on the road again

"Please call." 

My phone was flashing this message when we stepped inside from the deck two weeks ago.  That call set into motion a long road trip to the midwest where we buried my father-in-law's widow and have begun to learn how to disperse an estate.  It's a new season of life, this goodbye-ing.  Honestly my head is too full to put words to it all.

I have to smile now remembering packing up from England and musing about whether these changing seasons meant travel was over for us.  Not so.  We just logged some 45 hrs on the road with three very chill and cooperative passengers.  (while their bigger siblings maintained the intricately pieced carpool routine back home.)

If I were a more ambitious blogger I would insert tips for packing or pacifying children. Truth is we travel pretty gimmick-free unless you count in the promise of a soda from the gas station each day.  Truth is, I don't have tidy definitive lists of how to do all these things we are called to do. Success increasingly seems to me to be less about procedures and perks and more about carrying on in a forward motion.  

Relentlessly. Peacefully. Cheerfully.  

Trusting that everything is unfolding exactly as it should. It's contagious, that sort of trustful stepping out each day. We notice it spreading among us and we notice the rapid breakdown between us when one of us loses it. For the record we do and we did and we  regrouped and gave do overs.  Forward motion, even if its bumbling at times. 

There have been very late nights and early mornings and lots of work in between but also so many surprises, new places, new faces.   Easier to show than tell so here are the highlights from day one on the road…

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Ending where we start, really : ) 

 

Exploring – Wheeler Creek Trail

Mar  2015 wheeler creek web (1 of 15)

I fell behind logging some of our hiking adventures.  In retrospect now though Wheeler Creek is probably my favorite trail so far.  It is just outside Huntsville, UT and runs 11 miles.  We didn't see all 11 miles, mind you, but probably got a third of the trail explored.

The nice thing about this hike is that the trail – at least from the trailhead up about 3miles – is so wide. Though it is a steady incline it is also regular walking the whole way, not too much actual climbing. After the last few hikes which entailed a fair amount of actual climbing and hoisting and well, sucking air for some of us, this one is remembered fondly. 

The trail wound up the canyon with views of the mountains all around and the stream running alongside.  There were mountain bikers and the occasional fellow hikers but by and large it was much lower traffic than many of the other trails we have hit. Making a note to self to return especially as the trees turn in the fall. 

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Mar 2014 tess leaf web

 

Mar 2015 canyon dog web (1 of 1)
Mar 2015 hike family web

 

of steers and spurs

 

Mar 2015 rodeo web (1 of 18)

Few things make Colorado girls feel like they've come back home like a night of college rodeo. It's about as iconically American West as it gets and it never gets old. When we found out we had arrived in time for the regional college rodeo we sure as heck weren't missing it.  At $4 a head it was half the price of your average movie ticket. 

Every place has a story. This one is reading really well.

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There's a story behind those chaps.  I'm tellin' you. There's gotta be. You don't sew that into leather for nothing.

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Aidan said if he was ever to do a rodeo event it would be steer wrestling.  

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His sisters pointed out that you don't get to pad up like football for steer wrestling…

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So much fun.  But I'm pretty sure we are all gonna be saying, "Son of a gun!" for the rest of the week now at least.  Have I mentioned the emcee? 

awesome

Exploring – Snowbasin

 

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Mar 2015 snowbasin web (1 of 1)-2 

It was so warm in town we figured we would venture up to a trail near Snowbasin ski resort. When we got there the trail was still pretty soggy and as you can see there was still plenty of snow.  We decided to backtrack down the mountain a little way and hiked  through the canyon but not without looking around the area a little. 


Mar 2015 snowbasin web (1 of 3)

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Exploring – Great Salt Lake

 


Mar 2015 salt lake web

 

From the looks of it our east coast friends got buried again. Not sure how it happened but in this neck of the woods it was sunny and 70s.  We took full advantage of that and headed to the beach.  In March.  

Wild

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It is super fun right until you get salt in your eyes.  Lunch restores good humor in record time though. 

 

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The lake and the mountains have become my landscape, my real world.

– Georges Simenon

 

ode to the bungalow

Thought some of you might enjoy a quick walk through the furnished bungalow we are renting temporarily while we house hunt and wait for our belongings to catch up with us.  It's a beautiful home and we had high hopes when we viewed it online. There were just a handful of short term rentals that permitted pets and among them was this one, a low slung brick bungalow so very like the ones which lined the streets of Milwaukee where I spent the first half of my childhood. 

