making home

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"Homemaking is seen as a mere detail that can be amply covered as secondary to a job or career, which is "real life."  

however…

People and their everyday lives matter more than things or status.  Serving others is the highest calling of all (apart from prayer) – serving them in ordinary ways, giving people what they need. 

Homes absorb immense amounts of time and energy. This effort is satisfying if one has a balanced schedule and can cover the essentials without too much stress.  Essentials include the extras to the everyday round that is part of human life – the celebrations, reunions, disappointments, depression, sicknesses, disasters. 

Homes work best when someone is the contented keeper of the home life. 

Homemaker is a good description. It really is worth giving full attention to this vital task."

For the Family's Sake

It's been a long several weeks of unpacking but I am so happy to have my old books back.  We took a good amount with us on our European adventure but many were stored. It is like being reunited with old friends. 

I am rereading Susan Schaeffer Macauley right now, one of my first inspirations.  I am newly inspired and refocused in this vocation going over these words.  30 years into this journey they ring truer than ever and now feel more pregnant with meaning than ever before.  

Now, as life presents so many possibilities and distractions,  I am reminded again and again that keeping the home life is really worth giving my full attention to. 

Rainy May – lots of links – sort of Daybook

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Outside:  Rain.  A whole bunch.  It doesn't look much different outside my window today than it did outside my window last year this time. 

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Listening to: Simon and Garfunkel.  A lot.  Because…Simon and Garfunkel. 

Thinking about: "Slow down, you're moving too fast.  Got to make the moment last."  (see above)    Which reminded me a lot of this article about The Sacred Inefficiencies of Life and where productivity sometimes runs right up against being present and connected.  

Creating: A beautiful (with luck!) command center for household tasks.  Need some ideas?  I have my favorites pinned here. Will be back to update on which we chose. 

Reading:  So much.  First, friends had shared a few weeks ago about Pioneer Girl

It was out of stock at the time and approaching scalper pricing so I put it out of mind for a bit though it was super intriguing.  Then this showed up at my door courtesy of my friend Heather whom we roadtripped with to Bath lo these many years back now. 

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When they say "annotated" they are not kidding.   There are footnotes of biblical proportions.  Like, for real, there are as many footnotes as lines of story on many pages and surprisingly they are just as interesting as the main text. 

Around the house:  Some people are still struggling to recall where stuff goes in the new house.  All the people, actually.  They say it takes three months to form a new habit.  Meantime….

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While getting familiar with a new American house is a challenge at times we had to laugh at this tutorial BBC put out on British houses.  Oh I get homesick.  

In other news I found the living room curtain panels and they ended up being not quite right since one side of the living room is a bit sunken.  When going through my picture files I found a snap from Hancock Fabrics.  At least I hope that's where it was.  It may have been Joann's which will mean two trips to figure out but either way I am leaning towards something in this family…

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From the learning room:  Ok there isn't a learning room per se at the moment, though every day sees it coming together a bit more.  We are still learning, however, and thinking about learning and planning the coming school year's learning.  I have also been thinking with gratitude about my teaching mentors over the years after we read this article from last fall which led to the discovery the US Dept of Ed reported that over the course of one recent school year over 37,000 children were restrained in this way.  This all got me thinking, "What would Marva Collins do?" If you can't answer that then spend the penny on Amazon and be inspired.  

Same team, y'all.

We are all on the same team.  : )  On that note I read Janet Lansbury's sample dialogs when facing potential confrontation of wills.  How differently these scenarios can play out. 

 

"Let the morning time drop all its petals on me.
Life, I love you…"    

– Simon and Garfunkel

 

digging in

 

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This last week's adventures included weeding, painting, beginning to repair the gas-fueled fire pit and a crash course in cactus 101 – which I'm gonna venture to say was nearly as unpleasant for the person removing as it was for the afflicted. 

A dear friend sent a box full of perennial cuttings which have found new homes here in the mountain west. It has rained and rained and they seem to be taking root right along with us.

The boys have begun their yard care apprenticeship.  Really, we all have.  It's been a while since we have had a garden of our own to tend. (We had a most fabulous garden in England but it had been cultivated and maintained by the farm over many generations, so we just had to not wreck it.)  We are being realistic when planning summer to include plenty of time to work on all this.  It's a good thing.  We are back to falling into bed at night zonked and waking up to full new days. 

