On the road – then there were 9

 

This weekend was a gift.  Just pure respite.  Sun overhead, snow-capped mountains, shopping, and…

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The boys made it across the Rockies.  

The bigs are bickering and laughing and debating and going out and staying in and generally doing what they do when they are together.  Crazy people. : ) 

Asher took the little girls and Moira out to eat and to introduce them to Toys R Us. They approved. 

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The children now know what a Walmart is.  Its the place that sells EVERYthing.  The place people sometimes shop in pyjamas.  The place where you stand in line a looooong time to check out.  Really long time. There are pro's and con's but let me tell you it's a whole lot cheaper shopping in this country than in England.  And they only sell birthday cake Oreos here. That was pretty impressive to them.  

The icemaker has been a big hit.  Ok, ice in general.  They have had a lot of ice.

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Ice has not really caught on in Europe.  If you order a soft drink, you get a soft drink.  At room temperture.  If you order a soft drink near a US military base you can sometimes get a cold soft drink and they will nod knowingly in your direction and say, "Americans."

Other American things they have noted this weekend – we can do our hair in the bathroom.  We have no outlets, nor light switches, in bathrooms in Europe. They wanted to know why the police were stopping cars.  Speed is monitored via cameras in England.  Been a while since we've seen a car pulled over. 

I made my pilgrimage to Whole Foods.  Mwah.  I have missed you.  One thing I noticed this time though was the book section was pretty skimpy and the books were almost all vegan.  There seem to be no end to the pre-formulated products one can buy but very little information to educate with.  Signs of the times perhaps?  

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The guys met one morning for a a game of basketball with the men from church. Then several of them headed over to the US Air Force Academy to watch a game. 

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They spotted some deer on the Academy grounds.  Much bigger than our little roe deer. 

We had dinner with Brendan's godmother one night and Alannah and I met friends  downtown at a coffeeshop/wine cafe with live indie music.  Loved it! I missed a lot of this the first time around since we always had a baby in the house and were pretty tied up with farm and life. This is a perk of this season in life and it is good to recognize perks versus dwelling on what is no more. I always say you can't have it all, not at the same time and each season has its blessings.

There have been lots of big thoughts about community and personal growth and the dynamics of groups over time. About what comes next for us.  No answers yet.  I don't even know how I feel about all the questions.  We are talking though and have decisions to make.

For now though, the van is heading east…

 

 

On the road – first day

 

Asher and Colin worked their way across the Rockies today to meets us for the first leg of our road trip.  Colin lent me these shots from the road. Most of these are from Utah. 

 

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We woke up to the last of the recent snowfall though the weather was warming quickly. We haven't touched snow since last winter and that lasted one afternoon.  It was over a year before that when we had snow last.  It's very possible we will have had our fill of it by the time this trip is over.  Today though, some small people found it to be a real novelty yet. 

The temperatures have taken some getting used to but we have been saying this for a while.  In England it is much warmer outside but much colder INside.  As a group, the British are very thrifty with their heating oil.  It isn't cheap and is only used as necessary.  It is common to turn on the heat – turn it ON, not UP – for a few hours in the  morning and a few hours in the evening for 'washing up.'  In between you layer or you are asleep.  We keep our England house very cool by American standards and tend to complain about it to each other.  However I admit it now seems really warm in stores and homes and cars here.  I feel sort of extravagant walking around the house or store in shirtsleeves.

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The wind was wild as this first Stateside day began. It didn't stop Allen and Moira from taking a morning run however. 

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So then there were odds and ends to attend to.  Quick lunch with friends. Haircuts for some young men.  Tess discovered Highlights magazine while waiting.  Going to have to consider a subscription for her.  

Side note on Highlights. I can't glance at a cover without immediately thinking DENTIST OFFICE.  My Highlights memories are inextricably tied with dental appointments and just looking at one makes me twitch.  Saltwater aquariums have a similar effect.  Totally irrelevant share there.  Carry on.

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The little girls were pretty excited when Dad gave them 50cents to ride the horse outside the barbershop.  