One of the first homes my mother and I lived in by ourselves was a one and a half story bungalow near the state fairgrounds. There was a gas station across the street where she would pull the car in and say, "Fill 'er up,"  to the attendant who was alerted to our arrival by the bell that sounded when the car approached the pumps. Around the corner was a Dunkin' Donuts where I always ordered the same thing, strawberry glazed.  That bungalow was divided into 3 apartments which defies imagination looking at it today.  We had the ground floor with one bedroom, which is where I slept, fitfully. My mother took the sofa bed. 

My babysitter in those years lived next door to the church and school I attended in a small three bedroom stucco bungalow.  The dining room was turned into a playroom overflowing with toys and I remember eating lumpy oatmeal with chunks of brown sugar floating in the milk in the tiny kitchen before school days- with glee believe it or not.  When their fourth child was born they moved into a large two story home of the same vintage a few blocks away.  We moved into the bungalow. 

My mother turned the playroom back into a dining room and a showcase for the antiques she began to collect.  I remember how the leaded glass french doors leading from the entry would turn the room into a virtual kaleidoscope.  We spent several years in that house.  My aunt lived across town in a nearly identical bungalow. My great aunt in a duplex from that era with the same heavy walnut trim.  

It became what a house was a supposed to look like to me, despite the fact that that style had been long replaced by raised ranches and wrought iron railings.  To me the Craftsman bungalows were the perfect backdrop for the furniture I saw at the big antique-o-rama at the state fairgrounds and in my mother's magazines. 

When we began researching temporary housing in UT and this home in a historic district popped up we jumped on it.  I had long toyed with the idea of restoring an old home in similar districts in other cities.  So we quickly secured this place thinking it would give me us a taste of this road not taken. 

It has. ; )  

The thing about historic districts is that they contain some examples of the loveliest homes of their day which have usually since seen the underbelly of society.  This house was no exception.  It had been chopped up into apartments and occupied by a colorful stream of petty criminals over the years until purchased and remodeled as part of the neighborhood's resurgence and restoration. It would be most accurate to say that not the entire neighborhood has achieved 'gentrification' however and this home rests on the um, cusp. It has been so well done inside however and has been exceptionally comfortable and accomodating.  It has been a peaceful stay so far, except for that one part…

Shortly after we moved in I woke up early to see my husband off on one of his first days at work here.  I decided to scramble some eggs for breakfast.  I grabbed the only suitable pan in the kitchen and the butter and olive oil I had picked up at the store and lit the gas stove.  It turns out the gas stovetop heats much faster than the electric stoves we have had for years and the light metal pan quickly began to scorch the butter and smoke.  I turned it off right away and hit the fan but the smoke detector nearby went off, prompting me to fan the detector and look for the reset button, which was noplace to be found.  Meantime another louder alarm went off.  I fanned some more and hollered to Moira to wake up and help search for an off button someplace.    We ran hither and yon and heard a siren in the distance.  

oh yes we did. 

Because that part about the house having seen the underbelly of society and all?  Well it turns out that there had been a house fire here a while back.  The homeowner is understandably terrified of a recurrence.  So there is no off button.  Rather the detectors are wired to a high-tech system which alerted the fire department, who dispatched immediately to find a franctic woman and daughter in pjs and burnt eggs. 

They say you don't become humble without a regular doses of humiliation.  Side note. 

While I apologized profusely to Utah's finest on the porch, they told me the story of the house fire and the homeowner breathlessly joined us on the porch.  (Me, still in pjs for the record.) She forgot to explain about the fire alarm deactivation code, she said. Yeah. 

Eventually my heart rate returned to normal.  I am SUPER careful and a bit paranoid about the stove.   And while we love the house, we decided to settle permanently (ok, semi-permanently) a bit further out from the metro area.  Until all those arrangements are made however, we are here at the bungalow like so many years ago. 

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Some of the very different places we have stayed while traveling here and here and here and here

A Moveable Feast

 

Because it is said that Paris is always a good idea. Even when you are packing for a transatlantic move.  Even when the tiny girl who wanted so badly to go may well not remember it clearly.  Even if it's bitter mid-winter cold.  Paris seemed like a very good idea before we left, at least for the girls.  

Tess has longed to see the Eiffel Tower for as long as she could ask to go anywhere. It was her particular bucket list trip.   We earnestly desired to make this happen but since we had already had a couple trip early in the Euro-adventure and no boys were quite as excited about the City of Lights, it became a short Dad-daughter road trip.   

