Attitudes

Coming on the heels of St Valentine’s day last week our reading yesterday came from 1Corinthians. It reminded me of a wonderful essay written by Carole Thaxton of Konos:

I Corinthians 13 for Home Schooling Moms and Dads

By Carole Thaxton, co-author of KONOS Character Curriculum

Though I teach with the very best skills,
But do not have love,
I am just drawing attention to myself.
And if I have experience, and knowledge of all the best techniques, And test results proving my effectiveness, But do not have love, I am wasting my time. And if I work hard, sacrificing all my money, my time, and my energy But do not have love, It adds up to nothing.

The loving teacher is patient with her children, allowing them to learn according to their God-given temperaments and developmental rates. She is kind, treating her children respectfully. She does not compare herself with others. She does not brag about her accomplishments, and is not smug about teaching her own children. She does not try to be like anyone else, but acts appropriate to the way God made her. She is not irritable and pushy and insistent upon making her children fit into her lesson plans. She is more concerned with promoting truth and beauty than with criticizing those who do not. She perseveres in developing her own character, believing that God’s ways are always best. She is not a quitter.

Love never fails.
If there are creative ideas, they will be replaced.
If there are great curricula, they will be superseded.
If there are effective techniques, they will be improved.
All that we know now is only a part.
Only later will God reveal education at its best.
When I was a child, I had unrealistic expectations.
As an adult, I know better.

Now abideth faith, hope, and love, these three;
But the greatest of these is love.

Copyright – KONOS, Inc. 1989, 1999

The things we do for love

Val Valentine’s Day began in the wee hrs this yr with my bum back. We had snow the night before and expected to have our party canceled so my early morning insomnia didn’t seem too intrusive.  Not until the call that is. The roads were better than expected so at 730am the party was declared on again and we decided to make the trek to Denver with friends. I jumped in the shower and try as we may we were running pretty late getting there. At 10:20 with 15 miles to go it was pretty clear we were only going to make the second half of the event but a quick glance at the faces in the rear view mirror assured me it was better to press on than to go back. On we went and they skated with their friends til noon.

We decided that since we rarely get to the north side of town we would stop by some stores we don’t often get to.  For mom that meant talking the children into perusing the aisles of the really good scrapbook store. <g>  Twenty minutes and a stack of vintage style paper later I was a happy camper and they were no worse for wear. We planned a quick run into the school supply store nearby to get Alannah the next Key To books. We got way sidetracked by their new toy wing however! WAY sidetracked! Math, smath. You should have seen those toys!

First stop was the train table. I have been fascinated by Brio-compatible trains since the big boys were little. They never did get a set but boy has the train selection expanded. Kieran was enthralled with the low train table as I worked the shelves. My favorite game was Logico, which has cards with matching and other games for non readers. It is ingenious with no little parts to lose and no electric gadgets to wear out or break. I think Brendan can use this before too long.

Aidan and the girls meanwhile were standing open-mouthed near the resin toys.  Now I have read all the compelling arguments for wooden toys. I love wooden toys. Still, we were all suckers for the perfectly scaled little knights and fair maidens and Moira asked to run back to the van for her purse. She bought a set of the most realistic tiny farm animals you ever saw, complete with a dairy goat. Alannah worked her way through the horses and dollhouse miniatures and decided to go home and compare prices on Amazon. An hr later we left the store with our heads full of ideas. Oh, and some math books lol!

A_val Allen surprised us at home with Valentine gifts for all. The girls got jewelry and the boys all got chocolate. I got the most incredible set of cashmere/silk blend jammies. My word! They are soooo comfortable! Gotta love the man. <g>

This morning we spent a considerable amount of time glued to the machine here learning the differences between 1/12, 1/16, 1/32 and 1/64 scale. Whew! Fwiw 1/12 is the standard dollhouse collectible size and that was the final decision the girls made. Breyer has horses in that size with perfectly formed little hay bales and wheelbarrows. Schleicht has equally impressive little chickens and fox terriers that are in the same size. A plan was launched to build a miniature empire and allowances were pooled to begin. Kieran is using his birthday money to get some trains. We found some very helpful train track layouts online to get us started.