And then there was some of this…

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We plan for down time on trips and have had a lot of discussions about jetlag – as in, if you suddenly feel tears welling up for no apparent reason or if your brothers/mothers/fathers/etc tone of voice very nearly sends you RIGHT over the edge then probably you are very very tired.  Very very very very tired.  And you should give yourself a little break.  

This actually applies to children too. ; ) 

So anyway, tears happen on trips.  And they are quickly forgotten with a little rest and snack and hug. 

And my crew just walked in again so will share more tomorrow. 

On the Road – winging it

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So that news I mentioned? Epic three week journey to the States.  I wasn't expecting to be able to post until after the fact but things fell into place and here is the first post.  This travel journal is going to be brief daily notes vs lovely image art.  Truly just a journal with whatever device I can grab.  Today that was a daughter's point and shoot. 

Will start with the real life hard stuff.  It isn't easy closing up a life for this long.  So.much.to.do before you can walk out the door.  And typically Murphy's law prevails which meant that in the days that led up to the flight a vehicle died, appliances were replaced necessitating last minute emptying/cleaning, a cabinet fell off, some people got sick.  There were various and sundry last minute fires to put out related to the big event we are leading up to.  

And I don't fly well.  That may be the understatement of the century.  Just know its not pretty.  At all.  

But there were many, many blessings along the way.  There always are.  

An older British woman in line near us in check in heard us call Abbie.  She said to me, "We have an Abbie too.  "Her Father's joy."  Why yes, indeed.  We don't pass through places like airport security without drawing attention so it is especially nice when people take a moment to compliment the children for waiting patiently and following directions.  

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The children were awesome.  All through the three hours of driving and nine straight hours in air.  It is going to be fascinating seeing America through their eyes.  The three little ones have little to no recall of this place. Abbie especially was only a year old when we left. Tess was three and has no recall.  Brendan was five.  He has hazy memories.   A good case in point is a conversation between them and Kieran when we went to a British store I'd found recently.  

"So what kind of store is it?" they asked.  

I said,"It's like a Target."

"What's a Target?" one asked.  

"I know that one!" said Brendan.  "It's that thing you shoot at with arrows!"  

"No," said Kieran, "She means it's like a Walmart."  

"What's a Walmart?" all three littles asked.  

So yeah.  It's going to be an adventure.  We're always up for adventure though. : )

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God rest ye

 

Boxing day road trip to see the church of St Peter and St Paul in Lavenham, all decked out for the season. It was a rare sunny winter day and the light poured in through the stained glass. The church has been there in some way, shape or form for centuries which meant the headstones in the cemetary were fascinating. 

One thing I most love about England is their preference for natural seasonal greenery.  The wreaths on the doors and tables are usually local holly, evergreens, and real candles. It takes time and much care and can't be kept over to the next year so the net result is a few high quality decorations.  

Another favorite thing?  The needlepoint cushions common here. Needlepoint has fallen out of favor a bit in the crafting world but I still love the texture and color. Those cushions represent hours and hours of stitching. 

The effect is natural, simple, and timeless.   This is exactly what I pictured all the years I dreamed of English Christmas and inspires me for the future.  

 

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this day

 

A letter a very sweet woman wrote last week has had me thinking.  She recently found this space and had been reading through the archives.  She asked if I ever wrote about homeschooling or life in a very large family with a wide age spread.  What is that really like, she asks?  I have begun to explain several times.  I sit at this keyboard and type and type and then hit delete and go to bed. : )   Increasingly, what is in my heart is easier to show in images than to try to sum up in a few words. 

I can point to this day was a pretty good example.  It was beautiful.  It was messy. It was loud. It was full of gritty sandwiches and soggy socks. And smiles. Probably a couple of tears. Handholding. Running ahead, falling behind.  A lift when needed.  Exhilarating and exhausting. Worth every minute.  It ended like so many other nights, squished together on couches, covered with blankets, debating who is going to be in charge of the remote. 

It was good.  Very good.  

Simple and not easy. 

