Fixer Upper – downstairs bathroom edition

Bathroom 5

After what began to feel like an interminable pause in the remodeling process we began to make incredible progress in the house this summer.  The biggest job was finishing the reflooring in the family room/schoolroom so we could move everything back in for the school year.  That we did and I will share that transformation soon.  Momentum being what it is I decided we could knock out some of the updates needed in the adjoining bathroom while we were at it.  Most of it was painting I could do.  Once begun though it ended up being a joint project and between us we refinished the trim, cabinets, doors, and walls. 

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This bathroom was probably an 80's/90's era vintage.  The stain on the cabinets was in rough shape due to moisture and handling over the years.  We were not in a position to do a full remodel and pull things out just yet.  Our goal here was a facelift.  We started with the trim and the room opened up right before our eyes. I should have gotten a true "before" picture but I started that window so enthusiastically I totally spaced.  

Aug 2017 bathroom paint  web (7 of 8)

Allen took off all the doors and I spent a few days sanding and painting.  He came along after and we tackled the rest of the doors in the basement.  If I had to do it again I probably would purchase a power sander and would use a separate primer and paint versus the all-in-one. There are no major problems but the cabinetry soaked up a lot more paint than the larger doors which were done with separate primer. 

 

Aug 2017 bathroom paint  web (7 of 8)

Aug 2017 bathroom paint  web (7 of 8)

We debated considerably over wall color. Eventually we would like to pull out the old tile and replace the countertop.  Eventually is not right now, however. Right now, we have cool taupe toned floor and shower tiles with matching counter.  There was a sunny yellow wall color which I normally would have found cheerful but which was jarring up against the tile.  We have a vision for a black and white end project but since this room is pretty far down the triage list around the house, and since we discovered that the wall color for the family room  - which we had sitting nearby – was also a perfect match for the tile and counter, taupe it is for the walls for now.  

Aug 2017 bathroom paint  web (7 of 8)

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Aug 2017 bathroom paint  web (7 of 8)

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So there you have it. It is probably more of a 2000 era bathroom now versus a completely Pinterest-level space.  And yes, I see those icky between the panes window blinds. the faucet needs to go.  It is nevertheless clean and bright and in the appropriate millenium. We did not go into debt over it.  Additional work will happen as it usually does around here – in bits and pieces and by cash only.  

  

whatever you practice, you get better at

Practice quote

We have been discussing this whole self-perpetuating phenomenon lately.  We are more eager to do what comes easily.  The more we do a thing, the easier it becomes.  This whole year has been a personal challenge to push myself into new or more faithful habits and practices:

Read hard books

Tackle unpleasant home projects, little chunks at a time

Say my prayers

Exercise

Write letters

Tend the yard

Make creative cooking a bigger priority

They are simple things, most of them.  More a matter of consistency and intention than rocket science.  Am I a new woman?  Not completely.  I am however seeing measurable progress in those areas.  Just like the saying goes, all of it is coming easier to me.  Project beginnings are less of a hurdle because I have reason to expect success.  I have been down these same roads and it's gone reasonably well.  Not every day and not all those categories in a single day.  Over time though, I can see my home changing and with it my heart.  

The flipside of this truth is that constant repetition of our vices engrains them every bit as effectively. It's humbling really. Sleep in day after day and see what heroic effort it takes to rise early.  Check mail first thing?  See how quickly your time for reading or reflection evaporate. Make a snide comment?  See how quickly other annoyances come to your attention. 

A day, a life, a whole way of seeing is built choice by choice, by a series of very small decisions. 

 This essay spoke to me today.  In it she articulates the conscious steps her family takes to create a home that sustains and builds up those in it. That list includes the practical – cleaning, decluttering.  Heaven knows we have all heard about that in recent years. She goes on to mention intangibles that are even more instrumental:

What are we consuming – figuratively as well as literally? Garbage in, garbage out y'all. 

Does our speech reveal respect for our home and those in it? Gratitude? 

Do we extend to the others the grace to be their own unique creation or do we balk when they are not mirror images of ourselves? I am not talking about quirky style choices here.  What if those people in your home approach finances or diet or problem solving or stress reduction in entirely different ways?  How do we meet them? Move forward together?

Thinking in these directions goes a long ways towards softening our hearts and appreciating the overwhelming good all around us.  We may have little control over the size of our home, its market value, or the neighborhood.  

How it feels inside is all on us.  

 

 

gifts from hands and heart

Tess has been showing more and more interest in the sewing machine and has developed a very steady hand and foot recently.  We have looked through many, MANY, how to sew books and most left us underwhelmed.  We decided to jump in learn on items that would actually be used. She and Abbie finished this apron made from upcycled jeans and painted a wooden spoon to go along with for their little bestie next door who had a birthday this month. We are so pleased and need to get started on our next project.  

Jul 2017 apron gift web (1 of 1)

How to make binding here. 

Apron directions here. 

March hares

     
Mar 2017 bunnies web (2 of 2)

If you drove down our farm road in England in the early morning hours of springtime you had to be on your toes not to hit the dozens of tiny bunnies that dodged into your path. Or at least I made everyone navigate with exceptional care, being sure to warn them loudly when I saw one bounce out onto the gravel. It might sound silly but I loved seeing those little fur babies darting into the hedgerows. 

