Simple Woman’s Daybook – the Munich and ER edition

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(more daybooks at Peggy's )

 

FOR TODAY Nov. 8, 2010

Outside my window… sunrise and slush.  We had impressive snowfall the past few weeks followed by rain which left things a bit soggy.  The sunrise over the trees has been new and different daily.  It has become a ritual of mine to see what the day brings us in that regard. I am rarely disappointed. 

I am hearing… about 50% less than I was last week this time. It's been a rough week. We had a seemingly mild,  but surprisingly hard to shake, virus run through the house.  I honestly didn't feel terribly sick at all comparatively.  (though it is possible my pain perspective is a bit skewed)  Within a couple days my ear filled up, infected, and the eardrum ruptured.  Just. Like. That. At this writing there is still incredible pressure and hearing loss, which I am praying is reversible.  I am sporting a cotton ball, even broke down and am taking medication, and having flashbacks to my 6yo self – post ear tube surgery.  And let me tell you an ear tube would probably provide a good deal of relief at this moment. : / 

 Pondering these words…

"I had said to God, 'You know I have no time to be ill.' I was heard beyond my hopes and I boasted of it to myself a little. Then He seemed to answer, 'Since you have no time to be ill perhaps you will have time for much trouble?' And I assure you I have not been spared. You see, in this world it is like that. We must carry the cross in one way or another.  We say to our Lord, 'I don't want that.' Often He hears us but often alas! for our unhappiness. It is better to take patiently what comes to us. There is always joy beside the pain." – Zelie Martin (linked below)

There is always joy beside the pain. 

From the learning rooms…   Second quarter is off to a strong start.  I am more confident we will finish strong now that we have a better idea of what to focus upon for the quarter grades and what the school is expecting. It is challenging but the younger the student the easier the transition has been and the quicker they have developed the necessary study skills. 

From the kitchen… silly surprises. I was in a foggy viral daze the other day when I started cracking eggs.  I vaguely noticed some marker on the top of the egg in hand and assumed our grafitti artist had been there too. Then happened to look closer at the carton and realized I had been punked.  ; )  

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Not a bad way to start the day.  They do keep me laughing lol. 

 I am thankful for…  an opportunity Asher and Alannah had to spend the weekend in Munich with the young people from our tiny chapel.  They have been invited on several occasions but it's too far to drive and drop off and we didn't want Alannah to tackle the train alone.  Asher's arrival made this time possible. Alannah talked by phone with an older German friend who walked us through the ticketing and itinerary.  Another girl, also traveling to the Munich gathering met them at their second to last train change (there were many of them on an 8 hr journey!) and helped navigate the rest of the way. 

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(with her German friend en route)
It was a short but memorable weekend of games and fun and fellowship. 

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We are so proud of them that they figured it all out and so pleased they are getting to make these connections.  

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(rectory)

I am wearing… likely boot cut jeans and a sweater. And boots for that slush. And a slouchy hat over my cotton ball'd ear. Does this sound attractive or what lol?  Heading out to shop for Tess' birthday cake supplies in a bit.  I was rereading some of Helen's (Castle of the Immaculate) thoughts about ironing (and generally preparing for church further in advance) here and thought I would share.  I absolutely agree.  It is a small thing that does say alot. Coming from a military home we realize that while appearance is not the most important thing it DOES convey a loud message about our self respect and the respect we wish to show to others. 

Around the house…. more little Christmas tea light holders from the thrift shop.  Reorganized the girls wardrobe/closet this wknd.  It was one big laundry basket.  Much better now. They really need a second pole for hangers. 

More house inspiration here on Flickr – which seems to be where I hang out online more and more. (Very encouraging, that community is!)  The corners of this home are so soothing and simple and vintage. 

I am creating… Christmas gifts which may arrive on time but more than likely not. Here is hoping. I hope to bring some hand sewing on our trip for a change of pace.   Need some inspiration?  Check out these adorable carolers.  

I am reading…  Finishing the Story of a Family finally.  It's been years of on and off reading.  At this age and stage of life, and what it has thrown at me,  I can relate to Zelie Martin.  I cannot tell you how she inspires me. 

