So it was one of those days

Days in plural perhaps. Our technology has failed in a series – first the iphoto, then the car needed a jump (as the seven of us were loaded, buckled, and heading out to the midwife), and the dishwasher died. Worst of all, the electric fence won’t charge mysteriously. We replaced the battery, checked for weeds and other obstructions. No luck. this is a bad thing because goats need to be outside. They will need a goatherd this week. I bet the Amish don’t have these problems. Sometimes I wish we hadn’t ever begun to rely on these “helps” because it is such a disruption when they peeter out on us.

Nevertheless we ended the week in a whirlwind of activity. I gutted the little boys room – again. Made a command decision that we are done storing multiple sizes of clothing. If you are the person who asked me how I handle stored clothes, the answer is “not very well”. I manage the possessions we use daily just swell. Those that are to be sorted and stored and rotated regularly make my head spin, particularly when children periodically feel compelled to rummage through the storage. (why oh why?) So I have bagged a good deal of it up to return it to thrift shop circulation this week.

The girls arrived in from camp around dinner time yesterday. Woo hoo! Alannah had a quick turn for her next week of travel with her Dad.

Today was rough. Between the clothes sorting and the dishwasher fiasco and getting them out the door at 5am I should have seen what was coming and just stayed home. I hate to do that though so I packed us all off to church. Got there 45min early because I hadn’t gotten the note about choir practice being cancelled. Brendan was out of sorts which didn’t bode well. The boys had class afterwards but by then I was done in and my blood sugar was bottoming out. We went home.

Brendan, despite his inexplicable behavior has a way of stopping you in your tracks. I overheard him talking to Moira about his hair. He remarked that hers was brown. That got him thinking of his apparently. He told her “I have yellow hair on my head…and it is boo-da-ful”. I had to smile. I had to slow down.

It is funny how things can turn around if you do just slow down and take a deep breath. I am reading a wonderful book I hope to quote from this week about doing just that. I reminded myself about the passages advising doing one thing at a time. I reminded myself about the articles the Gypsy Lady and I have shared this week about childcare and keeping everyone close at hand. I did both. We made dinner together. I read them read our new library books during dinner. We cleared the table and Colin took them out to play. A cool breeze swept through the kitchen and I dove in to those dishes, by hand. It was slow but it was therapeutic. The warm water, the children’s voices wafting in here and there. I felt my breath coming slower and deeper. All is well.

And now, I need to round up that ‘boo-da-ful’ little man and his compadres from the advancing darkness, wrap them in superhero jammies and tuck them in bed, smelling that yellow hair and reminding myself how really lucky I am. That is my next “one thing” tonight, one in series of many things I hope not to lose sight of in a flurry of activity and minor frustrations that life can become if we aren’t mindful.

4 thoughts on “So it was one of those days

  1. I’m glad I’m not the only one who feels like I’m swimming in clothes to be sorted, put back in this container, this kid’s growing out of, this kid’s growing into….AHH! Thanks for sharing your post about today.

  2. They are so boo-ta-ful aren’t they? I washed dishes by hand for over a year. And you know what, the dishes were clean! and we talked more with the kids while doing that endless task. Many problems can be solved over a sink full of dishes, and prayers whispered. I hope you are having a quiet week this week.

  3. Glad I am not the only one either…I feel better now, thank you ;o)
    We have been out of a dryer for 3 weeks! I have never seen Mt Washmore reach such heights ..not to mention the piles in the bedroms…sheesh! We made a makeshift line in the back yard that isn’t really all it is cracked up to be. It could never hold enough. It is hard to save the dry stuff from the dirt when oh so helpful hands are doing their chores… I am so behind in laundry…why are there still sweaters and turtlenecks making the rounds through the laundry machine? Why 3 weeks? It took 1.5 to find the delivery receipt from last year and the rest to land an appointment…I have containers of laundry I hope to place in a rescue mission by tomorrow night. So yeah…technology is great but how I miss the downstairs maid ;o) Maybe it would be better if I really really scaled down the clothing…even in the storage bins…they do have a way of messing themselves up…mysteriously ;o)
    When I was having a bad night sleeping and couldn’t get my body to get into a sleep mode, I started some kind of pencil puzzle and I realized after a time I stopped focusing on me so much and feeling so out of it. I think something slow and deliberate really does something to help reach some kind of equilibrium again….especially when pregnant IMHO…
    …now that this is looking more like a blog post…LOL!…

  4. Bless you! The dishwasher is… Mom! But, you know what? We lived in a house for 2 years without one, and it got so I didn’t mind doing them by hand at all. In fact, I kinda looked forward to it. Exactly like you said. Time to slow down, time to chat with my drier-child and my putter-awayer… I have a dishwasher now, but don’t know that it does a better job on the dishes ~ or our collective psyche.

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