I love seeing my guys wearing work gloves again. : ) 

 

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Pantry made pretty

There was just a shallow pantry in this kitchen with a bifold door so we have been brainstorming how best to store food.  Husband suggested we use a nearby coat closet and brought in some shelving.  I have been surprised but so far we have not needed it.  We have an extra fridge and it seems most of what we eat is fresh or frozen these days.  We did have a major need for some logical spice, herb and seasoning storage. I purchased a couple dozen adhesive backed spice clips and we repurposed a white upright cabinet that had been left in the garage.  It is housing the spices and some pantry overflow now.  

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In the pantry I repurposed the many many half gallon jars we used to have for our goatdairy back in the day. I am a little in love with chalkboard labels.  (read: I want to label EVERYTHING)  If you are interested in stocking a paleo pantry, this article sums up perfectly.  As you can see we are a little bit traditional and a little bit pa-le-oooo.  Sung to the tune of Donny and Marie.  Oh never mind.  My references are increasingly obsolete ; ) 

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 It is a habit of our family's that soon after we move in, we plant flowers in our front yard someplace, maybe just a pot or two or maybe a small bed.  Thinking back on many other moves, most of which were in warm months, it seems this is a ritual of ours. It is a sure sign that we are home again and this place belongs to us.  Over the years we have developed several such moving routines that help us pick up our lives and set them down again someplace entirely new. 

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About the time I was mulling all that over I read a wonderful essay from Homemaker's Mentor about this very thing which asks Is Your Home a Daylily or an Oak?  The oak stands for years in one spot, rooted, solid, firm.  Daylilies grow and spread and then are often transplanted to new spots to once again bloom and brighten a space.  The trick to any transplanting project is to minimize trauma to the root system. Using this analogy the author offers some really helpful tips for smooth transitions.  

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I particularly love her reflections about the stages of a new home.  Year one feelings, year two, and year three. They are each different from each other but predictably similar every time.  A dear friend of mine, a master gardener, used to say of her perennials, "First year they sleep, second they creep, third they leap."  This is very like our own relocation experiences.  That first year is spent figuring out the new place, finding doctors and sports teams and favorite shopping spots.  The second year we spread our wings more and begin to have some familiarity with local events. We recognize faces when we are out and no longer need our GPS for every outing.  That third year we really have hit our stride and begin to branch out comfortably in our new community.  We feel settled.  Home.  And reality is, this is usually when it is time for us to prepare to do it all over again so it's vital that we develop ways to do it as painlessly as possible.

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As suggested, we have been working diligently to set up kitchen, living areas, and bedrooms so we can get everyone settled into familiar patterns sooner vs later.  We still have work to do, however our days are already beginning to look like our May days always have. We cook, we study, we take walks, we plant flowers, and then yes, we work on the house. 

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Things are still very new here.  We are still getting to know our way around this house, figuring out the best places for things and then remembering where those are. A home is made through a series of little steps like this one.   Day by day we become better friends with this place and wake up a bit more comfortable than the morning before.  Everyday there is a little something more tying us here – flowers to water, a life to cultivate. 

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life, lately

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I hid out strolled leisurely through Walmart tonight picking up beverages and snacks for the moving crew that will be spending the next couple of days unloading our household goods from England. We closed on our new house last week which makes three homes and three hotels in the past two months.  Soon as we got the keys in hand we began an ambitious run of renovations and DIY work trying to get done anything easier to do when the house was empty. 

That makes a girl tired.

So yes, Walmart. For an hour I just walked around.  Slowly. By myself.  With nothing to clean/paint/move.  Nice.  Very nice. : ) 

What follows is just a highlight reel because it's 11pm and that aforementioned truck will be arriving in 9hrs.  

First there was a freak snow. Though we don't mind freak snows when they stick around just long enough for a photo op and then promptly temps return to the 60s.  East coasters, my apologies.  Sincerely!

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Brothers.  Near and far. 

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Then came the keys, the keys to the most awesome kitchen I have ever had. 

