Midwest in bloom

It has been many years since I visited the Midwest in the springtime.  This year, as always, there were blooms spilling over the walkways and weighing down tree boughs everyplace we stopped.  The grass was insanely green. You forget how green green can be.  You also forget that children raised in totally different region have completely different ideas of what spring looks like.  

I read an essay in a magazine the other day where the author was sharing the story of going back to her childhood town with her children.  She was met by riotous flowering shrubs and heavily perfumed air. She was overcome with memories prompted by the surroundings, memories which her children did not share having lived in a very different place all their lives. They did not share the same nature cues, she said. 

I have thought about that a great deal.  For all my growing up years spring came drizzling in with cool, damp days and muddy footprints at the door.   The lawn was spongey, filled to capacity and then some with the snow turned rain.  The sky was often gray but the ground was green – and red and purple and yellow, for there were the bulbs tucked into every corner.  I knew the names of them all – the crocus which came first, the hyacinths, tulips, and daffodils.  Finally the irises which marked the end of spring and beginning of summer in my mind.  

For my children spring bursts onto the scene unexpectedly. One day there is blowing snow and the next the sun beats down and coats are shed.  It all happens with little warning.   The grass turns from deep gold to a pale green seemingly overnight.  They sky is blue. The last of the tumbleweeds blow from the fencelines.  In the fields that line the roadsides, calves appear by their mother's sides.  The pronghorn are on the move.  The meadow larks take up their nests again in the few large trees out front. They chatter and swoop low when we walk underneath to the mailbox. The ground squirrels dart across the road, tempting fate. This is springtime in the West, which they know so well.  These are the rhythms buried deep into their psyche's and what will come back to them in sudden snatches when they are grown. 

So the sometimes soggy, always exuberant, Midwest springtime meant something different to them than it did to us no doubt. They thought it was beautiful, if a little foreign.  It did not trigger any long forgotten memories for them however. Lovely as it was, it was not home for them.  I enjoyed sharing it with them but it was wonderful coming home again and seeing them slip eagerly into their routine once more. Be it ever so humble… : ) 

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Tess, once again proving that the ninth child does not in fact get photographed less than first child lol!

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Betty, please…

So Drew Carey was right.  Cleveland rocks!  Last week saw four of the most restful, laughter-filled days I have enjoyed in a loooong time.  You can forget about pictures of Cleveland hot spots (though there are pics to come) because Rebecca and I spent the better part of the week in our jammies with mugs in hand while kids played game after game – ball games, board games, animal games, Star Wars……

For days I sat and nursed the baby while Rebecca refilled my cup with this addictive tea.  Seriously addictive.  I haven't drunk much tea in recent years but now cannot seem to begin the day without a cinnamon fix.  And you know you must wind down at dusk with chatter fueled by Five O'Clock decaf.  Starbucks has nothing on Rebecca's Five O'Clock, I am telling you. 

And chatter we did. We talked and talked and talked some more. We talked about James Taylor, secret fears, marriage, family, food, high school.  We covered everything under the sun but, funny, homeschooling didn't really come up much.  Warm conversation continued into the wee hours while we rocked sleeping little ones and fought off sleepiness, trying not to miss one minute.  It was like a giant slumber party and I was sorry when it ended. 

The kids are campaigning for me to try to reproduce the oven puff pancakes they loved there.  I promised to try but I am pretty sure I will never reach for my spatula again without laughing myself silly over Rebecca's perfect deadpan of Penny Marshall saying,  "LUCKY lucky, for the next ten minutes EVerything comes with pancakes."  Lucky we are indeed to have friends like this.  It is a rare blessing. 

Thank you, my friend.

contentment at home

There was a column in a periodical I subscribed to years ago (no longer in print) that was called What is in Your Hand?  Instead of planning for future projects which necessitated more purchases it gave innovative ideas for what might already lay beneath your nose. It helped me to look around before looking at the store.  It also helped me to see the abundance that was already mine.  