Two years in a row now, since we have been back in the States, I have found some little wild hares at the thrift shop that remind me of an old Georgian farmhouse on the fens of Suffolk. In the springtime they come out again.  

Mar 2017 bunnies web (2 of 2)

The Doorway to Christmas

 

Dec 2015 advent wreath web (1 of 1)

"For Mrs. Sharp's family, the holiday excitement begins as soon as the Thanksgiving turkey starts simmering on the stove for soup. Then we put away the everyday china to make room for the Christmas crockery and bring out the Advent Box.

"Advent Box, Mrs. Sharp? Is this another old-fashioned Victorian tradition?"

No, dear readers. Advent is one of the oldest celebrations of the Christmas season, dating back at least 14 centuries. The Advent season–the four weeks preceding Christmas–is traditionally set aside for spiritual preparation before the Nativity of Christ. Mrs. Sharp likes to think that Advent is the doorway through which we enter into a joyful Christmas.

And the Advent Box is just a cardboard box, clearly labeled "Advent" (to distinguish it from the hundreds of "Xmas boxes" in the attic). It contains all the books, supplies and materials Mrs. Sharp needs early in December in order to celebrate Advent.

Do you observe the season of Advent in your home? Victorian families did, for the many colorful customs that surround its observance–the Advent calendar, wreath and candles, as well as mini-festivals such as St. Nicholas Day (Dec. 6) and St. Lucia's Day (Dec. 13)–all added to the children's understanding and appreciation of Christmas."

Mrs. Sharp's Traditions

Although the lower level remodel is eating up a good deal of our time right now we are enjoying our Austin family style advent doing some bit of preparation each day along with our special advent prayers. This weekend's particular task is to be certain we are prepared for St. Nicholas' feast day Tuesday.  Now is the time to ensure there are chocolate coins and candy canes for the shoes as well as the makings for a simple craft gathered up. 

of cakes and company during election week

Nov 2016 cake web  (1 of 2)

It has been a full week, even removing the election from the mix.  Saturday was a work day in house and yard, at least after one midday soccer game.  LOTS of weeding and leaf bagging and cleaning.  We had overnight guests on Sunday which was wonderful.  So good to visit even for a short time and I love a full house.  The kids helped set up bedrooms and we made a big vat of chili to serve with baked potatoes after church. 

Monday and Tuesday were challenging from start to finish.  My husband was hosting his work unit at our place for their fall morale day on Wednesday. This is our second year so I had a good idea of what we needed to do though our basement remodel has kept things a bit off kilter around the house.  We planned our part of the menu and cleaned as usual.  In the middle of it Monday it seemed to me a good time to empty our clown car pantry and closet and deep clean them.  Why I don't know but they are super tidy now.  

On Tuesday the girls and I headed to the library to vote and return books. Afterwards we went to the thrift store and found some finishing touches for our party tables  - baskets and tablecloths in rich fall plaids.  With what seemed like mounting momentum we headed to Walmart to make a return and buy the rest of the party supplies and ingredients.  

I was feeling ON TOP of my game at that point.  Like, oozing good citizenship and hospitality prep.  However right there in the craft aisle getting some raffia to tie onto a vase I noticed my vision going.  As in away.  Migraine aura was starting.  Not good not good not good.  Not at Walmart where there is no escape from flourescent lighting and no one with a drivers license with me.  I've had enough of these to know how long we had before the aura passed and the pain hit.  Probably a half hour for the one and up to an hour for the other.  So I soldiered on.  Tess read my list and we managed to load the cart between us.  Fortunately most of mankind was out voting so we at least had a near empty store.  When all was clear we headed home and the boys unloaded.  I went to bed.  

Fortunately the pain was not debilitating and prep could resume a few hours later.  By then election anticipation was reaching a fevered pitch.  The rest of the house was glued to the set. (Do we still say 'set?' That's TV anyway.)  I was rather detached from the whole thing, probably due to the sorta surreal post-migraine haze.  I hit the kitchen to begin the first of the two cakes we intended to make, which was the original point of the post.

 Oh how I do ramble. It's worse in person where you can't click away. 

Nov 2016 cake web  (2 of 2)

So cake one was a Pumpkin cream cheese bundt.  I was very pleased with this one though it did take a while. And we misplaced the pastry bag when we cleaned the pantry so the topping is…. like it is.   My election guys shuffled back and forth updating me.  When the cake and cleanup was done it was after 11pm and still no verdict.  Knowing the day we had ahead of us it didn't seem as though agonizing all night would be a good idea so I went to bed.  Even shut the door.  Done. 

I must have been pretty darn done because I woke up having slept straight through and reached for the phone in the morning to see what had happened.  And then?  I got dressed, tied on an apron and made another cake because my job description was not one of those that had changed overnight.  In times of upheaval some of the most constructive things a person can do are the everyday familiar things we always do – plunge our hands into soapy water, mix up batter, run a mop, set a timer, arrange a vase of flowers, light some candles. Those are the things I did.