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We looked at what felt like a hundred houses.  Many had gorgeous interiors and postage stamp yards.  Some had funky interiors and large but treeless yards.  One by one they left us cold and there was a last minute search for rentals, none of which was handicapped accessible nor took pets. In the end we found this fabulous neighborhood begun in the 60's and added to over the next 50years.  Trees, hills, and an array of homes, none of which looked alike.  Some old, some new.  Ours is more one than the other but it had great bones and the major systems were solid and updated. It felt like home. 

 

The views that sold us… 

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 And the exploring that followed.

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and the most awesome kitchen was next to the not awesome 90's wallpaper AND stencil job.  The stencil from hell basically that climbed down onto wallpaper, over trim, and up onto the ceiling.  

Why?  Really?

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There has been a lot of painting.  Miles of masking tape.  

Maybe I exaggerate.  It just seemed that way. Gah, I need a manicure.  My nails are embedded with spackling compound.  Gross.  Sorry.

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I have a clicker.  'Cause I have a garage.  First one since 2002. Which was one of the few we have ever had.  

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And the world's most awesome kitchen sits above possibly the world's most hideous family room fireplace.  The 80's, people.  It was not kind.  As late as 2007 (per my resurrected reno mag) Better Homes and Gardens asserted that "a wall of mirrors reflects light and doubles the square footage of the room." 

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To borrow another 80s/90s bit of advice….

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So we have just embarked on quite the adventure, commuting back and forth to family in Colorado and falling in love with – and updating – a new old house. 

More to follow!

 

Setting the table – spring

 

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The home we are renting is furnished and actually furnished quite nicely.  Most people would find this to be a great convenience and it really is.  Except….it means there has been little opportunity for me as a diehard hunter/gatherer decorator.  Since Christmas life has been transient and on the go. By Easter I was itching to make SOMEthing, to carve a tiny bit of personal creative space. The table seemed promising, so one girl and I ran out to see what we could make on a small time and resource and space budget.  This is what we came up with.

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Though I love bright clean color in other spaces it seems that at home I am drawn to earthy, subtle tones, much like the woods and trails we frequent and much like the old faded treasures we have collected.  Probably no surprise we kept walking past the bold candy colored decorations right on towards the garden department, picking up bits of natural materials as we went. 

We came home and smoothed out a $5 roll of burlap then topped that with an oblong grapevine wreath.  Into that we stuffed some spanish moss.  We tucked in a couple plaster birds and speckled eggs. It worked great for Easter dinner and will be perfect for some weeks to come.  

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Because we are all about simple, especially this month, we made an Easter dessert that fit right in.  We picked up storebought vanilla cupcakes from the bakery and topped them with malted eggs. Cheating?  Maybe. It all came together in minutes which meant more time on the trail – where my kids run back to show me more of same. (tiny nest dead center)  Do you see a theme coming together here? 

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Win, win. 

Triduum

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The day passed preparing eggs for dying and discussing the Last Supper. We prepped some material to make some small skirts this weekend.  Tomorrow will be a big day.  The older girls have a double header at the oral surgeon's office in the afternoon to have their wisdom teeth removed.  The timing couldn't be helped.  One was absessing and the other is starting work soon. So it was deemed best to just knock the procedures out together.  At 3pm Good Friday, a coincidental time to suffer. They are in good spirits though, and looking forward to having this behind them.  Their brothers are looking forward to seeing how they handle their IV sedation. Not gonna lie ; ) 

Some quiet work for the little people….

3D Good Friday constructions here.

Jonah Project here and here

Last Supper 

Last Supper youtube for big people and little people

Coloring page we modeled our notebook pages after here.  Lots more here.  We are finding coloring pages to be good drawing guides.  

Beautiful watercolor project for Good Friday here. 

Vintage radio broadcast of the Stations of the Cross here.

Fridge art downloaded from a Facebook group.  Can't find the original source. 

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We are still in the temporary house but decorating is therapeutic for me. When we realized we would be here for Easter I went out and picked up some things for a centerpiece. I was going to set it up ahead of time but when I got this far decided it looked remarkably like a crown of thorns.  So, here it stays until Sunday.  The rest will transform it then. 

