Fall Festival – Ogden Nature Center

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…or (Little) Girls' Night Out. We like to take a couple kids at a time out for special fun events that might be more relevant to just them – a particular movie or concert or whatever.  When their daddy was out of town Alannah and I took the little girls to the fall festival at the nature center.  Brendan was on the fence and decided against going in the end.  

The nature center is one place that always feels like home to me.  In all our freakishly mobile married life we have never lived in the same place a second time.  

Ever. 

Never, ever. 

I can't really stress enough how different it is to be back in a place you once lived very long ago.  Many things have changed.  The nature center has not. We came every month when the older boys took classes here.  It is something of a comfort to me to be here again.  A rare concrete link to that other life. 

On this night there was cotton candy and game playing and wildlife shows until well after dark. Very exciting when you are 8.  Or 48.  : )  

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Command Center

It's up! (mostly)  Better yet – it's working. : )  Three cheers.  Seriously I do cheer because as big of a deal it is to set up a home management system in the first place it is even more daunting to reinvent it every couple years in entirely new communities and homes. 

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One of the pins that jumped out at me some months ago was a manipulative system that would serve as an at-a-glance for the big rocks like dog care, piano practice, bedroom tidying, a focus chore, vitamins and the like. I loved this idea  except my kitchen is not as cute and colorful and contemporary. Our kitchen isn't even actually the color it most likely will be once we paint.   This was closer but was larger than my wall and more construction than I had oomph for.  

In the end I kept the cookie sheet idea (less than $1 at Walmart) and left them unfinished since the wall is not repainted yet and it is right near the appliances which are steel. Kieran painted the letters to match. (Walmart too) Probably the sticker phrase might have been nice since the wall morphed into more than chores but this is done and done is good. And remember – we applaud and encourage kid work, versus improve upon it. 

We bought a couple packs of plain wood discs and he painted those. I had putzed around on the computer making circle templates and typing the tasks out and then threw my hands up.  Couldn't pick colors (see above).   Then we were at Michael's  and found the pack of chalkboard sheets for less than $10 and it was settled. (I am sorry I can't find them online to link) Instead of trays for individual people we have topical boards – menu, appointments, to do, chores. We got chalkboard paint for the discs since I clearly have commitment issues. And love my chalk pen.  We put magnetic tape on the back of the discs so we can move them around the sheets.

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While I am on an organization tear I have been listening to some podcasts and working on my binder some.  Almost attended this conference online but life…I don't know how people with children listen to these things live.  They need to broadcast between midnight and 6am for me to do that.  I work days ; D  I did listen to this motivational link from them on very early morning.  Good stuff.  Still, honestly I read faster than view.  For me it has been counter-productive to join groups and forums so probably I will just continue to purchase written work from selected speakers.  

It's funny to note after all these years of following the work of domestic "experts" that they tend to fall into some generally identifiable groups.  There is the group that is very sober and serious about homemaking. Task oriented.  Often virtue and vice are woven into the discussion and there is a moral overtone to the systems.  It is serious business.  

There is the chill group. The girls just wanna have fun. The mantra is that life is too short to spending housekeeping.  The secret of happiness, they proclaim, is to Let it Go. Don't worry, be happy. 

Then there is the marketing and productivity camp. Sort of hyper-productive.  And perky.  The mantra being LET'S DO ALL THE THINGS.  Really fast. With good hair. 

It helps to ascertain which camp has produced the materials or methods you are considering to be sure they mesh well with your personality, learning style, and wallet. 

The most helpful resource I tapped into this week was Flylady's homeschool journal.  Her stuff is so familiar it's comforting.  And in this case free too! Of particular note were the before bed and daily routines lists.  They are going to be incorporated into my command wall. 

So that's all for now.  Just a glimpse and random organizational thoughts as we rebuild our systems here. 

Mermaids

September was chock full which is why I am here on the last day catching up.  One of the highlights was the girls' neighbor friend's birthday party.   We mostly do family parties at home so it was a real treat for them to go to an "official" party with friends.  They began to plan as soon as they got the invitation in hand.  That invitation was carried around and read and reread daily. 

When we learned it was to be a mermaid party I knew exactly what we would bring. I have gone a little Pinterest crazy since returning the US.  We saw this DIY mermaid play dough gift set months ago but things like "one small battery operated mermaid" or "aquarium fern" would completely sideline the project living overseas.  Here, however, a stop into the Dollar Store netted most of what we needed. 

The girls made no-bake play dough together.  It worked. 

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Then we assembled the kit. 

