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"We housewives often in the course of our work come up to bare unwitting prospects and we exclaim, “Oh, it’s perfect drudgery!” But stay, come round this way, view your work from another standpoint. Ah, what a change! Heavens light is upon it; sacred memories arise, glad songs are heard and we trace where high art has been at work. Best of all, our work need not be likened to a ruin, but a place filled with happy human souls. Don’t have one-sided views of your work, view it all round. Have a truly high idea of  your work, and you will never commit the great mistake of thinking it drudgery."

By Charlotte Skinner,  The Housewife, 1886.

Do visit Brocante Home for the entire essay!

 

the mark of time

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They stayed there on her mirror for weeks after we left.  She couldn't bear to wipe away the imprint of my little ones.  Seeing those tiny hands as she passed by made it feel as though they weren't so far away.  There were no other little ones nearby and the glass stayed spotlessly clean.  There were no messes.  And no giggles.  This is what Gram told me after we visited all those years ago when bearded sons were still toddling boys.  

I thought of this glancing over my shoulder as the sun fell the other night, remembering one sticky, tiny person pressed to the glass earlier, looking for her brothers in the yard.

 I left it there for just a little bit longer.

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So, it's the first sunny weekend in our corner of Germany and what comes to mind to while away the hours?  Why of course, you form a tractor convoy with your neighbors and snake your way through the backroads of local hamlets until you're all tired out.  Then you go sit a spell at the corner pub and have a rousing singalong.  

At least that is how local folks were spending the day around here. Never know quite what you will find as you turn the corner. <g>  I hope your weekend is full of silly surprises.

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It is of the LORD's mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not.    They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.   Lamentations 3:22-23

 

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One of the biggest surprises I have had in the past several months has been a growing fascination with the Old Testament.  I will admit it did not draw me in regularly for many years.  It was Allen's audio bible study app that started it all.  He is a man of schedules and goal setting and the whole idea of this reading all planned out appealed to him especially.  He listens to his chapters on his own and then reads to us after the rosary.  More often than not I am so caught up in what we hear I grab my bible after to read the sections before and after.

 It's been a blessing.

Every morning. 

A Rainy Day in Prague

A little rain doesn't stop us when we are adventuring.  Ok, maybe it slows us down a little, but we usually splash on through.  That's a darned good thing considering our next location.  The second day in Prague was misty moisty which later turned to buckets as we approached the bridge going home. We took cover there laughing ourselves silly. 

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My beautiful Moira. She took my breath away when I turned and caught a glimpse of her gazing out across the bridge as we waited. 

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This image IS Prague for me.  It is what I picture when I think of our time in Europe together.  Oh those little bitty hands.  She will never remember this place.  I hope she never forgets arms bearing her up and carrying her out of the rain. 

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This is the sixth time we have buttoned up a little man for his First Communion Day. This year was Brendan's year and he has so looked forward to this day.  

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He was so sincere throughout the mass.  Father gave a special homily in English for Brendan, who was so rapt with attention he was nodding yes throughout the whole thing.  Father doesn't do an English sermon very often.  He took it from The Sermons of St. John Vianney. (which is now in my Amazon shopping cart!)  I know this because he showed me his copy of the book afterwards with all the notes and Brendan's name penciled in here and there.  Our boy is forever to be remembered when he thumbs through his volume and I can't tell you how that endeared me to the man.  

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We took no pictures during the service.  As a priest once said, "It is a holy moment, not a Kodak moment."  But we made up for that after. <g>  We giggle when we look at the pictures now because dear Mr. Sherner (r) looks so stern.  But don't let that fool you.  It is like those old tintype pictures.  As soon as the camera fired he was all smiles!  In fact he swapped places with me and set up and took pictures of us.  Another of those cultural things we are just now understanding. 

The other parishioners were every bit as kind.  When all the pictures were done and we stepped outside there they all were.  All of them, waiting, with gifts and hearty handshakes for Brendan.  

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Have I mentioned how much B enjoys journaling?  He just thinks it is so cool to write down whatever he is thinking about or telling what he has done.  He often just sits and doodles.  I found this page below and had to smile. Salvation history from a 7 year old's point of view.  So him.  Don't worry.  We've assured him all is well now.  "I know," he said, quite satisfied with the whole explanation.  

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He still likes to make pictures and write about them.  I wonder where he gets that from….

 

Weekend Photography Tips – Picmonkey and point and shoots

I wanted to share a couple things.  First, Picnik closed this month.  To the rescue has come Picmonkey.com which is proving to be a decent free editor.  I am hoping to play around a bit as time permits.  And it isn't.  ; ) A few suggestions however – trying playing with brightness, exposure, sharpening, and contrast on your images and see what you think.  