 

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Harlech Castle, Wales

 

The trip to Harlech Castle was just missing a soundtrack.  Seriously.  It was a fairy tale castle with incredible views.  It was drizzly the day we visited which meant we had the place nearly to ourselves.  The children scrambled up and down the towers and lookouts til they wore themselves out.  I don't think we could ever tire of this. We will leave here someday but I am so glad they got to do this.  

Harlech Castle has a bit of a checkered past.  It has played roles in many battles and changed hands many times over the years. It is in ruins today but you can see the footprint of the original interior rooms.   Castles like these are built around a large central courtyard and the rooms line the outside walls. (one room deep)  Sort of the opposite way regular homes are built. This means the actual usable interior space is much smaller than you would imagine looking from a distance.  The courtyard in larger structures could house local villagers as a fortress in case of attack. 

Enough of all that.  Come traipse through with us…

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gone fishing

 

It feels a little that way. Days have been full of special friends who are helping us squeeze the last bits of fun from this summer and pictures are piling up while we are out and about. Soon enough the days will shorten and there will be plenty of hours in the house though. 

These are from an afternoon we spent walking with Abbie Rose by the marina in Ely.  Two of the men we passed were ribbing each other:

 "Know what's the best bait for that fish?"

"What?"

"Whatever's not on your hook, it seems!"

We sat at the cafe seen just beyond the second boat while I drank tea and Abbie had a lemonade.  Lest that sounds too idyllic I will add that we spent a good deal of our tea time swatting wasps from our drinks.  Are they bad in your part of the world right now as well?  We successfully dodged them on this outing but I am sporting a large welt from sting at the park.

 

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A shepherd may be a very able, trusty, and good shepherd, without a sweetheart – better, perhaps, than with one. But what is he without his dog?

– James Hogg

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We watched with rapt attention one evening as the shepherd took his dog to the pasture to doctor two of the sheep who were slightly lame.  I have never seen a dog work a herd of sheep in person before.  It was really nothing short of amazing. The dog followed voice and hand commands, watching both handler and sheep.  It had the sheep under complete control, allowing the shepherd to isolate the two he needed and making sure the others were still and collected in the meantime. 

We visited with the shepherd a while that night.  He knew we had an accent but couldn't place it exactly, he said. <g>  We were the very first Americans to have ever stayed at his home.  When we told him we had most recently lived in Colorado he remarked that a local he knew had moved there to teach at a university.  But, he added, the man returned here to this coastal spot for his holidays.  

Smart man, I say, with all due respect to our beloved Colorado.

These sheep are primarily raised for meat.  It seems that on this island which was built in large part on the wool industry, wool is nearly worthless today. The market is saturated with cheaper synthetics. This made me sad.  It actually made me want to go purchase a thick, scratchy fisherman's sweater on principle. Even though it is July. 

Our landlord later confirmed this wool market assessment.  He, of course, blames the Irish.  If you talk long enough you learn that many of the world's ills can probably be traced over westward way.  (said firmly tongue in cheek by this very Irish woman ; )) 

At any rate, be it the Irish, the EU, or the darned scratchy wool itself, rayon may be cornering the market but the sheepdogs are still cornering the sheep.  And doing a fine job at it.  I wish we had such a capable dog when we were chasing goats and cows. 

A little bit of family history my children may not know.  When I was growing up my grandmother went through a 'sheep phase' on the farm.  The family business was actually a riding stable where they bred Quarter Horses but my grandmother had lots of incarnations as she created herself anew time after time.  I particularly loved her as shepherdess. She attended courses at the local extension agency and bought a few ewes which later grew to a herd which overwhelmed my grampa. (we didn't have an awesome dog remember) I think I have written that part here before.  

This picture is me (left) returning the orphan lamb I had convinced my mother to allow me to keep in the basement in town while I bottle fed it that summer.  boo-yah! He looks great.  I look pretty peppy too despite many night time feedings.  Not sure why I am mid-flight here….

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So with this newfound fascination with all things wooly and wonderful, the children have found our Floss books and are reading them over again with new eyes now that they have a real life dog to compare. Good fun. 

If you'd like to have a Kim Lewis feast with us here are some titles to look for:

Floss

Just Like Floss

Days on the Farm

The Shepherd Boy

Emma's Lamb