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It's hard to say what an 8yo will remember. I hope she remembers crepes and looking out over the city in the tower, and walking by the Seine.   If not though, I hope she remembers adventure and family and the importance of making dreams come true whenever we can. 

“If you are lucky enough to have lived in Paris as a young man, then wherever you go for the rest of your life, it stays with you, for Paris is a moveable feast.” – Hemmingway

Ultimately this was the whole point of the past five years. The moveable feast. To instill adventure and curiosity and awe. To be brave and open and to say yes to the unknown.  It was never about a particular destination, but about journeying, about taking that fascination with people and places wherever you go. 

Time will tell how these years will shape them.  Us.  My prayer is that we meet each day with the same enthusiasm that little face radiates. Embracing it all. 

Clovelly by the Sea

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Without a doubt I will run out of time in England long before I run out of stories to tell. This was a good one.  We found Clovelly late in the day and decided rather ambitiously to hike down its cobblestones to the Bristol Channel.  We saw the maps and elevations.  It still seemed like a must do. 

Sept 2014 clovelly 1 web (1 of 9)

 

Clovelly clings to the cliffsides of the bay.  Wattle and daub cottages clutch the hillside with no two on the same level.  In fact, you cannot find a place to stand where your two feet are level. 

Sept 2014 clovelly 1 web (3 of 9)

 

Because of this there is no car or bike traffic permitted in the village and historically donkeys have been used to transport people and goods up and down.  Donkeys or other ingenuity…

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Charles Kingsley of Water Babies fame spent part of his childhood in the village.  Rumor had it a band of cannibals once hid out in the hills nearby.  My beloved Turner painted the harbor.  And idyllic spot for sure.  

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Tomorrow I will show you around the harbor. 

Where 2014 Took Us

 

Pulling together these images from this year that has been amazes me. We have stopped storing the suitcases far from reach. Someone has needed one every.single.month.  But oh the incredible places we have gone…..

January: 

London

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Cambridge

Jan 2014 cambridge bw web (1 of 1)

Blakeney Point

Jan 2014 blakeney old boat bw web

February:

Eastern Colorado

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One of my first childhood homes in Wisconsin

Mar 2014 wi bw web (1 of 1)

 

March:

Nebraska

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Colorado

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and back to England

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April:

Wimpole Estate, UK

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May:

Ely, UK

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Thetford Forest, UK

May 2014 thetford forest bw web (1 of 1)

June:

Wicken Fen, Suffolk, UK

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Leeds, UK (Medical Museum)

 

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Hardwick Hall, Derbyshire, UK
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Southwell Workhouse, Nottinghamshire, UK

 

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July:

Dover, UK

July 2014 dover bw web (1 of 1)

Hastings Abbey, UK

July 2014 hastings bw web (1 of 1)

 

Ickworth Estate, Suffolk, UK

July 2014 ickworth bw web (1 of 1)

August:

Framlingham Castle, UK

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Lydford Gorge, Devonshire, UK

Sep 2014 lydford bw web (1 of 1)

September:

Vilseck, Germany

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Dartmoor National Park

Sep 2014 dartmoor bw web (1 of 1)

Coastline, Devonshire, UK

Aug 2014 devon bw web (1 of 1)

Clovelly village, UK

Sep 2014 cornwall bw web (1 of 1)

October:

Rome, Italy

Oct 2014 rome bw web (1 of 1)

November:

Manchester, UK  (Go Man City!)

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December:

Paris, France

Dec 2014 paris bw web (1 of 1)

 

nasoni di Roma

Oct 2014 rome nasoni web-2

So what's a boy to do when it's 80something in Rome and the water's run out? Well one's mind immediately turns to these….

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and these….

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What are they?  They are nasoni, a slang word for the public fountains all over Rome, which turned out to be more than decorative.

 Yes I see that green stuff.  But for realz, we saw a lot of people doing this….

 

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Even the dogs were in on it.  The dog on the right was playing with his owner at the dog park which is off left and down two stories.  The guy sent him up for a drink and he knew just where to go. 

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So yeah, I caved which is really huge for me.  I can handle a lot of mess in my own home but get REALLY weirded out by other people's germs as a rule.  It turns out though that the water is safe, potable and just a courtesy of the city for the past 2000 yrs. You can even pick up a map plotting out all the nasoni in the city center. Which is way better than paying four euro for a bottle of water.  Kid you not.  

When in Rome….

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