Perseverance

It's funny because I have certainly read to the kids about Lincoln over the years. In fact, we read one of our favorite biographies last week.   Perhaps it was seeing it laid out this way that caught my attention: 

1. He had a difficult childhood  

2. Less than one year of formal schooling

3. Failed in business at age 22

4. Defeated for legislature at 23

5. Failed again in business at 24

6. Elected to the legislature at 24

7. Fiancee died when he was 26

8. Defeated for speaker at 29

9. Defeated for electorate at 31

10. At 33 married a woman who became a burden not a help

11. Only one of four sons lived past age 18

12. Defeated for congress at 34

13. Elected to congress at 37

14. Defeated for congress at 39

15. Defeated for senate at 46

16. Defeated for vice president at 47

17. Defeated for senate at 49

18. Finally elected president

 

Defeated. Defeated. Defeated.  Surely a man would have reason to consider that to be the operative word in that life list… at least if you didn't know the rest of the story.  And Lincoln did not know the rest of his story while he was still living it. He just chose to ignore those repeated defeats and press on.  That is no small feat, especially for a man who is thought to have suffered from depression. It takes an iron will and great vision to persevere like that.  

This is what I am mulling over on President's Day. 

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At the Cabin

I had to laugh when my son commented on Facebook that a visit to our house typically includes your involvement in a play, a concert, or a photo shoot.  This is actually true, particularly if you are a guest of one of our middle kids.  You may well find yourself swept away into a throwback fantasy world – at least for a little while. It's all good fun.

If you visit, dress warmly.

We may end up hiking over to the cabin at the pond…

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Weekend Photography Tips – composition

There is one instance in which it is actually less than desirable to be 'centered'.  That is, when it comes to your photographs. (Actually this applies to all forms of visual art.) It is generally accepted that a composition is more pleasing when the subject is slightly off-sides rather than dead center.  For a couple hundred years now this has been referred to as the rule of thirds. 

If you imagine a nine-patch quilt square superimposed over your image, you want to try to position your camera so that the subject is roughly near one of the four points on the center square. This can be done during focusing or later in editing. There is a trick to doing it in camera however because most point and shoot cameras tend to hunt for a center object to focus upon.  

First things first, you need to track down the way your camera is currently set to focus.  Does your camera have face recognition? Does it have flashing boxes in the viewfinder letting you know what it is selecting as focal points?  These are important things to know because whatever is outside the little flashing box(es) may well not be in focus, particularly if you are in Aperture or Portrait modes. 

Next, get your subject into a focus box and press the shutter half way down.  This will lock your focus and exposure.  Many people don't realize that your camera needs a half second there to do that. If you routinely press the shutter button completely immediately without that pause you aren't allowing your camera to focus properly. 

So, you have your subject locked in.  Now, move your camera slightly one way or another to frame the scene and then depress your shutter button the rest of the way. If this takes too much time you can always play around with cropping in your photo editing program.  They all have that. I would suggest making a copy of your image first and then try cropping it different ways for comparison. 

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In this shot the tunnel is centered, but you can see that the girls themselves are aligned at the 1/3 and 2/3 marks.  This makes for a more symmetrical composition than Aidan's but still works. 

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When she was solo, however, I moved Tess slightly left.

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The Rule of Thirds doesn't apply only to portraits.  Some gorgeous examples of landscape and still shots here.

Weekend Challenge: learn to identify your camera's focus indicator and practice holding the shutter halfway down and recomposing your shot.  Alternatively, choose some of your older photos and play around with cropping.  (remember, always edit COPIES, never originals – cardinal rule of editing)

Learning to Love

"There are many who want me to tell them of secret ways of becoming perfect and I can only tell them that the sole secret is a hearty love of God, and the only way of attaining that love is by loving.  You learn to speak by speaking, to study by studying, to run by running, to work by working; and just so you learn to love God and man by loving. Begin as a mere apprentice and the very power of love will lead you on to become a master of the art." 

– St Francis de Sales

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valentine Little love apprentices at work around here this week.  

Montessori at Home – Multiplication Manipulative plans

Those of you who were interested in our multiplication mat might want to visit Montessori Print Shop.  Jennifer has graciously shared actual lesson pages from her primary math manual to use with the mat.   These run through a typical multiplication presentation, complete with suggested scripts. 

Enjoy!

The Best Medicine

"The best medicine in the world, without any side effects, is a smiling face."

We are hoping this saying holds true.  I had the privilege to photograph some of my favorite people this week and we had a blast.  Lots of smiles and laughter during the session.  Some more sober thoughts and lots of prayers while editing.  You see, the pictures of these beautiful faces are going to be hung in their father's ICU room, where he is in critical condition.  Visits are limited so we bringing a little bit of home to him this way.  I would ask you say a prayer when you see this post for a gentle man and the woman and children who absolutely adore him. 

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Walk in Love

"The lens of loss and trial has a way of bringing blessing into sharp focus. It is the the relative ease of the uninterrupted daily that muddies the water, allowing discontent to filter in. It can make it hard to see love, to show love, to feel loving. How often we become farsighted as marriage ages, seeing clearly that which is beyond our reach, while what is right there before us blurs and fades from our sight…"

please visit Suscipio for the rest of the story

Covenant

"And God said, 'This is the sign of the covenant which I will give between me and you…'" 

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Rainbows aren't always overhead, in sun-splashed parting clouds. 

Very often they are right there underfoot, in the midst of our messy spills,

the sticky spots.

You just have to look for them.

Sharing a moment of grace with the ladies at Suscipio this week:
"They were there, these moments of grace. They may have been fleeting and the noise and demands of life may have tried to drown them out, but they were there."