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Got their mermaid tails on.  : ) 

If you were wondering if September was warm enough for a pool party in Utah the answer is oh yes.  I am sure we will be done with winter long before it is actually over but summer has definitely hung on a loooong time. 

If you are wondering if my life is magically blessed with oodles of spare time to DIY the answer is definitely not.  It may have been smarter to purchase a gift and take one thing off our plates.  It is important to me to teach the children that – when possible – it is a beautiful thing to put a little of yourself into a gift, no matter how imperfect and humble they turn out. It is NOT actually always possible to do this.  Since we had a window of time one morning though, it was worth the effort. 

 

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The little girls daily schedule is very gentle and undercommitted. (thank goodness!) Instead of a fixed list of activities we try to do a 'fun day' on a regular basis. This week we took them to the State Fair. It has been years since our last visit and they have no recall at all. 

This was a perfect iconic fair day.  Animals, exhibits, rides, and fair food. Fabulous break for all of us.  

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    Thats my guy.  Nope, you volunteered. You're stuck now. ; ) 

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How I Spent My Summer Vacation – The Badlands

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We are back to school officially and I am LOVING it.  Now if I just had about 4 or 5 more hours in every day or if sleep were more optional than it is for me life would be pretty ideal.  As it is, I make notes and compose posts that never see the screen because yeah…. sleep.  Food. Sports. 

Since I am this far behind I figured I could just roll all those unpublished summer posts into the ubiquitous back-to-school essay theme this week.  The Badlands trip was incredible.  Temperature and timing came together to make for a perfect visit that started out nicely enough and got better by the hour. 

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coming and going

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That's my husband coming down street.

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This is me saying, "Hey," sort of wistfully in passing.  When my Gram was flustered she would say she didn't know if she was coming or going.  We've got that goin' on all over right now with football practices and kids' jobs and college.  After some strategy-by-text (ie: I am off work in five minutes. Where are you and which direction am I heading?) we divided up the late afternoon/early evening runs today. 

Do I love this?  No. Do I think kids need to run around this much?  No, again.  But it is what we have collectively decided was right for this particular season.  We are all healthy and the sun is shining and this is NOT a bad way to suffer – as I remind myself when I pass my husband on the road. 

We will all end up at the same place by day's end after all.  Life is good. 

Summer in Salt Lake City

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A walking tour of Salt Lake City is what some of us decided on for Saturday. We haven't explored downtown much since we moved back and not by foot much at all.  It's been on the list of things to get to.  The forecast was 90s for highs so we headed out late afternoon to avoid the worst of the heat.  (Yes it's a "dry heat" but hey, that's hot) 

The tour commenced in the car whilst the driver (aka me) wandered around downtown looking for a place to park.  This took a long time. Imagine a long, long time of me making discouraging comments about my ability to locate such a spot, the other drivers, and the unfortunate placement of detour signs.  I am so not the person for that job. I can't spot the spots until I am right up past them.  Easily overstimulated.  Poor sense of direction.  Just not my strong suit all around.  So the parking part was not fun. 

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The walking with the camera part was more fun. It always is. : ) We started from west Temple Square. 

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Checking directions and where to find the Apple Store and dinner.

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We spent some time shopping at City Creek which is about as lovely as it gets. Feels way more like a European market town than an outdoor mall.  BUT it has West Elm and Anthropologie.  Win, win.  I found two books we are going to talk about more this week at Anthropologie of all places.  I am a little obsessed with them.  More to follow. 

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Walking towards the Salt Palace.

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The Capitol Theater is being reno'd and the sidewalk opposite was as well unfortunately.  Such a fabulous facade even if I can only share a peek of it.  It was just cotton candy colored wonderfulness.  Like a vintage carousel on a wall. 

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Oldest and youngest sons : ) 

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We stopped for dinner and then walked back to the van.  It was absolutely ideal weather by then.  Balmy without a hint of breeze.  That meant the reflecting pool at Temple Square was able to do its job nicely.  After waiting for it to settle again after a certain 10yo tossed a pebble in. ; D

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There is never enough time when you see your adult kids. This is the pain of this stage of life as opposed to the sheer exhaustion of the early years of parenting. It's what causes old moms to say all those annoying things about cherish the moment and these days are over too fast and blahblahblah.  We know it's annoying.  We can't stop ourselves.  The words tumble out of our mouths even while our inner younger mom selves remember exactly how exasperating those comments were.  But for real, y'all.  You become greedy with these moments that once seemed to defy all laws of time passage.  

These were my moments this weekend.  They are over now but they were wonderful.