to abide

 

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"Abide {stay, concentrate, give your full attention} in Me. Now part of this abiding means being focused on the example before us rather than being distracted and filling our eyes and ears with things that encourage what used to be called "our baser nature." Do you know what I'm talking about?  I've found that some books, conversations, or films stir up resentments, impatience, or other sins such as bitterness or discontent. But other images or sounds we take in encourage the good, the pure, the life-giving."

For the Family's Sake

This from my morning reading has become something of a litmus test for me. She goes on to say,

 "Not everyone is able to expend anything like the portion of time and energy on (homemaking) that she would like.  In this case we have to choose what is most important and simplify unnecessary complications in our lives." 

 

sweet

 

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Alannah made a simple dessert cake, deliberately opting for a flat knife buttercream finish.  We set it on the beautiful vintage cake plate Rebecca sent. This could be considered the 20 part of the 80/20 plan, wherein we gravitate towards Paleo and all natural most all the time.

 Except when we don't. : )   That could either make you send up a cheer for being "real" or bemoan my inconsistency and compromises.  Either way – it looks lovely on the cake plate.  Humor me. 

Shortly after this afternoon of baking we ran across this book which we agreed may be our next investment.  After years and years of elaborate cake making on her part, Alannah was drawn to the simple, organic appeal of Naked Cakes. We are anxious to see more.  Since there is not really a full '20' for me, a very promising read is My Paleo Patisserie.   Those two are on our short list for summer dessert adventures. 

 

puppy love

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We are in deep.  Way deep, head over heels in love. 

My husband had been begging talking about getting a larger dog when we returned to the States. Seeing how we tend to opt for "or not" given "ready or not" we went ahead and jumped this week. 

Meet Archie, a 10wk old Standard Poodle.  Affectionate, mellow, and all legs. And very likely the subject of an embarrasing number of 'baby pictures' in the coming months. 

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fixing leaks – food waste

This summer is about taking inventory, something of a State of the Union. I am taking a hard look at where my time and money and emotion is being spent and fixing any little (or big) leaks that I am finding. As Ann Voskamp famously quips - 

A pail with a pinhole loses as much as the pail pushed right over. 

As we have been cleaning the refrigerator weekly it has became clear we are losing too much food due to poor planning and poor execution.  Time to tighten up the ship and be more intentional in what we buy and seeing it through to being used. 

Some efforts to that end:

make a menu

shop from a list

prep food soon after shopping (wash/chop/store)

store it so you can see it

use leftovers creatively

This last part is essentially what is composing our breakfast and lunch menu.  Leftover fruit, vegs and meat are finding their way into smoothies, soups, frittatas, wraps, omelettes, stir fries.  If it is likely to be used within the next day or so it goes into a small storage container.  If not, it gets frozen. (the last serving of smoothies and soup are easily poured into extra ice cube trays) 

Todays breakfast took five minutes to prep.  Line muffin tins with one slice bacon each. Pour in beaten eggs – average one per muffin cup.  Add leftover sauteed vegs. Bake 20min in oven. Mine was set to convection. Your time may vary.  We have done this minus the bacon and used leftover ground meat or sausage. (pardon the iphone pics pleaseandthankyou) 

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Anyway, maybe it's just me.  It seems as we get busy we get little leaks in the budget like this.  We move faster and there is more expense and more waste.  For a season you can compensate but it's not a good long term default.  

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hand over hand

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"For the struggling Christian it may seem that joy is at the bottom of a well. It is never obtrusive, but there it waits, cool and clear, promising to refresh.

We have to practice our faith, to send down the bucket on a reliable rope of faith . . . and draw up joy hand-over-hand."

Karen Andreola

I've been smiling over this excerpt since my morning reading today.  We sometimes bemoan the lack of water when we aren't doing our part to carry the bucket.  

Little joys here:

vintage sheets

French vanilla coffee

morning time journaling

beautifully crafted headbands from gifted friends

care packages from afar

daughters who bring home dessert

texts from my daughter-in-law

letters from old friends

long naps

gathering supplies for new projects

All this rushed in together with some challenges and some very discouraging news.  There was a choice about where to let the focus rest. I am choosing joy.

 

 I hope you are drawing up hand-over-hand this weekend and I would love to hear what is making you smile right now. 

to accept equally

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I explained to him that the penance Jesus wanted from him was complete obedience,; obey and that’s enough.

"Can’t I do some other penance?"

"Yes, you can allow yourself the penance of being patient with others and the unpleasant things of life; to accept equally the heat and the cold and the rain; to be cheerful when tired and not feeling so well and so on.”

“But,” said Dominic, “these things come to you whether you like it or not.”

“Precisely,” I replied, “offer them willingly to God; there is nothing that will please him more, and you will be doing real penance.” Thus reassured, Dominic was very happy and completely at peace.

– St John Bosco speaking about St Dominic Savio

 

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pricillas

Pulling together a room is intuitive for me.  Despite thousands of Pinterest pins and what some would consider an unreasonable quantity of decor volumes on my shelves, when actually decorating it comes down to me sitting in a room and seeing what it calls for. The ideas come 'in response to' rather than by superimposing a predetermined design.

(this may or may not be a metaphor for the rest of my life you know) 

The little girls share a small room now for the first time, in a pair of white antique twin beds.  One by one the ideas I had for them when coming to this house were rejected.  When we got here I knew just what I wanted for the windows – storybook style white pricillas, the sort that have graced dollhouses and picture book windows for generations.