For true point and shoot photography inspiration I suggest a nice leisurely visit to Faded Plains.  I have had this site on my Reader for a good long time and was amazed, as many of her readers were, to learn that all those stunning images were captured on a point and shoot camera that runs less than $200.  

Like she says, it is necessary to learn composition and the way light works.  I would try keeping the light to your back as you shoot vignettes such as these, since backlighting with a point and shoot can trick your camera into underexposing. Import to Picmonkey and remove any color casts.  Then fiddle with brightness and exposure and see how the image changes.  And if you get images like those please link back and share with us! 

 

Montessori Primary Teacher Manual bundle giveaway!

**Montessori Primary Teacher Manual Bundle Giveaway **

I am so very pleased to have been given the opportunity to both use and review these incredible resources from Montessori Print Shop AND to share them with one lucky family at the end of this week.  The name is a bit misleading because the scope and sequence actually covers the skills normally presented in most traditional school programs through middle elementary grades.  I would suggest taking placement tests for Saxon Math for instance to determine correct grade level placement after completion of these manuals.  You may be surprised at how much ground has been covered! On with the review….

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Several years ago I wrote about our Montessori journey and what I felt was most critical to the success of the method.  Despite the explosion of materials in recent years, I shared that we were not seeing a dramatic increase in peace and order in individuals and homes, termed "normalization" in Montessori circles,  a primary goal of Montessori education.  Montessori-at-home is now often characterized by hands-on projects which multiply to fill prime tabletop and shelf real estate at an alarming rate.  This was not always so.

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My thoughts are the same today.  Few people really dissect down to the heart of any given method – Montessori or otherwise. Hence, there are blocks and trays cluttering schoolrooms and adding more stress to teacher/moms who have no idea what the big picture is nor where all that stuff fits in, literally or figuratively. There are resources offered that carry a particular label which don't actually reflect the method they are linked with. That doesn't bring us closer to a Montessori environment. In fact one would be far closer to realizing the promise of Montessori with a very small number of materials and a good grasp of the overall goals.

So when I read this:

"They (children) are in the constant process of trying to understand what the environment is all about and how they fit into it.  Without order the children will not be able to develop a sense of their relationship with the environment."

I nodded vigorously. Yes!  Further, I would argue that Mom needs to be able to make sense of the method and its relationship with the environment.  I can heartily recommend these primary manuals to help make that happen.

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The manuals first present that big picture overview of the both the skills to be mastered as well as a review of those learned in other areas and how they correspond to and complement new learning. Then they move from that broad view to sequential presentations, broken into steps with clear instructions and material lists.  Once you have a firm idea of the goal you can determine if a given material will enhance the learning or clutter it up.  Montessori Print Shop materials, which correspond to each lesson, are conveniently linked. Therefore, after familiarizing yourself, you can immediately prepare your lesson in its entirety with very little expense.

The manuals defy some preconceptions about both the Montessori method and the children themselves.  They present some inspiring ways to look at things. For instance, in the math manual she says:

Children have "an inborn attraction for math due to their innate sensitivities to time, order, and sequence." 

How contrary to many of our own prejudices about math!  As with the language manual, she explains how the Practical Life and Sensorial activities will have already begun to lay the foundation for future understanding.  Instead of viewing the bean pouring and weighted bottles as isolated activities, you begin to see how beautifully the materials work together across the curriculum to build the child's understanding.

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She discusses the indispensible role of the teacher and inspires us to “use elegant vocabulary” and “good body language” and sincere eye contact.  She stresses that the success of the materials rests upon the ongoing conversations you have with your children.  Instead of reducing the method to the acquisition of purely empirical knowledge, the author encourages us to enrich our environment with music, literature, fine art, and warm interaction.  

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Montessori education was not intended to be cold and mechanical, as it is often caricaturized, but rather to holistically develop mind, body, and spirit.  All those activities are a means to that end, not an end in themselves. They are also not promised to be effective in the absence of  a sweet disposition and participation in religious and cultural ritual. It is all about integrating the separate parts of life and learning into a cohesive whole. With that in mind, I wrote all those years ago to first get understanding.  (Prov 4:7) Develop peace and order in your environment and yourself.  Then share the wonder of God’s orderly creation with the little people you love.  I truly feel this a wonderful resource to aid in that effort and encourage you to spend some uninterrupted time mulling over those introductory sections before diving into the lessons.  They are concise but weighty words. 

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If would like to be included in this drawing for the bundle of Practical Life, Language, and Math Manuals, please leave a comment and enter a good email address.  Winner will be announced on Saturday. 

post script:  Disregard the email sent out earlier.  The widget is fidgety and there is no time to fidget this week <g>   We have a wonderful random winner selector in house.  (She can be seen doing the jacket flip above lol) 

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