That was our little holiday rabbit trail. I hope you had an equally pleasant week! We are back to our Konos units this week also and I hope to get in a note about that shortly.

Slice and Dice

Fridge_2  Here is the rest of the follow up on the freezer cooking. A mixed bag to be sure as I wrote earlier. Some things have worked out rather well however. Best move – getting back to processing food upon bringing it in the door from the van. We got away from that after Tess because the kids were unloading food and it ended up going straight to the fridge in original store bags. Problem there is that every time you need a vegetable you must wash and peel and trim. There was a lot of waste and mess in the fridge too. With this many people in and out of it we had to clear it out and wash it weekly which was a bit demoralizing. This way we take the food out of the grocery bag, wash, peel, trim and store it in plastic or glass container.  I would prefer more glass since I am a bit of a plasti-phobe but will take what we can get for now. The fridge looks sooooo much better and is staying much tidier even at week’s end.

An interesting side note – it seems every few years all of a sudden nothing seems to be working well logistically. It occurred to me about ten years ago it was because while our family was growing our stuff wasn’t. The result was growing pains which I hadn’t really planned for – the pancake griddle’s size was slowing down breakfast prep, the serving bowls no longer held all of the prepared dish, etc. Then there is the perennial problem of staying stocked up in flatware and glasses. ; )  Up side was I realized it wasn’t me being disorganized, it was a practical problem that could be solved by scaling up. We are in that place again so a trip to the kitchen ware section is on order.

alright, Miss Tess is hungry on that note.  : )

Go ‘Cats!

2006_07team Thought I would share a pic of number one son’s basketball team. Number one son would be the good-looking dude in the front row with the (ahem!) facial hair. Agh! Although the news is that I would probably take the beard deal over the newest hair adventure.  Apparently, the $4 barber’s clipper guard slipped off and she accidentally shaved one side of his head. Having inherited his mother’s quick thinking he apparently decided now would be a good time to try that mohawk. Yes you heard that right, grandma! He had her do the other side and call it good. He says it will grow out. In time.

It’s a phase right?  Someone tell me it’s a phase…… ; )

Anyway, we are so thrilled to see the boy sporting team colors. He is winging his way across the country this semester playing for the U of A. We love you Colin!

The Children’s Hour

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Between the dark and the daylight,

when the night is beginning to lower,

comes a pause in the day’s occupations,

that is known as the children’s hour.

-Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

Admittedly the children’s hour is not always the best time of day for us. It is ‘betwixt and between’ with energy levels dropping and yet much left to do before heading for bed.  Yesterday I stole into the living room to nurse the baby at just this time. These are the pictures that caught my eye out of the back windows. It was just what I needed to recharge and carry on with evening chores.

I wonder how many times I have missed this sight while rushing to prepare dinner or gathering up the last piles of folded laundry? This week’s goal is to consider which things can be done in the morning to make this time of day run smoothly, whether it is setting up the crock pot, making the salad, or laying out pjs after bed making, because hey, we really don’t want to miss this. : )

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Teacher Training dates

There are some online teacher training program beginning shortly for those who have a heart for hands-on learning but could use a bit of inspiration and guidance along the way. First, the Montessori album class will be starting up again on March 1st. Karen shares 3 pages from her albums each week along with explanations. Cost is $10/mo or $30 for the quarter I believe. 

Next, and this is short notice, Jessica Hulcy begins the next virtual Konos co-op on Monday. Cost is $30/mo for a semester long program. She gives detailed plans, assignments, and teaching tips along with suggestions for field trips and book lists.  There is a yahoo group called Catholics Using Konos for those who want to adapt the program.

more truth and consequences

Great minds. Several of us must be pondering similar thoughts in our hearts lately. Barbara from Mommy Life wrote a very moving post about her estrangement with her adult daughter. Instead of just addressing mothers, she issues a particularly poignant challenge to daughters as well to be merciful and respectful both in and out of the presence of our own parents. Don’t miss this one!