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I had pairs of these very curtains stored for many years.  They were purchased the same year this house was built – 1979 – for my own girlhood bedroom in Wisconsin.  I spent half an hour today coaxing out the creases and pressing the ruffles for their next stint in Utah. 

 

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making home

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"Homemaking is seen as a mere detail that can be amply covered as secondary to a job or career, which is "real life."  

however…

People and their everyday lives matter more than things or status.  Serving others is the highest calling of all (apart from prayer) – serving them in ordinary ways, giving people what they need. 

Homes absorb immense amounts of time and energy. This effort is satisfying if one has a balanced schedule and can cover the essentials without too much stress.  Essentials include the extras to the everyday round that is part of human life – the celebrations, reunions, disappointments, depression, sicknesses, disasters. 

Homes work best when someone is the contented keeper of the home life. 

Homemaker is a good description. It really is worth giving full attention to this vital task."

For the Family's Sake

It's been a long several weeks of unpacking but I am so happy to have my old books back.  We took a good amount with us on our European adventure but many were stored. It is like being reunited with old friends. 

I am rereading Susan Schaeffer Macauley right now, one of my first inspirations.  I am newly inspired and refocused in this vocation going over these words.  30 years into this journey they ring truer than ever and now feel more pregnant with meaning than ever before.  

Now, as life presents so many possibilities and distractions,  I am reminded again and again that keeping the home life is really worth giving my full attention to. 

bullwinkle by morning

 

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Yesterday morning began like most mornings do.  Coffee was brewed, breakfast made, lunches packed, and people sent off to work and summer football practice. I was giving myself the celebratory pat on the back (you know, go Self! They are fed. They are packed. They are launched into their day and it isn't even 8am!) when I thought I saw something move back behind the trees. The thing I thought I saw was a pony.  There is no logical reason for this other than once upon a very long time ago we had such a pony.  That pony never scaled the side of a mountain however. And that didn't happen yesterday either.  

Nope. 

Much as it may have looked like a pony bum for a minute there, it was not a pony in my yard.  It was a…..

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MOOSE!

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oh.my.word.   

It was a gosh honest truth, real live MOOSE and it was just meandering around the yard nibbling on trees til it got full and decided right there would be a perfect place to….

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…sit a spell.

In my YARD, y'all.  

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And there he sat for the better part of the morning, with us periodically peeking out at him til he up and wandered off, all casual like. As if this sort of thing just happens.  

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Our neighbors said they spot one every once in a blue moon and generally they don't cause trouble. We watched from a safe distance just the same.  Moose are prey, not predators, but they can reach speeds of 35mph when they are defending their young or during mating season (in the fall) or say, when the neighbor Corgi tries to herd them and they get super annoyed.

They sound like a cow which we didn't know until later in the evening when he returned and made actual cow sounds.  Our neighbor texted me from her porch. We couldn't see at first in the dark until she said he was over eating our apple tree.  This enlightened us to two things.  First, we have an apple tree. Who knew?  Second, we probably shouldn't count on a lot of apples. 

He has made one more appearance so far, chasing the aforementioned Corgi back to her porch early this morning. To be fair she sorta had it coming. By all accounts this doesn't happen very often so this may be our only opportunity to see such a magnificent creature so close.   Still, I will probably look over to the hillside in the mornings just in case…

  

 

Rainy May – lots of links – sort of Daybook

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Outside:  Rain.  A whole bunch.  It doesn't look much different outside my window today than it did outside my window last year this time. 

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Listening to: Simon and Garfunkel.  A lot.  Because…Simon and Garfunkel. 

Thinking about: "Slow down, you're moving too fast.  Got to make the moment last."  (see above)    Which reminded me a lot of this article about The Sacred Inefficiencies of Life and where productivity sometimes runs right up against being present and connected.  

Creating: A beautiful (with luck!) command center for household tasks.  Need some ideas?  I have my favorites pinned here. Will be back to update on which we chose. 

Reading:  So much.  First, friends had shared a few weeks ago about Pioneer Girl

It was out of stock at the time and approaching scalper pricing so I put it out of mind for a bit though it was super intriguing.  Then this showed up at my door courtesy of my friend Heather whom we roadtripped with to Bath lo these many years back now. 

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When they say "annotated" they are not kidding.   There are footnotes of biblical proportions.  Like, for real, there are as many footnotes as lines of story on many pages and surprisingly they are just as interesting as the main text. 

Around the house:  Some people are still struggling to recall where stuff goes in the new house.  All the people, actually.  They say it takes three months to form a new habit.  Meantime….

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While getting familiar with a new American house is a challenge at times we had to laugh at this tutorial BBC put out on British houses.  Oh I get homesick.  

In other news I found the living room curtain panels and they ended up being not quite right since one side of the living room is a bit sunken.  When going through my picture files I found a snap from Hancock Fabrics.  At least I hope that's where it was.  It may have been Joann's which will mean two trips to figure out but either way I am leaning towards something in this family…

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From the learning room:  Ok there isn't a learning room per se at the moment, though every day sees it coming together a bit more.  We are still learning, however, and thinking about learning and planning the coming school year's learning.  I have also been thinking with gratitude about my teaching mentors over the years after we read this article from last fall which led to the discovery the US Dept of Ed reported that over the course of one recent school year over 37,000 children were restrained in this way.  This all got me thinking, "What would Marva Collins do?" If you can't answer that then spend the penny on Amazon and be inspired.  

Same team, y'all.

We are all on the same team.  : )  On that note I read Janet Lansbury's sample dialogs when facing potential confrontation of wills.  How differently these scenarios can play out. 

 

"Let the morning time drop all its petals on me.
Life, I love you…"    

– Simon and Garfunkel