It was during that time that I wrote an article or two for a homesteading newsletter.  Newsletter – like typed in a farmhouse kitchen and stapled and mailed. : )  It was not my farmhouse though.  I sent my contribution from a tiny duplex on a military base.  The gist of those articles was about doing what you could where you were.  I could not harvest potatoes but I could bake a loaf of bread.  Milking a cow was out of the question but hanging cloth diapers on the line was not.  There were no chickens from which to gather eggs but there were sprouts in the windowsill.  

Made From Scratch encourages people to think in these terms. It is motivational for those who long for the farm but look out their windows across rooftops.  I think the larger message applies to all of us, wherever we live.  Grow where you are planted – literally and figuratively.  Every little step towards intentional living has the potential to bring meaning and satisfaction to our days.  We are not left with only our dreams of a someday house but instead have endless opportunities to be more self sufficient and hands on today. There is a reason we woke up where we did. Surely we are exactly where God wants us to be today.  With that truth in mind, we can find our happiness right here at home and 'dance with it':

"I think the real trick to finding that sense of satisfaction is to realize you don’t need much to attain it. A window-box salad garden and a mandolin hanging on the back of the door can be all the freedom you need. If it isn’t everything you want for the future, let it be enough for tonight. Living the way you want has nothing to do with how much land you have or how much you can afford to spend on a new house. It has to do with the way you choose to live every day and how content you are with what you have.

If a few things on your plate every season came from the work of your own hands, you are creating food for your body, and that is enough. If your landlord can be sweet-talked into some small backyard projects, go for it with gusto. If you rode your bike to work, trained your dog to pack, or just baked a loaf of bread, let it be enough. Accepting where you are today — and working toward what’s ahead — is the best you can do. Maybe your gardens and coops will outgrow mine, and before you know it you’ll be trading in your Audi for a pickup. But the starting point is to take control of what you can and smile with how things are. Find your own happiness and dance with it."   – Jenna  Woganich,  Made From Scratch  excerpted here


baking that loaf with the little ones…

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Purposing and re-purposing

There is nothing more fun than using things in unexpected ways.  This is doubly true if chalkboard paint is involved.  Y'all know I have a bit of a fascination with chalkboards. <g>  Well, check these out.  Bless This Nest made a gorgeous chalkboard out of an old silver tray.  She got the idea here.  This isn't her first erasable project though.  Here is here snazzy pantry door.

While you are there you might enjoy the Phillip's family reflections about how to show love in the home.  While these pointers are aimed at parent-child communication I think spouses would do well to practice saying – and meaning – those things:

* I enjoy being with you

* I like watching you grow into what God wants you to be

* I like who you're becoming

* I think you have good ideas

* I forgive you 

* I love you for who are (as in, instead of for who I want you to be) 

* I support you in the things you enjoy

our domain

"Ladies, our homes are our domain to tame. And this isn't a one time project. Just like child training requires constant upkeep, so do our homes. Never stop thinking about what you might try next. Rearrange furniture and try out new colors in your mind. Enjoy the challenge of organizing and making lovely on a budget. Rise with a smile to the job of daily tasks mixed with long term projects. Be the queen of your home who oversees all, as well as the sweet servant who washes the floors.


…the environment that you surround yourself with and the attitude that you wear each and every day can have either a negative or positive effect on your own, as well as each person in your family. Your mindsets, moods, energy levels, and productivity will be impacted by your surroundings. The more organized and lovely you make your home, the more you will enjoy your work and rest in it.

and another thought- 

"Where there are no oxen, the manger is empty, but from the strength of an ox comes an abundant harvest." Prov 14:4

God is saying, "Chin up, Honey. If you didn't have any children you wouldn't have any mess." 
He is reminding us that without oxen there is no manure and I guess you could say the same about children and dirty diapers. We don't want to complain about our blessings. The messes are a result and a part of the blessing!"



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