Trust in Britain. 

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I loved how this child darted between the trees just as I focused and ended up looking like a little dryad. : ) 

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And back out into the sun.  Do you see that sun? Oh how we soaked it up.  Having lived further south I don't think we noticed the change of seasons happening so definitely as we do now.  The days are distinctly brighter and longer right after spring's official beginning per the calendar, just as they become distinctly darker and shorter in short order come fall.  We are so glad to see blue skies again when we have them. 

So here's my nod to Earth day.  Some natural English beauty coming this way this week.
And listen, if anyone is still with me here, I do hope you will leave your email when you comment.  It hate that I can't easily respond. It's such a bother I know but spam was killin' me for a while there. 

of dust and dollhouses

 

Once again I attempted Bath pictures and they got eaten up. It's a bad idea to try to do much online in the evenings here.  Our connection speed drops quite a bit and becomes downright erratic when others in the area get online.  Maybe tomorrow there will be time.  I feel like I say that a lot and then there isn't, but that's ok too.  

It's funny because when the children are little there is so very much time spent supervising, guiding, helping.  Days go by without many free moments at all. Now many of mine are long past needing that sort of input by me, but still there are texts, emails, and catching up around the kitchen island when we all return from work and activities.  And those are the very best parts of the day. We have become a community and I love that.  Though in a community this size you can expect that at any given time some people are sailing along and some need encouragement and someone might be struggling.  That's pretty much how it usually is and it keeps you on your toes. 

We had a freak wind storm this morning which got our day off to a running start. Just after Allen and Alannah headed to work it kicked up.  A loud bang caught Aidan's attention and he noticed the trampoline had flipped over and up onto the side of the house.  Fortunately it missed all the windows but it was quite impossible to move it with the wind at 26mph.  The boys held it in place until we had a pocket of calm when we could get it to the fence and tie it down. 

In the distance we could see the dirt clouds building.  Our farm was a higher piece of fen land and never was underwater as so much of the surrounding area once was.  However, it was sort of like the beach, you could say, and some of the fields are still very sandy.  They are ideal for growing the carrots and beets they plant here.  But at times like this, after the last harvest and before the next, the wind wrecks havoc. 

It was all much better by soccer time.  And the wind did not trigger my car alarm multiple times like it did during the game the night before.  ThankyouGod. 

What else?  The littles have been making heaps of progress academically though in surprisingly short spurts during the day.  In between there is a LOT of dollhouse play for the girls and throwing of footballs in imaginary games for Brendan.  Still, they are learning so much.  I have had them together for some things.  In photography-speak they call it batch processing. <g> They are both reading like mad.  B is reading The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe to me.  Tess is moving into the short chapter books he just moved out of.  Both are learning cursive.  Both are working through  If You Lived in Colonial Times (and the other books in the series) Both are soaring through the Strayer Upton math. So fwiw, these are all hits. 

The flowers came home with a man who is concerned about some tests of mine that came back with a little hitch requiring more tests. Hopefully nothing.  Probably nothing. But sort of hanging overhead until they are "for sure" nothing, if you know what I mean. 

Speaking of news, its been a big week hasn't it?  Much sadness and scary stuff playing out on screens.  We tuned in the other night when Boston was unfolding.  We sent the little ones to bed but one of the boys was all curled up next to his dad so I left him and his older brother to watch with him.

 It soon becomes apparent that although the news is ON 24 hours a day, there isn't really 24 hours of breaking news.  There is about 7 minutes of news on a continuous loop.  So we watched and we turned it off.  Between us and our facebook feeds we have the gist of what has happened since.  It's enough.  We know to pray and we are.  But we can easily forget that kids are not tiny adults.  There is nothing good to be gained by letting that continuous loop of disturbing news and sensational images become the background music of their lives.   So in their world there are dusty clouds and dolls to dress and soccer nets.  Just as it should be. 

Wishing you the same. 

 

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