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"Forever is composed of nows." Emily Dickinson

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right now:

The garden is carpeted in flower petals.

We are moving furniture around making room for a new piece.

The little dog is being weaned off his steroids. (fingers crossed!)

Moira is teaching piano to the younger children.

Soccer (seasonal)  is in full swing. 

Ditto field trips.

I am trying to remember the difference between what calls to me and what I am called to do – and where those things overlap, and where they do not. 

Staying up too late.  See line above. 

Awaiting a smallish dental procedure this week. Sigh.

Planning to play with patchwork. 

Creating order. 

 

 

 

unless there is a cross

"What do the scars of Christ teach us?  They teach us that life is a struggle: that our condition of a final resurrection is the same as His; that unless there is a cross in our lives there will never be an empty tomb; unless there is a Good Friday there will never be an Easter Sunday; unless there is a crown of thorns there will never be the halo of light; and unless we suffer with Him we shall not rise with Him. 

Everywhere else but in Him, liberation promised is either armed or forced and that can mean slavery. Only nailed love is free. Unnailed and uncrucified love can compel. Hands pinioned to a wooden beam cannot compel, nor can a lifted Host or an elevated Chalice constrain.  They can only beckon."

Fulton Sheen Lessons on Cana and Calvary

 

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practicing the art of adventure

The call went out from the homeschool group on Friday morning to meet at the adventure forest. I hesitated for a split second thinking, wait.  Obstacle courses, ziplines… maybe I should call Allen.  Maybe we should go when I have more help.  I don't know how to get there and……

…and then I stopped my maybe-ing and considered the possibility that it might just all work out and the sun was shining and what the heck.  We shelved the books and began packing lunch and finding wellies and water bottles.  Our destination was Thetford forest.  It was great nearly free fun. (As is common in Europe, you are welcome to take yourself on in but the car will cost you to park.)

Tess' favorite part was the musical forest trail.  At each turn of the path there was another interactive instrument: chimes, ropes on pulls, in ground piano keys to jump on.  

Abbie's favorite part?  "The desert," she said.  Meaning? The enormous sand pit with the big diggers which I thought would frustrate them but instead they nearly broke a sweat determined to coordinate the two arms. 

The boys and their friend played ball in the open field then hit some of the bigger kid equipment. There was a little worrisome point for Brendan. It is not a big deal for Kieran to go off a bit ahead with older kids but Brendan is a little too young to be a big boy and a little too big to be ok being designated in the hand holder group.  I could see his brow furrowing some and figured that was the problem.  Luckily Aidan saw this too and had him tag along promising to keep a close eye. Brendan brightened right up and stuck close to his side so as to prove he was up for the honor.  

By the afternoon's end Abbie proudly announced there was sand in her wellies which translates to "all is well with the world."  They were fearless and carefree.  Things I was not at their ages.  But if you make it to the end you'll see that is changing with time. : )

 “A man practices the art of adventure when he breaks the chain of routine and renews his life through reading new books, traveling to new places, making new friends, taking up new hobbies and adopting new viewpoints.” — Wilfred Peterson

 

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Here's to adventuring. 

 

contemplative exercises

 

It's funny because every day, every single day, for weeks I have thought of all sorts of things to write about – books we read, things we do, thoughts I think.  By the end of the day however I am sometimes so worded out.  A wonderful thing happens when I sit down though.  There is just me and the pictures in my camera from our days.  That's all.  I sit and look and remember and exhale. Slowly all the stress that creeps in through news and social media and appointments and bills just slowly slips away.  All that is left is us again.  Just these faces reminding me why I get up in the morning, why the world is still very good. That 'lovely' is not just an impossible dream.  It happens right here each day. 

 

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Spend the afternoon.  You can't take it with you.

 - Annie Dillard

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"We have some good players on the team this year but what we really need is a leader. We are looking to Brendan for that."  This was what his coach had to say.  

Brendan is smaller than everyone else on his team this year.  He runs faster than many of them.  He is good at this game, as are many of the others.  There is something else about him though, a big heart inside that little man.  He has an uncanny ability to see the bigger picture and how several people can work together. How not to sweat the small stuff. That happens when you are the eighth child and have been keeping up with five older brothers your whole life.  You quickly learn to assess the game, running two steps for their every one if that's what it takes. 

I am really happy he is having so much fun, really happy that all that watching and learning has paid off.  Mostly though, I am so happy that he is valued not only for the points he can score but for setting a positive tone with his friends, leading with a smile. I am happy that he high-five's every single teammate when something awesome happens.  The score isn't that important to me. He may never be playing soccer on tv but he will be part of other teams. It is my sincere hope that he will always be someone who can be counted on to help others move in the right direction.  