A few plans for the rest of the week…  Bavaria!  Though there will be no Zugspitz for me this year.  There will be castles and snow and a warm house in the mountains however. I'll take it. : ) 

Tess will kick off her four year old year in the Alps. amazing to me still.

A picture thought I am sharing…

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at the rectory in Munich

Thrift Thursday

Why not?   

A few fun finds of late…

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Found this nativity stable just yesterday after writing about my old one.  It looks very like the one my Gram had.  It came sans figures and I am not sure what will go into it just yet. Will see how the Christmas markets pan out.  It has a tiny light inside and a little pull cord on the back to switch it on and off.  Was had for the equivalent of less than five dollars. 

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Little retro Santa tea light holder. Now sitting right here on my desk. 

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Finally – look who jumped in the car?  A homeless gnome is a terrible thing.  A trio of them is downright tragic.  They have been relocated to my living room.  Go ahead.  Smile : D 

More thrifted fun on Flickr. 

Anyone else been junking lately? 

The Ghosts of Christmas past

It started with an article in Country Living over breakfast.  I love things old and kitchy.   So does this woman.   She has created a whole blog to showcase a different one of her collections each day this year.   I loved the retro colored lights.  A lot.  They reminded me of Anna's.  Which got me off on a tangent thinking about trees of Christmas past.  

A big Christmas love of mine growing up was our set of bubble lights.  They are available here and would actually look nicer on my tree than the originals but somehow aren't the same.  Ours looked like these.  

Another fave of mine are midcentury glass ornaments.  The German stores still make many like these.  

My Gram made beaded egg ornaments from kits purchased through the Herschner's catalog.   I may just try a kit myself though it seems like Gram's "projects" which came off so seemingly effortlessly confound me to no end.  Yet I think I may try.  

Bead ornament

Then one link led to another and I found myself face to face with these choir boys.  Oh bliss!  My mother had similar retro seasonal candles for all the years I lived at home.  We never actually lit them.  

Choir candles

My little nativity set has not fared well.  There is still a stable and a few people.  Not many though.  It very very like this one – well, minus the action figures….

How about you?  What says Christmas to you? 

Wiesbaden

How about an urban walk for a change of pace?  I have always preferred urban or rural vs suburban, although we have mostly lived in the latter. Urban isn't exactly practical with nine or ten in the house full time.  Still, it is an exhilarating visit now and then! 

I bring you Wiesbaden, Germany, street views……

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Weihnachtsmarkt Burg Lichtenberg

Kusel Castle, also known as Burg Lichtenberg, had its weihnachtsmarkt last week.  It was bitterly cold and damp but we were anxious to show Asher his first castle. 

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The castle looks out over a newly snowcovered valley. 

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Weihnachtsmarkt goods for sale. 

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The fam had a dinner  and then we explored the grounds.  At one point I heard the cry "Role Play!"  go out. You can guess from whom….  

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Then they were off disappearing into passageways and hiding behind and atop the walls, whooping and jumping out and laughin with general wild abandon, until we had to call uncle and take the peep-sicles home to thaw.  

Hipsta Geocache

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No camera?  No problem.  Have iphone, will travel!   

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And travel we do – following these little men up and down hill and vale in search of tiny tupperwares and boxes of hidden treasure. 

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The geocache iphone app transforms it into a compass/gps coordinate tool to help them navigate through the wilderness to the cache site.  The Hipstamatic app helps me to catch it all. : ) 

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Hope you are outside this weekend! 

Bits and Bobs

Gotta lot of odds and ends here.  I keep thinking I should share this or that and then the time gets away from me and I don't.  In fact I am certain that most of the good stuff has evaporated right up into the ethers. Sorry about that.   Up side?  We have the tree up and decorated and it may just be the nicest yet.  We have red and a buttery yellow gold goin' on in this house.  I have never had red and gold. I think I like it. Alot : )  In between the colored balls are tucked all of our family's homemade and travel souvenir ornaments.  The unified balls cause the rest of this conglomeration of felt gingerbread and popsicle sticks to march together nicely. 