And made a Cider Cake with Butterscotch Bourbon Glaze, which I realized too late was not the pinned recipe I intended to make, but was already committed.   Not that it wasn't good.  By all accounts it was.  Either it was post migraine haze or the recipe was really confusing.  There were measures of sugar divided, but then only one direction for sugar usage.  Or mention of 'add remaining' such and such but we hadn't used any of that item prior.  Being NOT the world's most gifted baker I read and reread to catch my error and couldn't tell you now where it lies – recipe or me.  (odds are on me)  Someone make the darned cake and either set me straight or validate my confusion if you will. Long story shorter, it was an intellectual challenge of sorts which I enjoyed.  Employed some new skills and techniques and would likely have been perfect if I had set my oven properly and not to convection.  Because I do things like this.  

Just want to pause to add here that when my ballot was filled out I was, in fact, completely coherent lol.  I vote better than I bake.  

Anyway, the world continues to spin loudly and sometimes precariously outside these walls. Over here we have baked and scoured the junk shop and read books and opened our doors to over three dozen people of all different walks of life this week.  It's been wonderful.  As my friend MacBeth says, "Humans are very nice close up." Our home has been one of the best places for us to love and serve them. I feel very fortunate to have been able to spread a little warm and happy in what has sometimes been a very not that season. 

Fixer Upper {ours}

Autumn has ushered in a season of renovation around here.  There is probably a metaphor in there somewhere, at least for me who sees metaphor at every turn.  I've been documenting the work but if I don't post early mornings that time does not materialize later in the day.  Hence, the story has not been told here. 

The project that got us into the swing of things again was the sconces.  We had a lot of 70's/80's brass in the house when we moved in.  Some was bright yellow gold and some was this greener oiled brass, not to be confused with the cottage or tuscan style brown oiled brass popular today.  Children of the seventies will instantly recognize….

Oct 2016 fixer upper sconces web  (1 of 4)

 We have two large carriage lights in our entry which I wanted to keep but have been torn about finish options. We ended up going with dark brown-black oiled brass which goes with the English cottage vibe on the main floor. 

Oct 2016 fixer upper sconces web  (2 of 4)

The after, below.  I am sure I love them yet, but they are improved considerably and the finish is consistent with what we have chosen for faucets and fixtures elsewhere in the house. 

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We got our toes wet beginning the main floor painting since we moved some large furniture into the space and didn't want to move it later if possible.  It was a hair-pulling ordeal for me to find the perfect sand color.  Who knew?  We brought home a ridiculous number of samples (per my husband) and one after another had distinct undertones of yellow or gray.  We finally settled on this:

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From Valspar's National Historic Trust line this is Cliveden Sand.  I heart it.  So much!  Morning, noon, and night it has me swooning. (I'm a little sensitive to color. ; ))     

Sept 2016 paint web (1 of 1)

We have much more to paint in that room but had to break off while we tackle the lower level.  Our walkout level was finished in early 80's rec room style when we moved in.  It has seen a lot of teen party action in its day.  There are currently three different carpets going on down there – a patch of commercial indoor/outdoor sort at one end, then a more recent beige, and finally orange shag.  The whole space is a hot mess, let's just say.  Needs help.

The trim was a low gloss red oak.  Ish.  We debated a long time about painting it but the decision was made and we are sooooo happy.  The low ceiling space has visually opened right up as we have worked our way around the room.  

Oct 2016 fixer upper doors web  (1 of 2)

Oct 2016 fixer upper doors web  (2 of 2)

Up next – that floor I mentioned.  That's gonna be a big job.  Big job.  

Big. Stinkin'.  Job. 

We are getting back on track with telling the story though.  

Past Blessings Farm

Jul 2016 farm sale web (5 of 8)

I was reading an article in Prairie Style magazine last month and noticed that one of the features was a farm east of Spokane, coincidentally where we were heading shortly.  As luck would have it their monthly barn sale fell during our visit.  My husband very indulgently drove us out to Past Blessings Farm one morning and sifted through vintage treasures with me.  

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See, he will not volunteer to go to these things but he has strong opinions about what we buy once we get here. Good collector's taste, that man has.  That's between you and I though ok? 

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Every corner of the farm had some kind of vintage country fun tucked into it.  The whole place was feel good cozy and I wish we had been able to hit one of the larger Pickin' on the Prairie events.  We managed to make a good little haul regardless.  Abbie picked up a ceramic piggy bank and a new bedspread for a song. Ok, for $29 which is pretty much a song. This was awesome since her giant dog jumped into bed with her a while back and they had a good-sized bedspread tear in the resulting settling down.  

Every time I think we are going to do something more "sophisticated" at home I find more homespun that somehow just feels like us. This trip was no exception. My only regret was leaving this t-shirt behind.  It's available by mail order however.  I wonder if my family knows this…..

Junk-shirt

I truly fell in love with the eastern Washington-northern Idaho area.  Beautiful grain fields, rolling hills, and pine forests. And barn sales to boot?  Too good to be true.    

Jul 2016 farm sale web (8 of 8)