 

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wonder and marvel

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“Do not ask your children
to strive for extraordinary lives.
Such striving may seem admirable,
but it is the way of foolishness.
Help them instead to find the wonder
and the marvel of an ordinary life.
Show them the joy of tasting
tomatoes, apples and pears.
Show them how to cry
when pets and people die.
Show them the infinite pleasure
in the touch of a hand.
And make the ordinary come alive for them.
The extraordinary will take care of itself.”

– William Martin

 

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A friend shared this quote which echoes my focus for my children – embracing the extraordinary ordinary.  Ordinary life is extraordinarily beautiful to me.  

I saw in my facebook feed this morning that another of my favorite writers, Kim John Payne of Simplicity Parenting is hosting a free video series this week about bringing peace and balance to family life.  I recommend Simplicity Parenting often.  It may seem a paradox because while I embrace the message wholeheartedly, we do enjoy extracurriculars.  But we are also home living very simply during the school days so the balance of in- and out-of-house activities comes out to be the same as he recommends. This isn't about a formula but a balance, about living with margin. I am anxious to hear what he has to say in this series which is a follow up to the book.  

Meantime, it has been a warm weekend spent outside.  There is a nice semi meatless lenten paleo menu on board for the week. (not the contradiction in terms you might think ; )) We are ready to jump back in to another ordinary day. 

 

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after the rain

 This week saw the last hurrah for the daffodils.  The plum trees are covered in white blossoms and the horses are beginning to venture out without their blankets. The sun has been out more often than not and the temps are rising steadily. A very good turn of events.

We had a lot of excitement around the farm this week.  In the wee hours last weekend our burglar alarm went off.  Since we had never heard it we had to really wake up and process what it was that was happening. It was no burglar but a system fail that ended up requiring the engineer to service it several days running.  Several days of the alarm firing off erratically.  It was funny that first time.  It got old I admit.  

The alarm guy and I ended up having a lot in common though and by the end of the whole project discovered we had both lived in Germany at different times and love to hike.  We swapped notes about walking destinations and gear and he brought out his phone to show pictures of must-see peaks in the UK.  Put me in a room with someone for a few minutes and I will know all about them when I walk out.  I talk.  A lot.  : ) 

The farm's painter has been working on all the trim and gutters.  He had us choose paint colors for the piano room which had a bad leak last summer. We have moved the furniture and taken down the pictures and Monday work begins on the inside.  It looks like we will have to repair the tile next week as well.  When one daughter was showering this morning the water was dripping down through the ceiling.  It happened last year too.  1960s era olive green tiles in the bath are coming undone.  

Living in a 200 year old house is an incredible experience, but it isn't always as romantic as magazines suggest.   The maintenance required is considerable and ongoing. We are blessed to have someone else who owns and maintains it because this isn't something we could take on ourselves. As it is, we are living on a farm complex which is very different from the American concept of farms. There are a LOT of people living and working here which means a great deal gets accomplished. It is also a big change for us getting used to being part of a farm team of people coming and going, sometimes knocking and sometimes not. ; ) 

Our old Land Rover bit the dust this week as well.  We had hoped to ride it out while we were here but in the end could not get it to pass its emissions test.  So we went shopping for a British spec minivan. Abbie was beside herself when she heard.  "I am SO happy!" she said.  She was pretty sure she heard "Minnie" -van and was a little bummed to learn that was not the same thing. "It's not THAT, Dad." she told him, in case he too was under the illusion we were getting a Disney vehicle. "It just means its SIZE." 

So it has been busy and things will be hopping around here for a bit yet for these and other reasons.  I got a few pictures in the early morning the other day just as the sun broke through the rainclouds in that temporary hush before the bustling began.  That has been important in keeping calm and collected during long days of noise and excitement. Mornings and evenings have been quiet, full of books and study and walking which balance the day's activity.  Breathing in and breathing out. 

So, these were the deep breaths in….

 

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Walking through the raindrops – highly recommended. 

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"If you have good thoughts they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely." - Roald Dahl

 

Grateful for:

Sunshine

A dryer that chimes a whole tune when it finishes a load

A Yorkie on my lap

Dinner that has turned out several nights in a row

dew drops on daffodils

trees in bloom

lessons finished together

a day spent in clothing that stretches

These silly faces outside my back door