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Weekend menu for two: 

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I should turn in my crunchy mom card right here shouldn't I?  It is what it is though.  I bought Campbell's and smashed potatoes in a box and Jello.  Because…double wisdom tooth extraction.  Heck *I* may be eating the jello before this is over. ; D

 

 

ode to the bungalow

Thought some of you might enjoy a quick walk through the furnished bungalow we are renting temporarily while we house hunt and wait for our belongings to catch up with us.  It's a beautiful home and we had high hopes when we viewed it online. There were just a handful of short term rentals that permitted pets and among them was this one, a low slung brick bungalow so very like the ones which lined the streets of Milwaukee where I spent the first half of my childhood. 

One of the first homes my mother and I lived in by ourselves was a one and a half story bungalow near the state fairgrounds. There was a gas station across the street where she would pull the car in and say, "Fill 'er up,"  to the attendant who was alerted to our arrival by the bell that sounded when the car approached the pumps. Around the corner was a Dunkin' Donuts where I always ordered the same thing, strawberry glazed.  That bungalow was divided into 3 apartments which defies imagination looking at it today.  We had the ground floor with one bedroom, which is where I slept, fitfully. My mother took the sofa bed. 

My babysitter in those years lived next door to the church and school I attended in a small three bedroom stucco bungalow.  The dining room was turned into a playroom overflowing with toys and I remember eating lumpy oatmeal with chunks of brown sugar floating in the milk in the tiny kitchen before school days- with glee believe it or not.  When their fourth child was born they moved into a large two story home of the same vintage a few blocks away.  We moved into the bungalow. 

My mother turned the playroom back into a dining room and a showcase for the antiques she began to collect.  I remember how the leaded glass french doors leading from the entry would turn the room into a virtual kaleidoscope.  We spent several years in that house.  My aunt lived across town in a nearly identical bungalow. My great aunt in a duplex from that era with the same heavy walnut trim.  

It became what a house was a supposed to look like to me, despite the fact that that style had been long replaced by raised ranches and wrought iron railings.  To me the Craftsman bungalows were the perfect backdrop for the furniture I saw at the big antique-o-rama at the state fairgrounds and in my mother's magazines. 

When we began researching temporary housing in UT and this home in a historic district popped up we jumped on it.  I had long toyed with the idea of restoring an old home in similar districts in other cities.  So we quickly secured this place thinking it would give me us a taste of this road not taken. 

It has. ; )  

The thing about historic districts is that they contain some examples of the loveliest homes of their day which have usually since seen the underbelly of society.  This house was no exception.  It had been chopped up into apartments and occupied by a colorful stream of petty criminals over the years until purchased and remodeled as part of the neighborhood's resurgence and restoration. It would be most accurate to say that not the entire neighborhood has achieved 'gentrification' however and this home rests on the um, cusp. It has been so well done inside however and has been exceptionally comfortable and accomodating.  It has been a peaceful stay so far, except for that one part…

Shortly after we moved in I woke up early to see my husband off on one of his first days at work here.  I decided to scramble some eggs for breakfast.  I grabbed the only suitable pan in the kitchen and the butter and olive oil I had picked up at the store and lit the gas stove.  It turns out the gas stovetop heats much faster than the electric stoves we have had for years and the light metal pan quickly began to scorch the butter and smoke.  I turned it off right away and hit the fan but the smoke detector nearby went off, prompting me to fan the detector and look for the reset button, which was noplace to be found.  Meantime another louder alarm went off.  I fanned some more and hollered to Moira to wake up and help search for an off button someplace.    We ran hither and yon and heard a siren in the distance.  

oh yes we did. 

Because that part about the house having seen the underbelly of society and all?  Well it turns out that there had been a house fire here a while back.  The homeowner is understandably terrified of a recurrence.  So there is no off button.  Rather the detectors are wired to a high-tech system which alerted the fire department, who dispatched immediately to find a franctic woman and daughter in pjs and burnt eggs. 

They say you don't become humble without a regular doses of humiliation.  Side note. 

While I apologized profusely to Utah's finest on the porch, they told me the story of the house fire and the homeowner breathlessly joined us on the porch.  (Me, still in pjs for the record.) She forgot to explain about the fire alarm deactivation code, she said. Yeah. 

Eventually my heart rate returned to normal.  I am SUPER careful and a bit paranoid about the stove.   And while we love the house, we decided to settle permanently (ok, semi-permanently) a bit further out from the metro area.  Until all those arrangements are made however, we are here at the bungalow like so many years ago. 

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Some of the very different places we have stayed while traveling here and here and here and here