May Daybook

Maybe we call it a May-book? 

Outside: Sunny and 50's.  We have had a lot of stormy weather recently.  We watched our big aspen lurching into the open part of the yard as a couple roots snapped right in half. It will need to come down now, google tells us, but it is hard to believe it while it's still so green. We then lost power for 8hrs the other day when a power line pole was struck and caught fire.  The little ravine our gutters empty into completely filled up after this last storm.  Neighbor said it was the first time in 20 years he had ever seen that. 

So yeah.  Crazy weather but beautiful blue skies once again. They always come back if you ride it out.

Wearing: You're probably like, who cares right?  Fwiw, it's some coral ankle length cotton pants, white tee, and a denim jacket for appointments today.  Fun look back at fashion by the year here. 

Reading: fiction.  New fiction at that.  This, friends, surprises me.  More Chris Bohjalian which quite honestly freaked me the heck out.  I grabbed it on the way out of the library and then was taken aback at the opening graphic depictions.  NOT g rated.  Be clear on that point. This is more a review than a recommendation. I admit though the writing was skillful and one could never, ever be lukewarm about human trafficking after reading.  Am choosing a different genre for the next read though, since that is the next best thing to mind bleach. 

Tess is all Nancy Drew these days.  Steadily working her way across the shelf of the library. 

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Fitness: Spring training for mom happening now.  It's been a good month. Slow but steady progress. This is my last year of the first half century of my life.  God willing I will be entering the second half strong.  Today was a good day starting this way. Yesterday I was so tired and frustrated with some new resistance exercises I overshot and ended up collapsing on the carpet. There may have been some tears involved.  I just got up today and hit it again.  Persistance wins right? 

In the kitchen: there is an Instapot pressure cooker on the way! Sending up a prayer it is the answer to my weekday dinner time crunch.   Are you in on this latest and greatest gadget?  Friends have added me to Facebook groups and this promises to revolutionize meal prep. Paleo Instapot recipes here  5 jillion instapot pins here

From the learning room: Finishing the last few books for several students. Lighting a (motivational) fire under one other….  The boys have been busy with extracurricular sports. We are enjoying exploring some old shows on youtube like Liberty Kids, Wishbone, Bill Nye and even Cover to Cover (yes, I am that old) which follows my best motto of "Speak slow, Speak low."   And if you are also a midcentury mom you might remember Write On and probably also saw that one played on a filmstrip…

In other news: Moira has saved up for and purchased her first car.  Her brother has been driving me around prepping for his license.  I am awed at the passage of time this represents.  Not sad at the speed of it, nor particularly anxious for it to hurry up.  It's rolling along as it should.  

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Around the house: I picked up this set of embroidered linens from the antique sale. There had been another similar set at the flea market in Germany which left me with serious reverse buyer's remorse when I left them there. Now they are here.  My young German friend tells me they say:

What mother bestowed upon me once

shall be smoothly and prettily ordered,

I treasure/hold it up it in this closet,

like once my mother did. 

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In community:  Such a time we have had.  A dear older lady we know had a massive stroke.  We helped get her home for hospice and were blessed to help in the small ways we could until her death the other day.  It has been so good to have something purposeful to be a part of.  

We meantime are awaiting confirmation of what looks to be a grave diagnosis for my mother.  The past weeks have been chock full of discussions and decisions, texts and calls. Some of those have been middle of the night which probably explains the being flattened on the carpet part above.  

How do you navigate times like these?  St. Therese is a good model:

"If I did not simply live from one moment to another, it would be impossible for me to be patient, but I look only at the present, I forget the past, and I take good care not to forestall the future. When we yield to discouragement or despair it is usually because we think too much about the past and the future. But, pray much for me."

yes, please : ) 

 

 

 

Get set…go!

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We have another runner in the family.  It's still not me. This time it's not long distance either, but track. It's been a lot of fun to watch his events.  It's like a three ring circus in a good way.  Something is happening both on the track and inside the field at any given time.

I wasn't a big sports fan or participant in school but I have come to really value what it offers our kids.  More than competition and teamwork, which are also great, it is fresh air, lots of tiring exercise, time away from screens.  It fits in well with our "just go outside" outlook. Stressed?  Go outside awhile.  Run it off.  Get a change of scenery.  Most things look better afterwards. 

 

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an opportunity

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Some afternoon fun with their friends. Maybe it works, maybe not. So far they have loved watching the seeds sprout at least.  I will be watching a patch in the yard since the dog walked through and upended one tray.  We may or may not see some runaway zinnias this summer. : ) 

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"Give the children an opportunity to make a garden.  Let them grow what they will.  It matters less that they grow good plants than that they try for themselves."

– Liberty Hyde Bailey

gratefully and joyously

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"Glorious St. Joseph, model of all who are devoted to labor, obtain for me the grace to work in the spirit of penance in expiation of my many sins; to work conscientiously by placing love of duty above my inclinations; to gratefully and joyously deem it an honor to employ and to develop by labor the gifts I have received from God, to work methodically, peacefully, and in moderation and patience, without ever shrinking from it through weariness or difficulty to work; above all, with purity of intention and unselfishness, having unceasingly before my eyes death and the account I have to render of time lost, talents unused, good not done, and vain complacency in success, so baneful to the work of God. All for Jesus, all for Mary, all to imitate thee, O patriarch St. Joseph! This shall be my motto for life and eternity."

– St Joseph the Worker Prayer

When I read this prayer for the feast day today it painted such a convicting picture of how to apply ourselves to our daily work, whether at home or away. It is arguably even more essential to approach work done at home and for our family with those virtues as our guide. 