Read on for more equally random disjointed recent thoughts:

Husband and I sat down to dinner with just the three littles tonight.  5, 4, and 2.  It was very very quiet, if a little surreal.  Best part is we sat next to each other.  We always used to but in this house I sit on the other end of the table since its closer to the kitchen.  I liked it better before. Perched at either end of the table like bookends feels exceptionally grown up and stuffy. 

Our Asher arrived week before last and his little brothers and sisters are still over the moon excited as you can see by this little face at the airport…

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Four of the children will be in their first Irish Dance program next week.  We saw a dress rehearsal and I was wow'd.  Kieran decided to join his sisters a month ago and it turns out he dances very well.  

I snagged coins for the wooden shoes and little chocolate santas and candy canes for St Nick next week.  Check that out – a WEEK early!  I can't remember how many years it has been since I found all the stuff for one much less had it all together on time. We don't perish around here for lack of knowledge, but rather tend to be overwhelmed by all the ideas and underequipped with free time to implement them.  Given that, I consider this a banner year thus far because also….

We lit the first advent candle on the first day of advent this year.  I considered that a small victory since that means we located the wreath and acquired candles (replacing purple is such a goose chase some years!)  on time. I stumbled upon the Catholic Icing site and have borrowed a few very doable ideas.  One was to make little wreaths of green doughnuts with four tiny birthday candles atop.  That went over well. <g>  Can be done any time in advent to discuss the symbolism. Otherwise we are saying our Hail and Blessed Be's and making one cookie each week of Advent.  This week was chocolate kiss peanut butter cookies.  Wanna take bets as to how many will be in the freezer come Christmas? ; D 

My fab and funny friend Lisa, mama extraordinaire, has been transcribing installments of a wonderful old book on a special blog for advent.  I have really enjoyed it.  I am now pausing a moment to put in on Reader or I will miss the rest of it no doubt.  My favorite books are always old and out of print and its such a joy to have access to them. 

Sherry at Large Family Mothering has had a couple posts that I meant to share lately.  One was on persepctive about where we have been and where we are now. I couldn't agree more.  Most of us large families had very humble beginnings and have scraped and struggled for many years to get to where we are. If you are 25 with a new baby and an old couch, don't despair.  Also remember that a new couch and a big house do not perfection make.  She shares:

"Another thing to remember is that I, and others like me, don't share everything that is going on to the whole world in cyber-space. While things may be peachy in one area, there may be challenges in another; there is no perfect life on earth, no perfect family, no perfect Christians."

There is no Christianity without a cross.  Rest assured that if God sees fit to remove one cross, He will indeed provide another. And that is ok too.  Just know there is always somethin'.  Just different somethin's at different points in this journey. 

She also talks about the sheer joy of homeschooling and balances that with perspective, again, on our expectations. Parenting is more art than science in the end.  We can do all the 'right things' but we will never teflon coat our kids.  "Holiness and maturity cannot be inherited, and homeschooled children are no exception, although we hope they have a bit of a headstart. The choices are still theirs, and the same sinful nature and deceiver meet them at every turn as with all other young people. "  As with us all.  They still have to work out their own salvation in the end.  We hope we have given them excellent tools.  We cannot do it for them however. 

A Country Farmhouse-My house looks nothing like this, being a virtual explosion of red and yellow and cobalt blue these days.  But its funny that the blogs I read most often look more like this.  I have loved visiting here. it is soothing to the eye and the psyche. And reading about her nursery helped to remind me of what was important to me when I started this ride.  We still cannot really afford to only use 100% organic food, clothing, floor coverings and cleaning agents. My desirability flow chart starts with that at the tippy top, then the next rung would be all natural and homemade. Then natural and packaged.  Then "running late" which may or may not involve a box of  dye free Pop Tarts after a soccer game…..   But it does feel very good to make the changes we can and shoot for quality and simplicity. 

Speaking of children and food, I am hoping one of my progeny saw these cookie molds on my list.  I have my heart set on someday making Springerle cookies in a traditional mold.  With organic flour and sugar,  I promise… mostly.  Victoria magazine featured them last Christmas and darned if they didn't do it again this year. I think  its a sign. <g> While on a traditional German theme, check out these stickers.  I have an idea for making traditional paper mache egg ornaments using these. 

Ok enough of this.  I am remembering why its been so long since I wrote all this down – it takes a loooong time.  : )