Here's to a peaceful, productive week!

 

America the Beautiful – Farmer’s Market

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Or that time we had ice cream for dinner. They serve some epic ice cream at the roadside market in Mount Vernon, WA.  People stand in lines that trail outside the building and out into the garden. If you ask around 'everyone' knows where to go.  So of course we had to give it a try. It was late afternoon when we arrived at the market. The sun was slowly sinking lower in the sky but the air was still warm and breezy. 

We passed the time while waiting visiting with the man in front of us and his little dog.  He turned around, did a quick head count of the dozen-plus of our family and friends, then threw back his head and laughed it was a darn good thing he had gotten in line ahead of us.  Truth! The whole scooping of softball-sized artisan ice cream scoops into hand-wrapped cones fresh from the waffle iron takes time.  

Slow food is the best food. It was a perfect way to ease into the evening after a whole day in the sunshine. The kids loaded into the van, full and happy, and most of them promptly drifted off to the oldies playing on the dashboard radio.

Good friends, great day. 

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a visitor

When I walked to the driveway the other day the boys mentioned, "Bat."  

"What?" I said.  

"There's a bat stuck in the tree." For whatever reason the first thing that came to mind was they had thrown a baseball bat into the tree and it got tangled someplace.  Not that they play baseball. I didn't say it was a logical thought, just that first one.  Anyway it wasn't a ball bat but rather a real little brown/black bat sleeping soundly smack on the side of the tree trunk at about chest height. 

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I ran through my limited repertoire of bat facts which includes the part that seeing them behave out of character during the daytime is often a sign of a sick bat and could spell trouble.  Rabies alert went off in my head, except that he was doing appropriate daytime bat stuff, namely sleeping.  

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After a quick check with my favorite biologist, we decided to leave him alone and see what happened after dark. It seems they can get disrupted and displaced and sometimes fall back asleep in unlikely spots. Amazingly he slept straight through the noise of the boys' game of horse which could normally wake the dead. His little side fluttered ever so faintly so we knew he was alive though not budging.  Finally one of the times I walked out he had up and flown away and was not spotted again. 

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America the Beautiful – Washington State tulip fields

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I'm a little slow on the draw with travel documenting. It was such good luck that our trip to Washington State coincided with tulip season. To be honest, we had no idea there were bulb farms there until days before we arrived. Another blessed coincidence is that our friends from Germany are now living nearby and joined us for an afternoon touring Roozengaarde farms. 

The land was level and fertile, so similar to our English fen lands.  The weather was warm and breezy making for a perfectly beautiful day. 

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be quite sure

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"God arranges everything for us, so that we need have no more fear or trouble and may be quite sure that all things will come right in the end."

Heidi

It has been a couple weeks of challenges that hit like a spray of pellets. Separate issues to sort through with  friends and relatives in crisis along with the big and little decisions that must be made daily in a large household.  While we could begin to troubleshoot and make a plan of action for some of those things, others have not been so clear cut.  There are layers to peel away to get to the bottom some things and all you can do is be patient and think as clearly as you can each baby step along the way. 

We have just a few more pages and Heidi's story will be finished. (We always have to make a date to savor that very last chapter of a read-aloud together.)  There have been so many beautiful passages.  The other day Heidi was reflecting about her fervent prayers in Frankfurt and her despair when day after day, week after week, they went unanswered.  That despair was contrasted with the utter joy she was feeling at the end of the story when so many unexpected blessings showered down upon them all.  Those blessings were only possible because of the terrible pain that had come before. Had the relief come any sooner, the blessing would have been lost. 

It is the wait that tries us though, the worry, the wondering, our absolute certainty at times that it's all going awry. Her words come back to me reply:

“We must pray to God everyday to show we don't forget that all gifts come from Him. But if some wishes remain unfulfilled we must show our confidence in Him, for He knows best.” 

It all comes right in the end.  In the meantime we relish all the good and beautiful things sprinkled generously in between the trials. In fact the greater the trials, the more crucial it is to discipline yourself to find joy. So that is why you see cupcakes and sunshine over here even though there are some much bigger things unfolding at the same time.  This is how we show our confidence. 

cupcakes with heart (s)

Cupcakes, that is.  What happens homeschoolers grow up and become college anatomy lab instructors? They treat their students to thematic cupcakes at the end of the semester of course. Extra credit question on the final was to identify the organs in your dessert.   That's heart and brain fwiw, though they ended up getting credit for suggesting intestines given the pink tint versus gray. 

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Of Sundays’ and Six Sisters

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Or what is on my phone right now.  Provides a decent snapshot of life this week. 

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Orange love.  I was peeling absent mindedly while reading morning devotions.  When I stood up to clean up I saw this tiny heart. 

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Abbie's new how-to-draw. 

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Fluke snow.  It was all gone by the end of the day. 

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Decided it was as good a time as any to tear through all the kitchen drawers and reorganize.

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Spring picture books lately. 

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My baby dog with his first grown up clipping. 

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Dinner courtesy of the Six Sisters Stuff book we just got.  Fun!!  Don't let my pitiful phone snaps turn you off.  This book has been fun.  Chock full of homestyle food and crafts.  Above is the 7-Up Grilled chicken.   The chicken was so tender it cut with a fork. 

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Six Sisters Root Beer Cookies with cheater frosting on my part.  We made the cookie dough as directed but Alannah had leftover white frosting so we just added some of the extract to that.